According to the "Tencent Circle of Friends Family White Paper", 52% of people in the circle of friends block their parents, and 40% of parents will look at each of their children's circle of friends one by one.
I have a friend who took a picture of smoking in high school and sent it to the circle of friends, and within a few minutes his father called, "When did you learn to smoke?" The friend could not answer for a while. Since then, his parents have become his "outsiders."
So what are the main reasons why young people block their parents
1. Fear of parents worrying
Young people have just entered the society, experience and ability are lacking, parents also want to share some with their children, it is easy to follow the child's anxiety, worry.
2. Parents cannot understand
Young people and parents have a gap, different values, aesthetic concepts, and styles of behavior that make parents unable to understand some of their children's behavior. For example, I have saved money for a long time to buy a luxury product and like the moonlight.
3. Fear of parental opposition
Young people have their own choices in doing things, but they still have to listen to some opinions of their parents, and they will hide from their parents when they do things that they want to do but their parents may not support.
4. Pursue your own space
Young people like freedom, and they have grown up, want to have some space for their own circles, and do not want their every move to be monitored by their parents as when they were children.
5. Don't like nagging
Parents are worried about their children and like to nag, and young people have their own opinions and do not like repeated inquiries from parents. Things like falling in love, getting married.
These are the main reasons why young people block their parents
Parents are our closest people, should also be the most important people in our circle of friends, young people have their own grievances, but shield parents also have to be considered, for some good moments to share with parents, and it is also very necessary to maintain positive interaction with parents.