Gao Yalin's childhood experience: a gentle father, a volleyball player dream
In the countryside of Shandong, Gao Yalin grew up in an ordinary peasant family. The father is tall and burly, with a gentle personality, and he especially loves his son Gao Yalin. For the sake of the family, the father is out shopping all the year round, and although he is not around, he will send some local specialties or gadgets to his son almost every month.
Gao Yalin looks forward to opening his father's package every month, there are always various surprises inside, and these small gifts have become a solid bond of friendship between father and son.
The teenager Gao Yalin is fast, has a strong physique, loves sports very much, and is especially fond of volleyball. Every day after school, he always dragged a few good friends to play volleyball on the dirt field in the countryside until it was dark.
The teachers in the township saw that he was so talented in volleyball and recommended him to the county sports school. Soon, Gao Yalin became the main player of the sports school volleyball team with his strong serving and dribbling ability.
In the third year of high school, the county sports school volleyball team won the championship in the provincial competition, and Gao Yalin's outstanding performance attracted the attention of the coach of Beijing Institute of Sport. The coach immediately promised Gao Yalin that as long as he passed the college entrance examination, he could be directly escorted into the volleyball team without passing the physical test and exam.
For Gao Yalin, this is simply a pie falling from the sky, and there is no volleyball player who does not dream of entering the Beijing Sports University for further study.
However, unexpectedly, on the eve of the college entrance examination, Gao Yalin changed his mind and gave up the Beijing Sports Escort, but chose to take the examination of the military academy. Although his father was surprised, he still respected and supported his son's decision, and only told him to be responsible for himself no matter what he did.
At that time, although Gao Yalin lost the opportunity to become a professional volleyball player, he began another unique life journey.
Gao Yalin participated in the repertory troupe and met his favorite girl Shi Wei
After retiring, Gao Yalin joined a repertory troupe and began his acting career. When he first entered the industry, he could only play tricks, and sometimes he didn't even have the opportunity to play tricks, and his life was very difficult.
Most of the friends in the same period have given up and left the circle in groups, but Gao Yalin still gritted his teeth and insisted, he believes that as long as he works hard, he can one day become a supporting role or protagonist.
Just when Gao Yalin was working hard and waiting for the opportunity, he met a special girl. That day, Gao Yalin was drinking tea alone in the teahouse, and suddenly a figure sat opposite him, and when he looked up, he saw that it was a fair-skinned and sweet-looking strange girl.
She sipped her tea quietly, not noticing Gao Yalin's gaze. Gao Yalin saw a different innocent temperament in her at a glance.
Later, Gao Yalin saw this girl in the teahouse many times, and she often seemed to come here alone to drink tea. By chance, Gao Yalin learned that her name was Shi Wei, 11 years younger than herself, and she was a college student.
Shi Wei, who is away from home to study, often comes to the teahouse in his spare time to find a quiet time of his own. After talking to her, Gao Yalin found that she had a lively and cheerful personality, and her tone of speech was brisk, giving people a sense of vitality.
The two began to meet frequently, and Gao Yalin's good impression of Shi Wei deepened day by day. Finally one day, he mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Shi Wei, and fortunately, Shi Wei also liked him.
So, Gao Yalin, who is 11 years younger than Shi Wei, met this special girl at a turning point in his life, and the two hearts were connected together.
Booming business and postponing the birth plan
Gao Yalin and Shi Wei's relationship was smooth sailing, and soon the two entered the palace of marriage. After marriage, Gao Yalin's acting career also ushered in spring. In the popular urban emotional drama "Family with Children", he starred in a gentle and considerate image of a good father, who was deeply loved by the audience and became famous in one fell swoop.
In the play, he needs to hold "children" of different ages and interact with them intimately, successfully creating a warm temperament of his father.
With the popularity of "Family with Children", Gao Yalin has become the ideal perfect husband and father benchmark in the minds of female audiences for a while. Fans of the show have left messages praising him as "really like a father of three children", even though the crew has repeatedly refuted rumors that he has not yet married.
In reality, Gao Yalin and his wife Shi Wei's married life has just begun, and both of them are still very young and have no children. Gao Yalin, who has gained fame and fortune in his career, believes that this is a good time for his career to flourish, and decides to go all out and grasp it well. After discussing with Shi Wei, he decided to actively develop his career first, postpone his plan to have children, and wait for his career to stabilize before having children.
After all, the arrival of a child will consume a lot of time and energy, and Gao Yalin hopes to go all out to devote himself to his acting career. Shi Wei also understood and supported Gao Yalin's thoughts, and the two decided to continue to enjoy life and not discuss the matter of children for the time being.
