The psychology of love, because I like you, so you are the most beautiful

In the hearts of every pair of lovers, their objects are the most beautiful in the world, which is also often said to be "the lover's eyes out of the West". As lovers get to know each other deeper, they will have a feeling of beauty towards each other. This feeling objectively seems distorted, but subjectively it is indeed a real experience in the heart.

Whether it is a man or a woman, our examination of the beauty of the opposite sex has both external physical characteristics and inner spiritual beauty. And spiritual beauty can make up for the lack of physical beauty. There is a famous saying that goes, "People are not cute because they are beautiful, but they are beautiful because they are cute." unbelief? Let's look at the romantic story below.

In the 19th century, there was a famous female poet in England, her name was Elizabeth Barrett. Her fate was very difficult, and her long-term illness kept her bedridden. At the age of 40, she is still alone, and her colorful life seems to be out of touch with her. But she is very literate, writes well,and has many poetry fans. Browning is one of them.

One day, Browning wrote a letter to the poetess, and the two met. The two corresponded frequently, and a few months later, the poetess received a courtship letter from Browning. Barrett, because of his physical condition, feared of causing trouble to Browning, so he refused this love. Browning did not give up and persevered. In the end, Balette's long-sealed heart was touched by Browning.

When the two met, Browning gently shook Balette's hand and said from the bottom of his heart that you were so beautiful. With the intrusion of Browning, The originally dim life of Balette appeared in the bright sunlight. Incredibly, even the illness that had plagued her for so many years began to get better.

Balette itself is ordinary-looking and unhealthy, what is beautiful in the eyes of ordinary people? But Browning discovered her inner beauty and felt her beauty in the poems written by Balait. In Browning's heart, Barrett is the most beautiful and lovely woman.

It is precisely because of this aesthetic illusion that the lover can explore the deeper beauty of the object of love to compensate for a certain deficiency, and will not let the person who is not outstanding in appearance be lonely for a lifetime. In a sense, it is also to promote the occurrence and development of love. However, if the aesthetic consciousness of the aesthetician itself is not sound, or the aesthetic illusion is too excessive, it will also have a negative effect.

A little couple together

Each of us aspires to something beautiful and associates beauty with some good character traits. A beautiful face will make us associate and create a good feeling. Good character traits also tend to cause us to think about beauty and produce a sense of beauty. Whether we appreciate personality characteristics or appearance, we are inseparable from the guidance of correct values and outlook on life. Without this guidance, there is a hidden crisis. Once the passion of love subsides and the aura benefit disappears, it will lead to future marriage and family tragedies.

Men and women in love are easily fascinated by the beautiful appearance of the object, and ignore each other's heart. A naïve, pure girl, as soon as she stepped into the world of love, she felt that everything was love. They ignite their lovers with the fiery enthusiasm in their hearts and take their noble thoughts as theirs.

There was a girl who fell in love with a handsome man. Because the man is handsome and dashing, he covers up everything else. When a man behaves rudely, the girl thinks it's brash. When men squander and waste, women perceive it as generosity. Even when a man hooks up with another woman, the woman thinks he's attractive. This kind of psychological immaturity, can not calmly examine the other party, and even regard the shortcomings as advantages, and eventually suffer a big loss, at that time regret can not reach.