Having both children and daughters and putting together a "good" word is the ideal of many people's lives. In addition, now the state encourages everyone to have children, many post-80s, post-90s, and even post-70s have begun to have two and three children.
On March 26, a bao dad from Shandong province became popular on the Internet for his performance in the delivery room.
The father's name was Wang Jun (not his real name), and his daughter-in-law's wish was to have a daughter. In fact, they already have a son, originally the couple did not plan to regenerate, after all, the cost of raising a child is still very high. They just want to raise their son well.
But seeing that the friends around them have all had their children and daughters one after another, and good things have become pairs, Wang Jun and his wife have also moved the mind of the second child. Later, they successfully conceived the child, or twins.
When they know it's twins, they don't know whether to laugh or cry. Twins are very rare, I didn't expect to meet them, this is a great fate, the probability of them having a daughter is also greater.
But thinking about it, if they were all boys, Wang Jun couldn't laugh again.
The painful waiting has finally reached the moment when the "mystery" is revealed. Wang Jun waited outside his daughter-in-law's delivery room, silently praying, hoping that it would be his daughter. When the doctor called out to him, he didn't react.
The doctor said to him, "Congratulations, congratulations," and his gut reaction was his daughter. A little excited, he asked the doctor, "Are they two sisters?" The gesture remained in a gesture of prayer.
The doctor laughed and asked him to guess again, his voice was obviously much smaller, and he asked weakly, "Two younger brothers?" Receiving the doctor's affirmative answer, Wang Jun said happy on his lips, but the loss in his eyes was very obvious, he was a little stunned, and then repeatedly confirmed with the doctor in an uncertain tone.
After seeing Wang Jun's reaction, netizens expressed their heartache, three sons, there are three construction banks, the burden on this man's shoulders can be imagined.
Some people say that Wang Jun's loss is written on his face, and he feels that he is about to cry, and he should be sorry that he is not a daughter, right?
Some people say that no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as it is their own child, they are the best and the treasures we should cherish.
Xiaoxiao's point of view
Although Xiaoxiao understands Wang Jun's loss and sadness, he still agrees with everyone that since we chose to let them come to this world, we have the responsibility to take good care of them and love them well.
Whatever reason we choose to have children, to fulfill our desire to have children, to accomplish the task of procreation, or for some other reason, we are responsible as long as we are born.
Many people give birth at will, but they are irresponsible, and the result is that many tragedies are brewed, resulting in many children living a tragic fate.
We may have many reasons to choose to be born or not to be born, but we know that the best reasons are because of love.
Two people decide to want the crystallization of love because they love each other, and parents give birth to children because of love, because love raises them. A child raised with love is a truly happy child.
Although the state and society are now encouraging us to have a second or third child, we must consider one thing before deciding to have children: whether we have the ability to raise them.
Raising children requires love, but if there is only love, it is difficult to raise them. We need to provide them with a certain material basis, and before we are born, we need to measure whether we have the ability to raise them.
Just like Wang Jun, if he had thought it through carefully before, he wouldn't feel such a lot of pressure now. Still, we believe that he can overcome the difficulties and raise his three children well.