It has been three years since the epidemic has developed, and I have carefully thought about the mental journey in the past three years and found that not only the virus has mutated, but my mentality has also mutated.
At the beginning, I thought that this thing would take three months at most, and it would end in the summer, because SARS was almost three months.
Later, I found that not only could not end, it seemed that it might take a year, a year a year, bear with it, otherwise it could still be the same.
Then this year, a lot of people, including me, seriously doubted that the virus would last forever.
In the process, one thing hit me hard.
When Xi'an was locked down before, one of my colleagues because of too much "love" work, the company as home, eat and live in the company, there is nothing at home, after the closure of the community, the family has nothing to eat, it is really called a complete and complete collapse, hard to be hungry for several days.
But the funny thing is that on the third day of hunger, he actually had a feeling of lightening his body and clear brain, and he was not hungry, he felt quite cool, and there was a new state that he had never experienced before.
After getting the food sent by the community, he was once very entangled in whether to eat or not to eat, and felt that after eating, he changed back to his previous state.
Later, I checked it out and said that it was called "light fasting", and supporters felt that it was the best thing in the world, and opponents felt that there was no harm.
Anyway, he decisively clicked on the skill point of "fasting", and since then he has happily cut off every few days.
Despite learning new techniques, he became an avid preparation maniac and went to foreign websites to teach himself relevant courses.
Little friends, you may not know that the foreign doomsday preparation maniacs have developed into a serious state of hard science.
There is that kind of rich "big god", burying a few containers in the ground, leaving ventilation ducts, pouring them with cement, and then preparing a game movie fuel generator coffee drinking water filter inside, and even digging a pit around the fence, if anything happens, bury the anti-infantry mine in the pit, and the whole family hides in the basement.
In addition, the United States has sold the previously abandoned Cold War militia command center and underground ammunition depot to the masses as a doomsday bunker, because the United States has dug more advanced bunkers.
We ordinary people naturally do not need to be so serious, he after serious study, made a plan, I think it is very interesting, share with you, if you think it is useful can refer to.
He kept supplies at home for three months.
For example, basic resources such as instant noodles, salt, oil, bacon, rice, etc., in the worst case, instant noodles and fried rice can resist for two months.
Steak pork stuffed the refrigerator, especially steak, anyway, frozen meat;
There are also a lot of seaweed egg flower soup, all kinds of dried vegetables, yellow cauliflower, dried beans, dried plum vegetables, fungus, vermicelli, rotten bamboo, anyway dry goods area to prepare, there are some vegetables can be frozen, such as tomatoes, do not completely thaw can be cut to make soup scrambled eggs, make pasta.
There are also various essential drugs that can resist three months, vitamins, to prevent the lack of vegetables from getting any strange disease. Also prepare a few thousand dollars in cash.
I used to cook at home, but now I force myself to do it, on the one hand, I will recycle the inventory at home and maintain the habit of buying vegetables continuously, and on the other hand, I will prevent this from happening next time, at least until the end of this epidemic.
And master some necessary cooking skills, similar:
Putting oyster sauce is never wrong;
The world's common formula, eggplant with garlic, onion with meat;
If you want to make the meat tender, you have to learn to sizing, that is, to put aside some egg whites or starch in advance;
Hot pot cold oil, that is, first heat the pot, and then put the oil in;
I also bought a charging treasure the size of a car battery, and if the power goes out, you can use it to charge your phone, boil water for a water heater, charge your laptop, and have several large buckets of water.
Most importantly, if you use gas at home, be sure to prepare the battery and be careful not to fire.
In addition, prepared enough toilet paper, these days there are Changchun netizens feedback finally understand why Americans grab toilet paper.
The people of our country have been protected too well by the government over the years, and they have not experienced the lack of materials for a long time after the hurricane like americans, so the general public does not understand why they love toilet paper so much.
Once this thing is in short supply, the difficulty of life is far greater than everyone thinks, and the community will send vegetables and meat, but it is almost impossible to send toilet paper.
His friend did this and stood up in Changchun for more than twenty days without any pressure.
Our leader heard about this, let the boy write a summary email, forward it to all staff, and suggest that everyone be prepared, after all, once the epidemic occurs, which city is short of manpower, everyone must have a sense of self-help prepared in advance.
Of course, the leader also has a meaning that cannot be said directly, do not affect work and study because of the lockdown, especially the former.
