We all know that on the hukou book,
Write about the relationship between the family,
Have you ever wondered:
Suddenly, one day,
In your identity, the word child no longer appears.
There is a hot search on Sina these days
It has always occupied the top spot and remained high.
It's actually a video.
It's just a 3-minute clip from a variety show.
But the people who watched it had mixed feelings...
The video is talking at the dinner table
Gao Yalin, an actor who played Xia Donghai in "Family with Children",
and another young actor, Jiao Junyan.
Jiao Junyan
Participated in a show "My Girl",
She's a young actress,
But also after 30 years old,
In the show, he has been forced to marry by his parents.
She always had a question in her mind,
I also believe that it is the question of many unmarried girls.
"Why do people get married?"
I'm an independent individual,
(Married) may be to meet the expectations of parents,
Be a good child in the hearts of parents.
Gao Yalin did not face her problems directly,
It's about talking about one.
"The Subject of Death"
"Parents are here, for example, you are 30 years old, you will not wonder,
Even if you're 60 years old, you don't care. ”
Because you always think there's a wall,
Stand in the way of you and death,
You can't see Death.
When your parents are gone, you face death.
"It doesn't matter how old you are.
Like I am now, my parents are gone,
You can see your end clearly. ”
Why do we think that the old man is always there to urge,
Because they're starting to face death.
They always want to do what is not yet finished.
I feel that there are not enough days,
Because I saw the god of death, I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to catch up with that step.
This conversation,
It resonated with many people on Weibo.
truly
What is Death?
No one knows.
Only the moment when the parents fell,
Only to truly realize what death is...
Recently
"Little brother" Fei Yuqing released his retirement statement.
What touched people was that he wrote:
"When my parents died, I suddenly lost the belonging of my life.
Without their attention to share,
The gorgeous stage made me feel even more lonely. ”
Regardless of whether our parents have a good relationship with us,
Their deaths will have an impact on our hearts:
The most intimate being in the world, gone,
We are like a tree uprooted.
Rootless, lost, lonely.
There is a passage in "Adult Orphans":
We don't really come of age until our parents die.
It was the deepest and most inexplicable pain in life.
After everything was taken care of, we dressed up as adults and returned to the daily track, as if in the past.
However, the endless sorrow did not disappear, but only dived deep into the heart, taking advantage of every unguarded emptiness and waiting for an opportunity.
We thought that as long as we turned around and continued to move forward, the scars would disappear by themselves, but no matter how far we went, we could not escape ourselves.
When loss comes true, only by facing it, accepting it, and soothing it can we transcend this great sorrow and return to life completely.
That last goodbye is that we accompany ourselves and truly face the beginning of adulthood.
—Alexander Levy, "Adult Orphans"
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Some time ago,
A piece of news that touches people's hearts:
There is an 80-year-old man from the lighthouse,
Because of excessive frugality, there is a disease to slow down,
When the result was sent to Shenyang for medical treatment,
The condition has deteriorated.
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However, when the old man left,
Told the two daughters,
The password of her bank card,
It turned out that
There are millions of dollars in deposits.
There is also a property worth 600,000 yuan.
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The daughters cried bitterly!
I thought my mother was so frugal,
I can't save much money either
Didn't expect to save money,
I don't even look at the disease...
While our parents were still alive,
We will always be children.
We can complain about our parents, we can blame,
You can vent, naturally you can also spoil, sell, play cute...
Whenever something happens,
We can leave it alone,
Casually say " ask my father " " ask my mother " ,
It seems that we just have to watch from the sidelines.
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However, time never waits.
You're an adult, and your parents are getting older.
You know that day is fast approaching.
It's a fear that makes you feel powerless.
Fear comes from the unknown.
We have no way of knowing one day we will lose them.
We are afraid that we will not have time to free our hands to embrace them.
We fear once lost,
There is no one else in this world who accepts us so unconditionally.
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So
Please cherish the time with your parents,
It's still too late!
While the parents are still here!
Source: Big River Newspaper