Many men describe women this way: "Woman's heart, needle in the sea." It means that a woman's mind is hard to guess.
In fact, many times, the feelings that men give to women are also extremely complex and elusive.
Some people have likened men to "flying kites". So, how can a woman put the thread that pulls the kite freely according to her own wishes?
The answer is: find the right methods and techniques, and be a smart woman who understands men.
Today's sharing for female friends is that there are three moments when men are most emotional, don't miss the opportunity.
A moment of setback in your career
Men in the world, no one does not want their life to have a proud career.
Only the success of the career can highlight the value that a man wants to embody the most, let him look up and stand up in front of women, and gain great self-esteem and self-confidence.
However, no career in the world is easy, and no one can succeed casually in life.
On the one hand, when men encounter setbacks in their lives and careers, their hearts are usually very sensitive and fragile, although they look indifferent and look very powerful on the outside; on the other hand, men in this state are also easily moved.
"You lose, I'll raise you!" Actor Wu Jing's wife Xie Nan said this sentence to him that once exploded all over the Internet and touched countless people.
Wu Jing has also said in public many times that his success is inseparable from Xie Nan's support; in the critical period of his life and career climbing, it is his wife who always gives him the motivation to climb upwards.
Coincidentally.
Before Japanese movie star Koji Ono became famous, his income was very small. When he and his wife got married, he barely rented an apartment. In order to save money, two people wear the same old quilt when they sleep at night.
Koji Ono's wife did not dislike and accuse him of this, but believed that he had potential and strength, and constantly encouraged him.
One night, as she prepares to fall asleep, koji Ono, who is depressed, feels that his wife has written the word "love" on her back.
It was at this moment that Koji Ono was deeply moved. He secretly swore in his heart that he must cheer up, must get ahead, and let his beloved wife live the best life.
A wise woman, good at planning, to be a virtuous helper in a man's career; a virtuous woman who knows how to use love to inspire and encourage men's enterprising spirit and help him to the peak of life.
When a man falls into the trough of his life and career, he most longs to have such a virtuous and wise woman around him:
When he encounters difficulties, help him to give advice; when he is in adversity, help him resolve the crisis; and support him whenever and wherever he is.
At this time, a woman's words of concern, a comfort, a hug... Will be integrated into the blood of a man's life, so that he can not give up in his life.
Moments of inner loneliness
A sociologist once said, "Men are like a blank piece of paper, with strength and brilliance written on the front and struggle and pain on the back." ”
For too long, men have been taking on more responsibilities and more pressure, both at work and at home. And men's social role orientation forces them to disguise their hearts and try to be more powerful in front of people.
Therefore, the man's heart is likely to be far from what you see on the surface.
When the responsibility on his shoulders forces him to take on tasks that cannot be completed, when he cannot relieve the tension and pressure in his heart by his own strength, a man's heart will feel depressed, lonely and lonely.
At this time, men most hope that the women around him will know him, understand him, understand him, appreciate him, be able to open his heart, listen to his voice, and become his confidant.
After Lin Huiyin's death, Liang Sicheng once lived in grief and loneliness. Until the appearance of Lin Su, as Liang Sihua said, not only broke his years of loneliness, but also brought him great happiness.
For example, help him deal with materials and documents, take care of his diet and living, take care of Lin Huiyin's mother, create a relaxed and comfortable family atmosphere, and attend meetings with him, go out on expeditions, read poetry, recuperate, etc.
Lin Su's arrival not only solved the difficulties in Liang Sicheng's family life, but also alleviated his inner loneliness and bitterness, making him feel very useful.
"I've been completely captured by you!" Liang Sicheng's confession explains why, after enduring the grief of losing his wife for seven years, he vigorously defied public opinion and married Lin Su home in a wave of opposition.
The better a man is, the easier it is to fall into loneliness. The more lonely a man feels inside, the easier it is to move emotionally.
Lin Su obviously understood this truth. In the loneliest moment of Liang Sicheng's heart, she gave him warm companionship, proper care and spiritual communication, captured his heart, and also harvested the love and marriage she dreamed of.
Moments of success need to be shared
Men like to be adored, whether talent or career, every time they make a progress or an achievement, they are eager to get the praise and praise of women.
In the eyes of men, a life without women's applause is imperfect. When a goal is achieved, or when hard work is rewarded handsomely, enjoying the fruits of victory with the woman he loves most can make his life meaningful.
Therefore, at the peak of a man's career glory, he especially needs women to share the joy of success with him. Women's appreciation and admiration will make men have a sense of value and superiority, and continue to maintain the belief of victory on the road of life in the future.
Women's applause and encouragement will further stimulate the fighting spirit of men, prompt him to devote himself to work with greater energy and enthusiasm, and let people's life and career be like tigers and go to a higher level.
There are some women in life, when their husbands show off to him with their eyebrows flying, always feel bored, and even pour cold water, which suddenly makes men lose interest. Over time, intimacy is also hindered.
When a man talks about his dreams or the joy of success, a smart woman knows how to express admiration and reverence for him at the right time, be a loyal fan or listener, share his happiness, and send sincere praise.
For men, women's just right and sincere praise is like a shot in the arm, which makes him more confident.
At this moment, men are also the most emotional, and then return with a broader mind and a stronger arm.
Women who can seize this opportunity will also get marriage and love beyond expectations.
Excellent women not only have the wisdom of the big scenes, but also the wisdom of the subtleties of life.
When a man encounters setbacks in his career, he will not abandon him, share the same boat with him, share hardships and hardships, and be the promoter and gas station of his career;
When a man feels lonely in his heart, silently accompany him, care for him, warm him, and be a confidant with a red face that soothes his soul;
When he makes progress and achievements, give him the applause, praise and encouragement he desires, and enjoy the joy of success and the excitement of life with him.
In fact, after the man is emotional, it is very obvious.
As long as you skillfully use these three moments when men are most emotional, it is easy to grasp men's hearts and get the happiness you want.
Smart and intelligent you, got it?
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