On the evening of October 16, 2016, Hunan Hengyang County Hospital received a patient.
The patient was a 17-year-old pregnant woman, and an hour later the girl gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
Children and daughters are all good things that many people can hope for, but the girl does not have the joy of a new mother, just lies on the hospital bed and shed tears.
Her 19-year-old boyfriend, the father of two children are missing, the mother-in-law is helpless, and the mother-in-law who rushes to the scene loudly reprimands her daughter and son-in-law.
The "mother-in-law" accused the son-in-law of not giving birth to the child
On October 16, Xiaozhi's mother, Yin Shanglian, heard that her 17-year-old daughter Xiaozhi had given birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses at the county hospital.
She rushed to the hospital immediately, but looking at her daughter in the hospital bed, the grandmother did not have the slightest joy, and her words were full of complaints and accusations:
"You two don't understand things, and you want us old people to pay the bill!"
"How many times have I told you that I don't accept you?"
19-year-old Li Liu felt that the words of the "mother-in-law" were a bit harsh, and he thought that the most important thing at this time was not to turn over the old accounts:
"I don't know what your old man thinks, but since you've come this far, you should leave our business alone, and now the most important thing is the child."
But Li Liu's defense made Yin Shanglian even more angry, and she accused Li Liu of not taking the pregnant Xiaozhi away to protect the fetus, let alone giving birth to the child hastily.
Xiao Zhi, who had just given birth to a child on the hospital bed, was weak, and she could not say a word in the face of her angry mother, and could only cry silently.
Just when Yin Shanglian was angry at the "little couple", her grandson and granddaughter were struggling on the line of life and death.
Pregnant at the age of sixteen or seventeen, the "little couple" knows nothing about everything
Xiaozhi is 17 years old this year, a year ago, just joined the work and became a kindergarten teacher.
At a party, she met 18-year-old Li Liu, a cook who cooks a good dish.
The two young people quickly sparked a spark of love and talked about love behind their parents' backs.
When Xiaozhi was just pregnant, the ignorant girl did not notice at all, and it was not until she went to the hospital to check her body during the summer vacation that she found that she was three months pregnant.
When the two fell in love, Xiaozhi did not want her parents to know, when Yin Shanglian knew that her daughter had a boyfriend, Xiaozhi was four months pregnant, which made Yin Shanglian anxious and angry.
Hearing that they were pregnant with twins, the two young men did not consider their financial conditions at all, nor did they realize the responsibility they were about to assume, regardless of the fact that they were going to give birth to the child.
Xiaozhi's parents once took their daughter to the hospital and asked her to have surgery.
Before his father was ready to sign, the doctor said that Xiaozhi might have sequelae, and Xiaozhi's father put down the pen in his hand, and the operation was not completed in the end.
Seeing that the two could not be screwed, Yin Shanglian let her daughter stay at home well, but unexpectedly, on August 15, Li Liu secretly took Xiaozhi to her own home to raise a fetus.
Although Yin Shanglian was angry, she felt that Li Liu's parents should also take good care of Xiaozhi, so she did not have a seizure, nor did she ask about her daughter every day.
But she did not expect that her daughter was only 28 weeks pregnant, and she was suddenly notified of premature birth.
After asking her daughter at the hospital, I learned that Xiaozhi was in Li Liu's house and was so painful that she couldn't walk, so she came to the hospital.
On the morning of October 14, Xiaozhi had a slight abdominal pain, and Li Liu took her to the hospital in the town to see a doctor, but it was a weekend, and the hospital did not have a doctor on duty, so the two had to return home.
At dusk, XiaoZhi's abdominal pain became more and more serious, to the point of being unbearable.
But 19-year-old Li Liu was helpless, he did not know whether to call the emergency number, nor did he know that this was pre-child analgesia, but opened the computer and checked the relevant situation on the Internet.
When Xiaozhi arrived at the hospital, the doctor learned that the 17-year-old pregnant woman endured severe pain at home for two days, and the amniotic fluid broke for several hours before arriving at the hospital, and the girl cried out in pain.
After examination, it was found that the uterine opening had been opened by 8 centimeters.
The doctor told Xiaozhi that the child's condition was very dangerous and it was likely that he would not be able to save it.
The ignorant Xiaozhi replied:
"Oh, I can't keep it!"
Then we went to the delivery room.
Xiaozhi is too young, and when she gets along with her boyfriend, she doesn't know how to protect herself.
After conceiving a child, she did not know how to take on the role of parent.