However, after the lockdown of Shanghai this time, there are still colleagues who have not done anything, and his idea is that Shanghai, as the most advanced city in China, will not even be unable to supply its own food.
Then reality punched him hard in the face, and this time it was quite miserable. Who would have thought that in 2022, the Shanghai group is still discussing how to eat enough.
Fortunately, every time I feel that I can't resist it, I can always continue to mix, such as the arrival of the community's dishes, such as the community contacted the courier brother, and the 10,000-piece group purchase, these two days are still very painful.
Not only is he difficult, a venture capital queen, worth tens of billions, the big guy who acquired Yonghui supermarket, lives in the magic capital of Shanghai with hundreds of millions of mansions (the unit price is 200,000 square meters, and it is a super apartment of 800 square meters), these days are also in the group to buy bread and milk on the hot search.
She said that their family has more than a dozen children, so there is not enough to eat, and everyone suspects that the rich people are making up classes in the concentration, almost rushing to the hot search twice.
In fact, think about it slowly, in China's long history, it is basically difficult to maintain the prosperity of the Taiping Dynasty for more than thirty years, even if the Prosperity of Kangqian is also the prosperity of war, in the words of Zhang Hongjie, it is called the prosperity of hunger.
It's just that our generation is lucky enough to be born in a peaceful country and era, and enjoy a long period of peace, I believe that peace will continue, but in the future it may not be as calm as before, and everyone still has to learn to protect themselves.
Looking at the United States, the United States has not fought a war for many years, but it is still abused by ice and snow storms and hurricanes, so their people have a greater sense of worry than us, and they can't move to grab toilet paper.
Food preparation At this point, the most important thing is to go to work well, and these two days I saw a paragraph that is not a paragraph.
There is a netizen to do sales years ago the benefit is not bad, so set a Tesla to walk, now about to pick up the car (Tesla 1000 deposit, the rest of the car to pay), but the work is about to yellow, so ask for help everyone in the end to mention the car.
The following high ticket reply is that it must be mentioned, and the electric car is just going to run Didi.
Some people also say that it is better to turn the car out, and now Tesla has increased its price, there is a difference of 30,000 yuan, just buy an electric donkey to send takeaway.
Many people laughed and laughed and cried.
This shows one thing, now in the era of the pandemic, the most important thing for everyone is to keep their jobs, maintain a steady cash flow, and try to develop some hobbies that save money and are beneficial to physical and mental health.
For example, during this time in Shanghai lockdown, some people have learned PR, some people have learned to draw with the big guy at the B station, and some friends have been fascinated by the ancient skill of practicing words, even if they sit in the car and listen to songs.
In addition, when it comes to physical and mental health, I have my own personal understanding, this time to try to reduce their time on the Internet to accept negative, fragmented messages, especially do not do meaningless arguments with others, I quit Weibo some time ago, and the quality of life has improved significantly.
Now the network mood is very poor, full of a kind of irritable mood, these days to see one thing is particularly disturbing, a 32-year-old woman in Shanghai to make a meal for her child jumped off a building and committed suicide, this matter is also very difficult to understand.
Her family lives in Rainbow Bay, Hongkou, her father with hearing impairment lives alone in Qingpu, a western suburb, after the lockdown she could not deliver food to her father, and no one took orders, on the evening of April 3, she was anxious to find the brother who had been delivering food for her.
The rider heard her anxious, crying voice, immediately softened his heart, and set off at 7 o'clock that night, a journey of 27 kilometers, the last 2 kilometers still had to walk, and finally delivered the order at 11 o'clock in the middle of the night.
Afterwards, she was very grateful and wanted to pay the rider, but the flag bearer insisted on not accepting it, and she really did not want to go, so she recharged his mobile phone with 200 yuan to thank him.
On the evening of April 4, Weibo Big V disclosed that after this incident, it was originally a "heart-warming" story, but no one expected that the development of the incident took a sharp turn after this:
A large number of people accused her of being "a small family is angry" and "bitter and mean and shrewd", and people have gone through all kinds of difficulties and dangers to send 200 people, at least 500.
The follow-up was out of control, all kinds of ugly words gushed out, she seemed to be a moralless person who did not know how to repay the favor, endured thousands of fingers, and finally was crushed and jumped off the building.
