I took the child out with my friends, and I found that many mothers were worried that their children would not eat well, so two people surrounded the child, one with vegetables, one chasing and feeding.
Although we also say that this is not right for the child and the impact on the child is not good, when the mother really thinks that the child does not eat well, she is also very worried, so she simply chases the child to feed.
In addition to my friend, there was another family, which was an eye-opener for me. As soon as the meal time came, the mother immediately took out the iPad, and the baby who ate with the cartoon was indeed quiet, unlike another child running around playing, and had to let the mother chase and feed. But seeing the way these two friends educate their children really shakes their heads.
Have you all forgotten? After everyone is born, the first thing they need is to know how to eat. It is said that the people take food as heaven. Even if it is a newborn baby, they will know what hunger is and what is the need to eat. So can we respect the natural development laws of human beings? Instead of self-righteously destroying this law, to destroy the process of child growth and development.
The wrong way to coax the child to eat will only cause the child to secrete hormones abnormally, and the child will be in a state of unhappiness in eating for a long time. Eating is not happy, what do you say this child does? Still able to be happy. Such a child slowly becomes reluctant to eat and engages in an invisible anorexia, which is really bad for the child's physical development. So, what issues should we pay attention to avoiding during the process of our children's meals?
First, give your child a fixed place to eat
From the time we start training our children as complementary foods, we start giving our children a fixed place to eat. In this way, it is easier to form a child's good eating conditioning reflex.
Second, usually do not give children the habit of eating snacks
Some children obviously have good eating habits, but suddenly because they eat a lot of snacks and become anorexia, this is what mom and dad do wrong, we must develop the habit of keeping children away from snacks in daily life.
Third, let the child learn to eat on his own
Many mothers think that letting their children learn to eat on their own will make them turn over their clothes, and the ground is full of rice grains. But this is a good time for a child to learn to eat by himself, so why should we miss it? Are relatives because children can stain our environment and make it more troublesome for us to clean up?
Therefore, smart parents should return the child's right to eat to the child, even if it is not smooth at the beginning, but slowly you will find that the child himself will know how to integrate into the adult's table and eat three meals a day with the adult.
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