Only when the enemy is evenly matched will it last, and it will make sense to run in both directions.
The emotional outlook that Chinese students have received growing up is very interesting, they can't fall in love in high school, and they have to be careful to do it secretly, so as to avoid parents and teachers.
After going to college, the parents who did not let early love before began to desperately urge their children to find a partner, but it was just a stage, why did the attitude turn 360 °?
Why don't you let you fall in love before college, the teacher's reason is very convincing
For the problem of early love, many teachers and parents are working hard to persuade students, in fact, the most fundamental reason is still afraid of delaying students' learning.
After all, before college, students are not yet minors, have not established the correct values and emotional views, and have not yet reached the age of responsibility, so for the sake of students' future, they will be forbidden to fall in love.
However, the young boys and girls who are in the youth and ignorance are the age when the love sinus first opens, and good love will also make people progress and grow, and sometimes the more they oppose the prevention, the more they play a bad effect, which also requires parents to guide education reasonably.
In response to the problem of early love, a wise teacher gave a different angle of reason, which was very convincing and made many parents like it.
The teacher said: Finding the other half is the biggest thing in life, you are so young, even the four options for multiple choice questions are not right, in the face of 1.4 billion people to choose one, you chose the right?
I have to say that the teacher's analogy is also very graphic, and it is reasonable and well-founded to let students put their minds on learning first, which can be described as a really high emotional intelligence education.
Why should I take advantage of college to find love? People who came over said that they would start fighting for their careers after that
Parents who do not let early love, why when students go to college, they desperately start to urge to find a partner? In fact, the advice of parents is not unreasonable.
Love really has to take advantage of the university period to work hard, students who enter the university campus are adults, and there is no academic pressure brought by the college entrance examination, the three views have also begun to be established during this period, and the students who know each other in the university are of the same frequency and the same conditions.
Wait until you enter the society to talk about the object, you will find that as you get older and more mature, you may not be moved, only the relationship during college is simple and pure, not mixed with too many practical interests.
Many people have also said that they do not fall in love during college, it is more difficult to deal with objects during work, and every day they fight for their careers, and falling in love has become a luxury thing.
There are many advantages to finding a partner in college, especially for male students, and there are fewer "opportunities" after leaving school
For the university to find a partner, many elders are also dissuading their sons to fall in love as soon as possible, girls can find excellent partners after college graduation, but the opportunities for boys to go out of campus are really less.
The reality is indeed so, it is difficult for boys to meet girls with the same conditions in college after graduation, especially after entering society, boys in terms of family responsibilities, work and income are both important factors affecting marriage.
Most people are also working hard for their careers, it is more difficult to find a soul mate at this time, and girls after leaving campus will also pursue a party with better conditions, so for boys, the key golden age to talk about friends is in college.
In college love, two people have a common learning experience, in the three views will be relatively suitable, and the interaction during college is not utilitarian, and both parties know the roots, and the relationship between each other will be more stable.
College students who have received higher education will be more mature in their thinking and more open-minded, so this is why many people encourage falling in love in college.
Would it be a shame not to have talked about campus love?
When you meet the right partner in college, you must cherish it, and the choice to face graduation in the future is also a test for couples, and both parties must measure their future well and be responsible for each other.
However, when you are in love, remember not to put the cart before the horse and waste your studies, after all, completing your studies is the main purpose of college.
If you do not fall in love during college, do not be discouraged, no campus love is not a regret thing, college life is rich and colorful, in addition to love there are many things to actively try.
Everyone's rhythm is different, don't fall in love for the campus, you must complete the matter of finding a partner in college, feelings are two people's affairs, not one party can work hard.
College students should also establish a correct view of feelings, do not be trapped by love, because of love, good feelings are two people growing together.
Even if no one accompanies you on the road of love during college, you can still spend four wonderful years of college on your own, and only by loving yourself at any time can you harvest a better future.
【Today's Topic】
Did your campus love affair finally come to fruition?