Regarding whether the child is a natural birth or a caesarean section, different people have different opinions, according to the more traditional and the aspect of subsequent recovery is a better choice, but now more and more people are not willing to choose a smooth delivery, the reason is not only afraid of pain, but also a large part of the people feel that the process of normal delivery is more embarrassing, especially in the middle of the stool discharge, this is simply the best embarrassment, the parties said that this embarrassment even if it is severe pain in the process can not be transferred, It's a shame!
But do the doctors who have experienced countless "big scenes" in the delivery room really laugh at and dislike the behavior of the mother? Perhaps the doctor's attitude is very different from what the mother thinks.
The 25-year-old Kobayashi is approaching her due date, and lately she has been very anxious, and the reason for the anxiety is not out of fear of childbirth, but because she is struggling with which way to give birth. Doctors and family members have recommended Kobayashi shun birth, because she is young and her physical condition is also very good, which is very suitable for a normal birth.
But Kobayashi has his own worries, and when he is with his friends who have already given birth, he always hears them say that the moment when the child is born is like a long-standing stool being discharged, in fact, the process will really come out with the stool, it is not too embarrassing. Xiaolin was always angry about this, she couldn't accept that scene, she felt that it was like letting all her face be gone, so she struggled with whether to give birth or not.
In the end, the husband saw that she was too uncomfortable to take her to consult the doctor, the doctor smiled and enlightened Kobayashi after listening to it, saying that this phenomenon is very normal, no one will laugh at you and no one will dislike you, let her relax her heart and wait for delivery, this kind of small thing is not worth worrying about her, after all, compared to a safe and smooth delivery, everything else is not a problem!
It is true that the "pulling while giving birth" in the process of normal delivery does make the mother feel a little embarrassed, but in fact, the doctors who are midwife do not think so, on the contrary, they will feel that this is the result of the correct force of the mother. In fact, many vaginal mothers do not know how to use force during the process, doctors will also remind the mother that it is like defecation, and many women respond to the moment when the vaginal child comes out, it is indeed like a feeling of constipation for a long time and suddenly unblocked, so this phenomenon is actually a good thing in the eyes of doctors.
In addition, many normal birth mothers can not use their full strength because of fear of tension, so it will cause a long labor process, which is actually very unfavorable to the mother and the fetus, the doctor also hopes that the mother can put down her scruples and give birth with full strength, and they have to face this scene no less than a dozen times a day, in fact, it has long been strange.
Then there is the fact that the discharge of stool during normal labor is actually a very normal physiological phenomenon, which is actually not controlled by the will of the mother. During the delivery process, the fetal head falls and compresses the rectum, causing the mother to have a bowel intention, and the stool discharge is also better "free space" for the fetus, which helps them to deliver more smoothly, and the doctors naturally do not laugh, and they will not dislike and blame the mother.
Perhaps some women will wonder why some people have a very clean birth, or if the first birth room is very clean, but the second child has a bowel movement, can this situation be avoided? The answer is that it cannot be fully guaranteed, but there are ways that may be able to avoid this, mainly in terms of diet and exercise.
Prenatal attention not to always eat some coarse fiber food, these foods accelerate gastrointestinal peristalsis, very easy to make people feel defecated, so do not choose this type of meal in excess; but also do not over-nourish, meat, eggs and milk excessive supplementation will make maternal constipation aggravated, to bring a certain degree of difficulty to childbirth, not to mention, the accumulated stool is also easier to squeeze out by the fetus at the last moment. In addition, normal women should pay attention to maintaining an appropriate amount of exercise before giving birth, which is good for the mother's body, which can provide a better living space for the fetus, and also have more and more positive help for childbirth, so that the process is smoother.
In fact, a large part of the point that there will be stool discharge during the normal delivery process to embarrass the mother is that there were doctors and nurses present at that time, after all, this kind of thing is embarrassing and there are so many people "watching", but in fact, the mother is completely thinking too much, and no doctor or nurse will care about this matter at all. What is more embarrassing than this is that there are male doctors in the delivery doctors encountered during childbirth, although the doctors do not distinguish between genders, but when facing male doctors, everyone must be nervous!
In fact, the most beautiful and greatest moments of women are reflected in the time of childbirth, because they only want to bring a small life to the world at all costs, and the doctors are equally great, in any case, they are the messengers who escort this small life, and try their best to ensure the safety of mothers and children, so many mothers who are waiting to give birth do not have to worry about those small episodes in the delivery process. In fact, every doctor is doing their job with their most professional attitude, to believe in them, but also to believe in themselves, the most important thing at this moment is the safety of mother and child, not those embarrassing moments that are not worth mentioning.