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"Antisocial personality" is a high-level risk factor in social risk, and through relevant research, it has been found that most people with this personality have unsound families, or have been treated violently in adolescence, growing up in repression, resulting in intense sympathetic nervous system activity.
Regarding this phenomenon, Freud (Sigmund, 1856-1939, Austrian neuroscientist, psychiatrist, founder of psychoanalysis) once proposed a "defense mechanism", arguing that the antisocial personality of children as they grow up is the individual's "defense mechanism" at work.
When a person suppresses painful or dangerous thoughts and conflicts, they enter the mechanism of self-protection, but when they have the ability to resist, they trigger the "defense mechanism" of personality states, resulting in antisocial psychology and behavior.
However, for traditional Chinese education, although the educational methods of violent corporal punishment and spanking are constantly changing, they are still the only way for many children to grow up. From a psychological point of view, parents must not casually spank their children's butts, otherwise the consequences will be more "terrible".
Then, according to the fact that children are spanked from an early age, relevant scholars have conducted research and found that long-term corporal punishment will bring irreversible psychological adverse effects on children.
The idea that spanking is not a trivial matter is also put forward, and on April 30 of each year, it is the "International Day of No Children", and the launch of this study actually proves that corporal punishment exists in various countries.
Research proves that "spanking can guide children to get better, which has no theoretical basis, and children who are spanked and enlarged when they are young are more likely to have antisocial psychology when they grow up."
The american journal "Family Psychology" made a detailed report on the study, which involved the childhood experiences of 160,000 people, and published a study of "What happens to spanking a child's ass" in an academic journal under the joint study of researchers from the University of Michigan and the University of Texas.
After a follow-up investigation of these children who have been subjected to corporal punishment since childhood, it is found that children who have grown up under "corporal punishment" cannot escape the shadows for the rest of their lives.
Corporal punishment, the sociologist Strauss, defines it as "the use of physical strength to cause pain to the child, thereby correcting or controlling the child's behavior." "But it turns out that this corporal punishment does not give the child a positive guide."
Professor Wang Meifang of Shandong Normal University once surveyed 2514 parents and found that 70% of parents had more than 7 corporal punishments in a year.
UNICEF also noted in a 2014 report that 80% of children worldwide have been beaten by their parents.
Physiologically, these children are more likely to get obesity, cardiovascular disease, asthma and other diseases than those who have not experienced violence, and this damage will last until they grow up, and the probability of suffering from metabolic diseases such as high blood pressure, diabetes, liver disease, and high cholesterol will also increase.
And this kind of children who are often spanked will be in a state of shock for a long time, and the uncertainty of scolding will make them vigilant all the time, so the quality of sleep is not good, the immunity is reduced, and the probability of mental illness is increased.
Because children are in the stage of psychological shaping when they are young, if they are not properly guided during this period, they will put others in an unhealthy psychological confusion.
And when they are powerless to get rid of this corporal punishment, then these children will begin to doubt themselves, think that the abuser is right, and guide their brain consciousness to accept this idea, so as to avoid anxiety and uneasiness, resulting in inferiority.
This type of child usually becomes more "indifferent", "lonely", "insecure", and will have a series of chain reactions, when this harm accumulates day by day, and they can not be discharged, it will cause the child's "psychological rebound", touching the "antisocial personality" of others, and its aggressive behavior will be higher than that of ordinary children.
There is also a sociologist "Strauss" in response to this phenomenon of research found that : "Corporal punishment the biggest cost is that parents know the harm of corporal punishment, so to guide parents to recognize the "invisible bomb" behind corporal punishment, because this so-called way for your own good, can only push the child to the abyss of the hands."
Parents often spank their children's butts or other physical corporal punishment, which will increase the psychological pressure of children and lead to more serious violent behaviors after the child grows up. ”
Strauss divided the intensity of corporal punishment into four levels, with each additional level of corporal punishment increasing violent sexuality by 33 percent for men and 27 percent for women.
For men, they are more willing to commit rape, corporal punishment, sexual abuse, and take pleasure in causing harm.
Then the former victim will become the perpetrator, this kind of violence will continue, violence to suppress violent behavior, will only let the violence spread like a virus, this parents think that the education method, in fact, can not make the child abide by morality, but will increase the probability of the child's antisocial personality.
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Reference: Jean Piaget Biographie. (2020, January 29).