Introduction: In the process of the development of children's extracurricular interests, many parents will let their children learn piano, and in children's training and education institutions, piano lessons are the most popular course. In the eyes of parents, piano should be the most decent skill for children, and in many cities, it has almost become a standard specialty.
But not all children are suitable for playing the piano, many children in the process of learning, can not have a long time to persist, generally after a period of study after a period of time to choose to give up. So, parents, those children who have learned the piano and then given up, generally how long have they given up?
In this generation of Xiaobian children, learning piano is still very common, Xiaobian knows a friend who is a piano teacher, and over the years he has also educated and contacted many children who learn piano. In this process, of course, there are also persistence and abandonment, and for those children who have dropped out of school later, the time of persistence is also early and late.
But children who give up learning piano have their own reasons, some children are really forced by their parents to learn, and later due to insufficient enthusiasm for learning, they can only give up in the end. The length of persistence due to different reasons is also different, and we will find that it is mainly divided into three categories:
1, three minutes of heat, the beginning can not continue to learn
These are generally concentrated in some younger children, who are not interested in the piano, but have an unknown sense of curiosity about playing the piano, and are full of interest at the beginning, but after learning, they will slowly become interested. When children's interest in playing the piano is exhausted, they don't want to continue learning.
Therefore, this type of child, basically insist on a semester, or even after a few lessons, want to give up, at the beginning of the parents will ask the child to continue to learn. But this situation generally does not last too long, and in the face of children who have no motivation to learn and do not take classes seriously, teachers will generally negotiate with parents to withdraw, but in this case, children can also learn some skin.
2. Encounter technical bottlenecks in the middle of the way, and finally choose to give up
This type of child's cognition of learning the piano is more to regard it as a learning task of their own, although there are certain interests and hobbies in support, but more to complete the parents' requirements for themselves. Therefore, when these children learn piano, they are generally able to persist until after they are admitted to the level.
But how long it can last, how many levels can be tested, it still depends on the child's personal talent and ability. Some children have a certain talent in playing the piano, but due to the lack of sufficient interest, so in the process of learning the piano, encounter technical bottlenecks, when the exam can not be passed, they will slowly do not want to continue learning, and finally can only choose to give up.
3. Due to academic problems, it is impossible to take care of it and give up
This type of child basically learns piano for a long time, basically have several years or even nearly ten years of piano learning experience, and these children have reached a professional level in the piano, and some will develop in the direction of career. However, some of these children do not take the path of music, so with the development of their studies, it is difficult to take care of them in the end.
When the child is in elementary school, there is still plenty of time, so they can stick to it well, and they also have enough learning interest. But after junior high school and high school, the school becomes heavy, in order to take care of their own learning, and these children who insist on learning on campus will also choose to give up learning piano.
Important note: children learn piano is not everyone can stick to it for a long time, there are many children are in the middle of the choice to give up, and some are three minutes of heat, the beginning of the give up, some children have perseverance, but lack of interest and motivation to learn, when encountering bottlenecks it is easy to give up, but some children are interested in perseverance, but hindered by the problem of learning and choose to give up.
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