During pregnancy, she did not go to the relevant pregnant women's books, nor did she know that analgesia was a precursor to childbirth, and she did not know that the probability of premature birth of twins was very high and should be prepared in advance.
The reporter asked Yin Shanglian:
"Why didn't you teach her this?"
Yin Shanglian is also very helpless, she wants to communicate with her daughter, understand her daughter's situation, and get only the reply:
"I'm too lazy to tell you."
After arriving at the hospital, Xiaozhi did not know how dangerous her situation was:
Pregnancy under the age of eighteen is a high-risk pregnancy;
Twins are also high-risk pregnancies;
The fetus is only 28 weeks old, which is preterm and high-risk.
Originally, Xiao Zhi's amniotic fluid had been broken, and such a serious situation should be sent to a higher hospital.
But when Xiaozhi arrived at the hospital, it was too late, the child was about to come out, and the doctor could only harden his scalp.
The doctor's biggest concern is that the child's lung function is incomplete, he cannot breathe spontaneously, and he is afraid of heavy bleeding in adults.
Fortunately, the production process is still smooth, less than an hour, the dragon and phoenix fetus was born, the big is a boy, 2.1 pounds, the small one is a girl, 2 pounds.
The child's life hangs in the balance, and the child's father is gone
The child is born, the situation of the adult is ok, but the child's situation is not optimistic.
The doctor told them that the child was born prematurely, the weight was too small, the medical conditions in the county were immature, there was no ventilator, there was no medicine for rescue, and it was necessary to go to the municipal hospital to rescue the two children.
The doctor asked li's family: Do you want to contact the ambulance to protect the child? Hurry up and get ideas!
But the performance of the Li family surprised the doctor.
The Li family panicked and were all confused:
Li Liu's mother only knows how to walk around, but is in a hurry, but she does not know what to do;
Li Liu was initially six gods and no master, but later disappeared without a trace.
The doctors were in a hurry, and the two newborn babies were placed in the delivery room for more than an hour, their lives hanging in the balance.
Later, when the reporter asked what he was doing for more than an hour, Li Liu's answer was:
"I've been on the phone, I just can't hold my mind, I'm already confused."
Dragon phoenix fetus father Li Liu
It turned out that Li Liu had never experienced such a thing, and for more than an hour, he hid in the corner and cried, and then called all his relatives and friends to win their support and give him the confidence to save the child.
Li Liu is too young, his experience and experience are not enough for him to deal with such an event, and he has no opinion on what to do next, so he has to let his relatives and friends make up his mind for himself.
At this time, he felt regret for the first time, regretting that he should not be impulsive, and his girlfriend had a child, let alone insist on going his own way and giving birth to two children.
After more than an hour, the Li family finally reached an agreement:
Tire protection!
The hospital hurriedly took the two children to an ambulance and took them to a higher hospital.
Whether or not to save the child, no one dares to make a decision
Li Liu's mother was heartbroken when she saw her grandson and granddaughter, and it was the first time she saw such a small child.
The doctor gave her a preventive injection in advance:
"If the conditions in your home are not good, don't protect it."
This made her even more panicked, and she could only silently wipe her tears, how to go next, whether the child was still safe or not, she did not know.
The day after the child was born, the doctor told Li Liu that her daughter's condition was very bad, her body was black, and as a father, he had to make up his mind for the child's life and death.
Yin Shanglian is also very hesitant, and she also hopes that the children can be born safely:
"But if you want to (protect the child) it will be very difficult, if the child can be saved, who does not want to protect?" 」
"If it's not good, then who wants it?"
And Li Liu rushed out of the ward, wiping tears in the corridor, and the reporter hurriedly asked:
"The children are all black, what are you doing?"
Li Liu was entangled in the attitude of her mother-in-law:
"Now her mother(Yin Shanglian) has such an attitude, and I really can't stand it."
Li Liu said that when the mother-in-law objected to him being with Xiaozhi, and now that the child was born, this was the case, and Yin Shanglian still dragged on to the previous question, which made him feel sad.
The reporter hurriedly persuaded Yin Shanglian:
"It's still important to put the lives of children first."
In fact, Yin Shanglian understands these truths, but she has no way:
"The doctors said no, what else can you let me do?"
"I've said hello to the doctors in the hospital and asked them to do as well as possible."
At the beginning, the doctor told Yin Shanglian that if he prepared 200,000 yuan for full treatment, the child could still be saved.
But now, the situation of the baby girl is very dangerous, the whole body is purple, the general ventilator can not provide oxygen, the doctor said that it is necessary to use a hyperbaric oxygen chamber to maintain the child's life.
