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Last year, at Wuhan University
There's a love psychology course on fire
Young college students
In order to find the true love password
Crowding the vast classroom
Even the window was full of people
Let the editor can't help but think of a song
"I'm lining up with a love number plate"
But many people didn't listen
Don't worry
Today, Xiaobian sorted it out
The hottest love lessons on the whole network
Arrange it for everyone immediately!
(The editors are still single.)
but you have to worry about your big things all the time)
Fudan University · Liang Yong'an
Professor of department of Chinese, Fudan University
Liang Yong'an's love class
It is well known to many people on the Internet
Nearly 1/3 of his videos are about love
Welcomed by millions of young people
The most popular single episode has been played more than 4 million times
In addition, there is "Teacher Liang's Love Class"
Each issue has two themes
First love, breakup, waiting, wrong love.....
Each theme is thought-provoking and memorable
What are the main confusions that young people face in love now?
Confusion comes from calculations and measurements that arise invisibly. The biggest problem we have now is thinking too much, thinking too much. Love itself is a matter of seconds, and we sometimes think about it for years and consume a lot of things. Two people in love is the most precious, rather than considering more money, less money, status, etc.
What are some typical problems that young people encounter in love?
In contrast to liking, love is knowing the spiritual world of the other person. Some love has not yet reached love, two people are together, there is no distinction between like and love. Like it, be happy, not necessarily love. Good love is able to illuminate each other, complete each other, and promote each other to realize their own life value.
What kind of characteristics do we need to have to have a good love?
To have a good love is to prepare, first of all to build yourself into a person with the ability to live independently. This means that you can live well without relying on others, you can take on life independently, and you have the energy to send warmth to each other. You can meet soul mates up there, and you can meet very kind people down.
How to face the confusion in love?
It's good to have confusion. There is confusion to think, to explore, two people who love each other are often in this confusion, see each other, can affirm each other, so that your uniqueness of each other eventually becomes a kind of creation.
Fudan University · Shen Yifei
She is known today's young people as:
Sociable, intimate relationship mentor, anti-poison chicken soup master
She has millions of followers on video sites
She is an associate professor of sociology at Fudan University
Shen Yifei
Open Teacher Shen's video
The topics are sharper than one
She dissects gender relations from a sociological point of view
Let everyone see the essence and see the reality
Listening to her "lesson", it is probably two words:
detoxification
Use knowledge to detoxify anxiety
The grounding of Teacher Shen's language system
It also made many people addicted!
Let's listen to Teacher Shen's golden sentences
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Why do many people not want to get married, but CP is very happy? In fact, people are deeply eager for intimacy. Because I felt that it was troublesome to fall in love, I snorted the idol CP.
Why do you say that "I don't know what to do, but I go deeper"? The occurrence of feelings is beyond the control of the intellect. The essential feature of intimate relationships is the power of sensibility.
People face feelings, more and more rational, will convert the cost, how much the benefit is. But love is emotional, it has a temperature, and its meaning is that there is no way to use reason to convert value.
Why don't we love to watch "Mary Sue"-style romance movies anymore. The "Mary Sue" is no longer liberating for modern women.
Wuhan University · The Psychology of Love
Wuhan University's "Love Psychology Class" that is popular all over the Internet
The main teacher is Zhou Shuzhi
Lecture on the psychology of love in college students
"True love, don't miss it"
Loved by the majority of students
Everyone has their own expectations of love
But the meaning of love remains the same
Love is about making you who you are and making him himself
Make you a better you
According to Fromm's The Art of Love
Mature love should have four elements
We can't have it because we're afraid of losing
You can't dwell on the past without trying new beginnings
It is very important to have love
Maintaining a love is just as important
Of course, there should also be the ability to end this love
Want sweet love
It's not okay not to master the skills of love
Do you want to confess?
Ask yourself why you are asking this question before you want to know the answer, and all you are worried about is your answer. Confession is nothing more than two outcomes, and how you decide depends on which outcome you can't accept. Have you been friends but missed it? Or confessing failure can not continue friendship. But the personal point is that the odds of encountering love are much lower than friendships.
Does "Funny Girl" have love?
The yearning for love is something that everyone will have, no matter what type of girls and boys will encounter their love, the key lies in whether they are willing to accept it and whether they are willing to start. Everyone has the right to love.
China University of Mining and Technology · The Psychology of Love
Dean of school of public administration, China University of Mining and Technology
Professor Duan Xinxing gave the lecture
Psychology of Love class
It has been four years and the course has been held eight times
The course takes college students' love as the starting point
By recording "MoOC".
Organize offline activities and live interactive forms of teaching
Guide students to establish a correct view of love
From psychological, legal, sexual morality and other aspects
Interpret the psychology of college students in love
The students who took this course stayed one after another
Five-star praise and their own insights
Watched so many love course recommendations
Is there one that moves you?
When love really became a course
Would you like to go up?
Love this course
Have you passed?
In fact
The purpose of learning love lessons
It's not just about getting off orders
More importantly
Learn how to deal with intimacy
I hope you can put it
Methodology learned in the classroom
Apply to reality
Show your inner courage for your feelings
So, go and love!
Take advantage of the spring light, take advantage of the wind and prosperity!
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Web Editor: Zhang Yiwei
Editor-in-charge: Song Ying, Liu Weidong
China University Students Network (WeChat ID: dxszzcn)