Maybe you often have such anxiety, as long as the child does not meet your needs for a while, or temporarily lag behind others, you will start to worry, force the child and even blame, anxious to change immediately and help the child grow!
But in fact, this not only did not contribute, but it was counterproductive, such scenes are also very common in film and television dramas, parents can not accept that their children are lagging behind, and they do not believe in their children's self-growth ability! The results are as always, imaginable failures, long-term high pressure makes children more rebellious!
Change three points
1. The growth of children has its own process, some children memorize ancient poems at the age of one, some children speak at the age of three, but it does not prove which kind of child is good, which is not good, and the child who speaks late may have unexpected talents in other directions, such as logical thinking, innovative thinking, etc.
2. The speed of the child's process depends on two aspects, one is the inner structure, the other is the external family environment, both aspects remain stable, the child's process can be on the right track.
3. Parents' stable and stable energy state is the best nourishment for children's growth, no matter what kind of problems children encounter, only the parents' emotions are stable and firm, and children can absorb energy from it and return to peace from chaos, but if parents are more anxious than children, then children are definitely on the verge of collapse, not to mention growth!
More growth
This is a series of children's language education courses created by the "Little Speaker" column - emotional intelligence language courses. The course summarizes and discusses the problems and entanglements that often occur in the family life, school, society and other interpersonal interactions of 10-12-year-old adolescents. Each issue is a hot issue, combined with examples and allusions, in-depth and simple, easy to solve the child's troubles. Teaching people to fish is not as good as teaching people to fish, 4 core modules, from confidence cultivation to bold opening to "being able to speak the Tao", teach children how to say, but also teach children how to think! Course content Recorded by Zhao Zhuoer, host of China Education Television.
