School violence is a long-standing problem, and children who like to abuse are usually affected by their parents and the environment in which they grew up, and they achieve their goals through violent means and gain satisfaction through the process of bullying others.
Children who are usually easily bullied at school usually have some commonalities.
Weak physique, relatively introverted personality, lack of self-confidence, and in the face of difficulties like to choose to escape and seek perfection. So if we want our children to avoid being bullied at school, we should first start from these three aspects.
First, a healthy and robust physique
Having a healthy and strong physique is the greatest source of self-confidence for children, and by encouraging and guiding children to actively participate in sports and love physical exercise. Support or accompany children to run outdoors, play with their peers, reduce the time spent watching TV and playing mobile phones at home, and carry out physical exercises such as basketball, football, and roller skating.
In addition to ensuring physical health and reducing diseases, these exercises can make children more controlling of themselves, and a strong body is also the root of children's inner strength.
Second, lively and cheerful personality
Personality is innate, but it can be influenced and changed through the environment and education, so the guidance and education of parents is essential, and the influence of parents' words and deeds on children is crucial.
Parents who usually have a strong personality and often yell and reprimand their children are more likely to cause their children to be relatively introverted and lack self-confidence.
and the behavior of the parents. And the way of dealing with people will also have a huge impact on children, if parents treat people and things often only promises, children are difficult to cultivate a strong and brave character, so in peacetime to do a good job of interacting with people is not humble, deal with things calmly and calmly, and set a good example for children.
Third, a strong and courageous will
Finally, parents and schools for the education and support of children, must let the children know that parents and teachers are the strongest backing, if you encounter problems or difficulties must dare to seek help from parents and teachers, while cultivating children's strong and brave, not afraid of difficulties of the will quality.
The child's heart is relatively simple, which requires parents and teachers to carry out correct education and guidance, if it is my child or student, I will definitely tell him, we can not cause trouble, but we can not be afraid of things, the best way to solve the difficulty is to face the difficulty, the way is always more than the difficulty.
If you are bullied by others, you must first learn to protect yourself, learn to avoid or push the other party away to protect yourself, and then tell the teacher or parents, so that adults can deal with and solve the problem. However, if the matter is not resolved, then treat others in the same way as a person and treat them as a person, and we must let others know that you are not a good bully, just as Chairman Mao said during the period of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea: "Fight with one punch, so as not to come with a hundred punches."
I hope that these suggestions can help everyone and better cultivate children to spend a healthy and happy campus career, if there is any deficiency, please leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
"Education is a long run", with the Jun