Some discord, not if you are willing to bow your head, it will have an effect

Originally fast vacation not updated, but... I have been locked up at home for more than two weeks, and then at least 7 days to start, every day the material above is to grab the dishes to do dishes, the spirit of the above found that can not read more to know Weibo, a look at there will be negative stress reactions, forced to see the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Agatha and then chase the drama, but also have to write chicken soup to change the channel.

Talk about the emotional aspect when encountering setbacks, especially when novices meet old drivers, when they meet each other's retreat, there will be gains and losses, and I don't know whether to give up my own principles or give up the entanglement of the other party.

Let me stand in the position of the old driver, as long as the other party enters the entanglement period, I will draw a clear line more obviously, and this withdrawal does not change what you have given up.

Some girls will have the impulse to break up when they find that the other party may be an old driver, not as easy to control as they think, but because the conditions of the other party are not bad, the conversation is like a spring breeze, and after the forced disconnection, they begin to be reluctant to find reasons for each other. I think the other party is also in normal love, the usual style is not a bad person, my former principles, is not too harsh for him.

You're right about that, but you shouldn't be too harsh on yourself. Your moral principles and judgments of gain and loss for so long will not be so easily and completely transformed by the appearance of one person.

As a person who is more relaxed in the relationship between men and women, our calmness comes from our understanding of the sense of boundaries. We can make people talk because we know how to describe some topics from several angles, so that different people can accept them.

When you feel happy with some men, it is not necessarily how much understanding you have between you, but precisely because you don't need to understand each other, the other party is just out of the interpersonal experience performance from what angle to follow you, that's all.

If it is only a shallow level of temptation, experienced people can make each other relaxed and happy when communicating, even if it is out of polite pandering, and the withdrawal period of the experienced party often comes from the inexperienced party who has an optimistic attitude at this time and hopes to further strengthen the relationship.

Everyone found that no, one of the pursuit methods of a boy with good conditions will often have an ex-girlfriend Dafa, it seems that each of them will meet a woman who is sincerely treated by herself, and then makes herself miserable. I don't know if you say this is true or not, and I don't feel the need to know, but I remember this law anyway, and when he talks about such a fragile experience, he is often paving the way for his retreat.

He can coax you to be happy, but after the ice-breaking period, he may find that you are struggling with whether to seriously talk about a relationship, the emotions begin to be heavy, and when it will delay his other ice-breaking possibilities, he has a probability that because he has a failed past, he does not dare to enter a stable relationship, hoping not to delay you... And retreat.

Why do I know so well, because I will also have this kind of retreat, when I find a person who thinks he knows me when I am still an image ambassador, both wants to settle down with me, and is afraid that I will not give up the possibility of choosing other people in the future, I will also retreat on the grounds that you do not know me, and I cannot guarantee anything in the future.

When the other party is withdrawing, if you think about it and still hope to have the possibility of communication and cooperation with the other party, my advice is not to change yourself in a hurry and give up the principles of the past.

A person who comes to pick you up, makes you happy and then withdraws, does make you have the frustration of a cooked duck flying, and in this frustration, you will somewhat doubt yourself: Am I doing something wrong? Did I misunderstand him? Shouldn't I have changed my mind so that I could give him another chance... You will continue to find reasons for the other party, such as he has been emotionally injured, he is not bad by nature, believe that each other is a good fit, and then decide to bow your head to match the rhythm of the other party, so as to continue to get along with the other party.

It's okay to continue to get along, but don't you forget what the purpose of getting along with people is, is it to indulge in sex, or is it to gain confidence and satisfaction?

Of course, if you can accept that it is the former, I am the person who looks at the other party, and I want to relax and have fun, then there is no problem, the two old drivers take what they need, and it is also a win-win cooperation.

But most girls, the pursuit is still in the process of serious love, to gain self-growth and confidence, so easy for a little temptation, change their personality, deny their past ideas, itself is to indulge their weakness - the best way to avoid falling off the cliff is to first stay away from the cliff.

Don't think that having less experience in a relationship is a drawback. For the threshold of feelings, everyone can be different and can also be protected. You are a person with a high emotional threshold, don't lower your emotional threshold for a momentary frustration.

In the workplace, there are many people who feel that they can earn money by kneeling, but in fact, in the long run, kneeling itself is not valuable, and you can't make money when you kneel, so why not stand upright?

The same is true in the love field, the emotional threshold is high, there will be a high emotional threshold, but there will also be a high emotional threshold of fun. A good relationship is to find the same kind, and only with the same kind can there be communication and understanding.

Deny your own belief to bow your head, and then in the process of communication, you are a little bit of a loss and expect each other's commitment and assurance, then the other party will not only not have the same kind of appreciation for you, but also feel that you are a person who gives up principles for superficial fun, and is greedy, so that you will not consider your interests, and will give yourself excuses when doing things that harm your interests.

When a person kneels, they will encounter more probabilities of being trampled.

The more you are in times of adversity, the more patiently you have to wait for yourself to calm down and not rush to change your resolve.

It's not that people shouldn't change at all, but there's no need to change right away because they're under duress. It is necessary to understand that any kind of personality has its advantages and risks, so the stability of any kind of personality must have the preparation and awareness to face risks.

In order to please a person to bow your head and change, your consciousness is not enough, you often hope that the other party will look at your low head and give you compensation, and the person who can make you bow your head, his mind will not be below you, he will also feel that the relationship between adults, why bitter and vengeful, what compensation?

Don't expect compensation from anyone, and don't rush to make decisions in times of pain.

We are an ordinary person, in pain, first learn to pretend to die, and then eat some digestible food, do something simple, slowly, be a person who believes that he can lie down for a while in adversity, not in a hurry to change, there is a little "wait and say, walk and see" The hob meat mentality measurement, gradually you will find that your vitality has recovered, and even the mentality cultivation has taken a small step forward, accept this serendipity, because everyone who can insist on themselves is worthy of the small reward of life.

Well, not the small partners in Shanghai should take a holiday tomorrow, everyone pay attention to protection at the same time, do not live up to the spring light, for me to see more flowers Ha ~

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