This is not an isolated case, there have been many people who have experienced light or heavy Internet violence, including myself, of course, I have been mixed on the Internet for so many years, and my face has long been mixed.
Besides, I will not deliberately look at those insulting remarks, anyway, I can't change anything after reading it, I can only make myself unhappy, just ignore it. If the lady in Shanghai can do without reading Weibo, it is estimated that there will be nothing to do, and she will not be bothered.
However, many people's emotions are easily affected, if you know that you are easy to be affected, just don't look at it, and don't argue with others, this time life has been very hard, there is no need to deliberately find yourself unhappy.
And the network mood is now very unstable, and the big fart is easy to make trouble.
Some time ago, there was also a girl, who originally had depression, because of a comment under a big V blogger, she was scolded thousands of times, and almost did not ease up.
Whether it is moral purity or anonymous violence, every mass of people righteously and sternly condemns online violence, but once a group is formed, it becomes inexplicably manic and becomes part of the violence.
This is not only our country, the whole world is similar, we can't change anything, we can only avoid getting involved. If you get involved, you choose not to look, and if you don't see it, you won't see it.
In addition, topics such as "Chinese medicine and Western medicine", "zero or coexistence", "support for Russia or Ukraine", these topics have basically undergone "concept solidification".
That is to say, after such a long time, everyone has already formed a logical closed loop, and when arguing with each other, they often say nothing, and they can't argue for anything for a week.
So there is no need to argue at all, do you have the time to study the dish is not fragrant?
I understand a truth, you can't convince others, you can only play with people who have the same ideas as you.
Especially in the era of algorithms, your concept is slightly stereotyped, and the algorithm immediately instills a large amount of homogeneous content into you, so that you are convinced of your own ideas, and find that who is different from your own ideas is heretical, and you are eager to burn each other with a literary fire, and you can't do a religious trial, so you are cursed.
Some time ago, when a digital research institute studied algorithms, it conducted a large-scale survey, and was surprised and expected to find that the information seen by people who support Ukraine is that Ukraine must win, and the news that people who support Russia see is that Russia has won.
On the one hand, the algorithm helps you filter once, on the other hand, the brain filters again, and almost no negative information can be listened to.
For many people, their brains lack a firmware, that is, the "ability to be persuaded", under normal circumstances, some people listen to the reason, think that the other party's logic is more rigorous, may be persuaded, but there are still some people whose brains have been solidified, can not be convinced.
Once you are in a hurry, ask whether there is a problem with your position, or simply question whether your statement violates your ancestors, all to this point, and talk about what to talk about.
So the key is to find a small partner who can talk to play, if you really can't find it, learn something new, if you really don't want to learn, play games and watch movies, what to do is better than indulging in fragmented information full of anxiety.
Emotions are both energy, protect your emotions, and do more useful things.
I believe that everyone has an experience, the original state is good, after brushing a bunch of short messages, the whole person is not good, and there is an addiction to this kind of information, and it can't stop, this symptom is especially obvious when you are about to sleep.
We should distinguish clearly that some information has an accumulation effect, that is, every time you read, you will increase some of your knowledge reserves.
But now a lot of fragmented things, the amount of information in those words is very low, the essence is "emotion", by constantly stimulating your emotions, making you angry, excited, depressed, when the brain is dominated by emotions, people are easy to stop, and then very tired.
Product managers who do algorithms are through click rate, like rate, and message analysis (artificial intelligence can already classify posts through semantics and keywords), to confirm whether this information can continue to be seen by more people, and the algorithm can classify the information and push it to the corresponding label people.
Why do you often brush up and can't stop, because the content you see is filtered out of countless contents, and your emotions are pinched to death.
I'm not ready to write more, let's stop here today, and end this article with three sentences.
1, there is a bottom line thinking, this time to do a good job of possible bad situations.
Ordinary people have to take care of themselves, and the government will certainly try its best to help everyone, but after all, there are too many people in mainland cities, and everyone still has to improve their ability to resist risks.
2, let go of anxiety, let go of curiosity, do not consume time and emotions on useless things.
There are some things we can change, so we can change them, but there are still many things that we can't change at all, so simply don't pay attention to and argue, and increase the annoyance.
3, now especially to do more correct things, the right things are the things that can be accumulated.
When the epidemic is over, in addition to witnessing history, I have also improved.
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