Text/Wei Chen
The sentence written by Qin Guan in "Queqiao Immortal": "If the two loves are long, they are in the twilight of the dynasty." "I don't know how many simple people have been pitted, and how many sea kings have been cheaper."
It was the cowherd and the weaver girl who did not seek twilight, because they could not ask for it, so they had to accept the tragic setting of seeing each other once a year.
However, you and I are ordinary people, and what barrier is greater than the heavens to make each other unable to see each other.
The essence of love is companionship, and if you can't accompany it, you are mostly playing a rogue.
There is ultimate loneliness hidden in the depths of human beings, and it is precisely because we have to fight loneliness that feelings arise.
Companionship is an expression of love, where a person's heart is, where time and gaze are.
Good love is to accompany you to old age, not "always have your place in my heart".
The best way to identify a lie is to let the other party prove it with practical actions.
In love, if one party betrays the other. The time of the betrayer will seem very tense, after all, everyone is an ordinary person, and multiple feelings are carried out at the same time, and it is inevitable that they will be lacking in skills.
Good love can withstand the challenge of separation, but it will not easily let the feelings fall into challenge.
If a person always wants to escape, it must not be pure love.
Love has a great attraction. Two people who are genuinely in love with each other usually cannot accept a long separation.
The ancients said: "One day is not seen, such as every three autumns." ”
This is the truest feeling.
Companionship is the easiest and most difficult thing in the world. If the heart is in one place, the companionship is as good as it is, and if the heart has other things, the companionship makes people physically and mentally exhausted.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "I really hope that someone, when I say it's okay, know that I'm not really okay, and when I force a smile, know that I'm not really happy." ”
Everyone's life is difficult to escape. It's just that people are usually reluctant to show their helplessness in front of others.
In life, someone is willing to accompany you, which is the luckiest thing.
Because I really understand, I will be sad.
There are many ways to confess in this world, the most down-to-earth, the most credible, the most sincere is to prove yourself with actions.
You must have heard the saying that companionship is the longest confession of affection.
Affection can be pretended, but time does not lie. Long-term blandness is better than vigorous pursuit.
Know that everyone's energy is limited, how enthusiastic at first, how cold it will end up.
Stable feelings are the most beautiful feelings.
The truest form of feelings is the desire to be with you every second.
Those who do not seek twilight are either deceiving themselves or absent-minded.
Poignancy is not beautiful, and mutilation has never had anything to do with beauty.
Be sober enough not to always believe in unrealistic explanations.
Regarding feelings, the truest feelings in a person's heart are the standards for measuring their good or bad.
What love needs is not commitment. Almost all love that is maintained with commitment is filled with distrust between each other.
Any interpersonal relationship is essentially an exchange relationship.
In love, the most unique emotions in human nature are exchanged, and the love that cannot be accompanied is empty talk.
Feelings need realistic equality, not wishful thinking.
Long-lasting love needs to support each other.
Everyone has shortcomings, even some shortcomings, that cannot be changed in a lifetime.
The ancients likened lovers to winged birds. The so-called winged bird is two birds with only one wing each, accompanying each other and supporting each other, so as to achieve flight with the help of force.
The essence of love is to help each other. If two people do not see each other for a long time, they cannot help each other at all.
Beautiful love has always pursued the twilight.
All beings are laymen, and it is difficult for anyone to really be able to even look at each other from a distance.
As long as the hearts are together, even if they don't meet, the feelings will not change. This is an unrealistic point.
For ordinary people, love that cannot be spent day and night is ultimately inseparable.
Love represents warmth. If people are not together, how can we talk about warmth?
The chai rice oil and salt in life will not break people apart, and what can really break people's hearts is that they cannot accompany each other.
Everyone is changing every day, and the gulf of years between two people who have not been in touch for a long time is really inevitable.
The writer Suzen said: "The most extravagant person in the world is the person who is willing to spend time with you." Whoever has time is valuable, and giving time to you is equivalent to giving your own world to you. The world is so big, someone is willing to accompany you, what a great love. People always add various meanings to 'love', in fact, the interpretation of this word is also very simple, that is: there is a person, until the end did not go. ”
Companionship is warm, and it means that there are people in this world who are willing to give you the best thing, and that is time.
If someone is willing to spend time on you, the other person must care about you.
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About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.