In fact, people all over the world, including the president, are insecure, when you allow a little insecurity. This insecurity becomes a vigilance. If there are really those gangsters and fires, we can prevent them in time, and your insecurity is a mood.
First of all, allow this feeling to exist, because everyone has it.
Second, since there is an insecurity, pay more attention to eating well, sleeping well, exercising well, and living a healthy life, negative energy can not find us.
Third, when there is this insecurity, try not to turn it into an emotion towards others. You say that the more others help you, the more you still have emotions, then other people's psychology is not strong. You have to help others, others have emotions, we can't be strong.
So we have to slowly turn this emotion into a kind of work power, the power to play ball, the power to dress up. This is still the emotion, but it works well, and insecurity becomes security.
What is security?
The first is what role to do, for example, I am a counselor, then now you have difficulties, you consult about 10 o'clock in the evening, that is not to say that I am willing to not sleep at night to work. But that's my job, and I'll guide you. Doing these things is called Ann, Ann and Duty.
What is full? It is all about not harming the body and not harming oneself, and injuring the body is not filial piety according to Confucius. At the same time, it does not escape, does not flee from what it does, and does not rob what it does not belong to itself. That's peace and security.
The sense of security must be done, and action must be taken.
No one can stop you from succeeding, as long as you do it with all your might!