His father fell ill, and Gao Yalin resumed his family responsibilities
When his career was in full swing, Gao Yalin received the news of his father's illness. After many years of going out to work, Gao Yalin has not been home to visit his father for a long time. When he learned that his father was seriously ill, endless self-blame and remorse suddenly rose in Gao Yalin's heart.
He remembered his father's care and care for him since he was a child, and couldn't help crying.
Gao Yalin immediately asked for leave and came to his father's hospital bed. After many years of not seeing him, the father has lost a lot of weight, his face is full of wrinkles, but he still looks at his son gently.
Gao Yalin held his father's thin hand, and suddenly the bits and pieces of his childhood came to his heart, and he was afraid that this would be the last time he spent with his father.
Gao Yalin decided to quit his job and devote himself to taking care of his sick father. He stayed with the ward during the day and slept on a bench in the hospital at night. His father often had no appetite, so Gao Yalin prepared delicious meals for his father and patiently coaxed him to eat more.
Half a year later, under the careful care of his son, his father recovered some physical strength and was finally discharged from the hospital.
The bits and pieces of the past six months have made Gao Yalin figure out a lot, and he is no longer obsessed with his career, but chooses to return to his family. Shi Wei also reconsidered the birth plan of the two people.
Perhaps, when this winter comes, a new life will be ushered in by their side. Gao Yalin thought that he would be a conscientious and gentle father, like his own father.
After 14 years of marriage, is Gao Yalin okay now?
Gao Yalin has faded out of the entertainment industry in recent years, and lives a peaceful life with his wife Shi Wei. In the blink of an eye, the two have been married for 14 years. Looking at the white hair that was gradually showing signs in the mirror, Gao Yalin understood that youth had left him.
As a public figure, his every move has attracted attention from the outside world, and his pregnancy-free marriage for more than ten years often attracts sideways or strange eyes from others.
Gao Yalin also sighed secretly in the middle of the night, life is like a play, and the script he performed was too bumpy. He would imagine if he had chosen Beijing Sports to develop his volleyball career, or if he had children with Shi Wei earlier, his fate would have been rewritten.
But when I think about it, there are no ifs in life, the past is a foregone conclusion, and the future needs to be created by yourself.
Every now and then, Gao Yalin would gently hug the sleeping Shi Wei and kiss her lightly on her forehead. For many years, Shi Wei has been silently standing behind him, supporting his career and understanding his choice, even if they missed the best childbearing period.
Gao Yalin is grateful to his wife for her dedication over the years, and it is she who has made his life complete.
When Gao Yalin saw the laughing children of his friends, a trace of melancholy would rise in his heart. But he was content and did not regret not having children. He's still doing well, because love is enough.
As long as he and Shi Wei are still together, every bit of every day is worthy of his joy and gratitude. Gao Yalin believes that there is only one season of youth in life, but love can last a lifetime. As long as the two hearts are still closely connected, the seeds of happiness will always exist.
Remorse and remorse, Gao Yalin's life insights
Looking back on his 50 years of life, Gao Yalin can't help but sigh that time has passed, and youth is easy to pass. The ----------+ future in life is not always as good as imagined, and many choices will leave irreparable regrets over time.
But Gao Yalin understands that regret does not help, and only tolerance and acceptance can bring comfort to life.
Gao Yalin once struggled painfully between the choice of the Northern Sports Agency and the choice of military school, and made a decision that changed the trajectory of his life. He also slowed down the pace of childbearing for his career and missed the best childbearing age with Shi Wei.
He even neglected to support his sick father for a long time because he was involved in filming.
These regrets will inevitably come to Gao Yalin's heart in the dead of night, but he knows that regret will not help. There are gains and losses in action, the past choice is a foregone conclusion, only gladly accept it, and continue to move forward is the attitude of life.
Gao Yalin thanked his father for his care and expectations since he was a child, and thanked Shi Wei for his tolerance and support over the years, which is the most valuable wealth in his life. Even if he can't start his life all over again, he can still live a life without regrets.
Gao Yalin no longer runs away from the shortcomings of life, but accepts his imperfections. He gradually understands that the true meaning of life is not fame, fortune and status, but the days when he is in touch with the heart of his beloved.
There is still a long way to go in the future, and he must grasp the present, continue to walk hand in hand with his wife, and spend his old age with laughter and joy.
Life is short, and Gao Yalin no longer regrets having no heirs. He must learn to be grateful, cherish the people in front of him, and live in the moment. He believes that as long as he can continue to live with a positive attitude, the second half of his life can be rich and satisfying.
Gao Yalin's life is not over yet, and there are still infinite possibilities waiting for him to create. As long as he still has a positive and optimistic heart and continues to move forward, the excitement of life will never stop.