But Yin Shanglian heard that entering the hyperbaric oxygen chamber will get pneumonia, in her opinion, pneumonia is a difficult disease to treat, all year round to take medicine:
"That must be a lot of money!"
Between words, Yin Shanglian had the intention of giving up.
Hearing her mother's words, Xiaozhi in the hospital bed cried, she was just a 17-year-old child, just joined the work, no financial base, although worried about the two newborn babies, but unable to decide the future of the child.
Yin Shanglian, who was at the side, reprimanded her:
"What are you crying about! You're in trouble! ”
In the rescue room of the city hospital, Li Liu saw his two children.
Dabao's condition is temporarily stable, but Xiaobao has been plugged in with an invasive ventilator, which will only be used when the condition is serious.
The doctor said that the two children, the development of various organs is very immature, Xiaobao also has breathing problems, liver infection is serious, low white blood cells, feeding a milliliter of milk are stomach swelling, coagulation function is not ideal, brain development is still unknown, need to look at it slowly in the later stage...
A series of questions have baffled Li Liu, and these situations not only require the child to survive on his own, but also need strong financial support.
Li Liu was very distressed about his daughter, but he had more than enough and insufficient strength.
Later, it is still difficult
In the end, Yin Shanglian agreed to protect her two children.
But she had one condition: one of the children had to have the woman's surname.
Three days later, Xiaozhi was discharged from the hospital, and the two children were still rescued in the hospital, but the Li family and Xiaozhi's family clashed again.
It turned out that this morning, Li Liu applied for birth certificates for the two children, and when they handled, they needed to give the children a good name.
Originally, it had been discussed, the boy followed his mother's surname, the girl's surname was Li, and his father's surname followed.
But when she returned home to see the birth certificate, Yin Shanglian was furious: Why are both children registered on Li Liu's side!
Li Liu explained that he didn't think about it so much at the time, and he thought of going directly to his side and talking about it.
But Yin Shanglian asked that with her own surname, the child's hukou should be on her side:
"Before writing, why don't you ask for our opinion!" Is it that we agree to be listed in your name! ”
"Our family also pays for the children!"
In Yin Shanglian's view, what is the surname is not important, what matters is whose name the hukou is under.
Xiaozhi came to the Li family unmarried and pregnant, one did not have a bride price, the other did not hold a banquet, she was worried that her daughter would not have a good foothold in the Li family.
She sprinkled her anger on Xiao Zhi, who was still weak:
"Your father and mother are ugly, she (Xiaozhi) herself does not understand things, caused by herself!" You (Xiaozhi) are still crying here! Willful again and again! ”
"Before all discussed, one with the father's surname, one with the mother's surname!" If you want our family to pay for it, you get our family! ”
Li's family hurriedly persuaded: Now it is only a birth permit, and the household registration has not yet been processed.
They hoped that Yin Shanglian would quickly calm down and solve the problem of saving the child.
The Li family took out a stack of hospital payment bills, and after only three days of hospitalization, the two children's daily medical expenses reached 18,000 yuan, and now they still owe the hospital treatment fees.
Looking at the mother-in-law who is still chattering about the hukou issue, Li Liu is helpless:
"I don't know if the hukou is important or the child is important now, if her mother really doesn't care, our family will never give up when they do their best!"
In the end, Xiaozhi's father agreed to try to raise money from friends and relatives to see the child.
Xiaozhi's family is not easy, she is the only daughter of the family, a few years ago the family built a new house, decoration, owed tens of thousands of yuan of foreign debt has not been repaid.
They can only promise to raise as much money as possible, and they will bear the full cost of nutrition after the child is discharged from the hospital.
Listening to his father-in-law's words, Li Liu was silent, which meant that the child's treatment fees might all fall on the Li family, and now the current difficulties, he did not know how to survive.
19-year-old Li Liu is too young and immature, has almost no social experience, life experience, does not understand the responsibility of being a father and husband, has no prejudgment of production, and becomes a father in a confused way, and is flustered in the face of problems.
17-year-old Xiaozhi also does not know how to protect herself, willful, and is not prepared to be a mother at all.
Yin Shanglian was too harsh on her daughter, causing Xiaozhi to dare not communicate with her mother on major issues.
The mistakes of several people have come together to produce the bitter fruit of today, but they have to be borne by the newborn baby.
I hope that after this incident, the two young people can really mature, truly understand love and marriage, and assume the responsibility of parenthood.