People are more angry than people.
In life, people who originally started from the same place have become a stark contrast. Other people's lives are flourishing, the family is sweet, loving, harmonious and united, living in a spacious house, having no worries about food and clothing, and thriving in their careers. The whole family exudes a warm breath.
His own life is unparalleled miserable, the family is like a strange road, three days a small quarrel, five days a big quarrel, often husband and wife look at each other, children are not motivated, career is not talked about. The atmosphere of the home reaches the freezing point, and returning home is like walking into an ice cellar, without the warmth of home.
Some people lament to the heavens, why are their days getting worse and worse? In fact, there is a reason for this.
Extremely low emotional intelligence
People with extremely low emotional intelligence always misinterpret each other's meaning. The other party originally meant to ask for warmth, but was coldly blocked by a sentence. In the long run, snubbing each other has become a matter of course.
At home, he always regards himself as the center, it seems that his family should take care of his emotions, take care of his food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and how do you do it yourself?
The oil bottle was poured, did you go to help it in time? Are clothes littered and housework never actively involved? Only know how to cover your hands to open your mouth? If your family is unwell, have you asked with concern and accompanied them to the hospital in time? He is a little uncomfortable, and he complains that his family did not take good care of him?
Festival Japan should be a day full of blessings, but there is no sense of ritual of life, the romantic proposal of the family, rejected by people with low emotional intelligence, there is no reason, if you really want a reason, it is "not interesting." ”
People with extremely low emotional intelligence do not know how to maintain the emotional relationship between partners and juniors, and never know how to love others, to put it bluntly, it is cold-blooded. Such a person, out of the family, in the society is also difficult to eat, interpersonal relationships make people worry, they do not know themselves, life is getting worse and worse, the heart has not yet a little number.
Likes to complain
In a person's life, everything cannot be satisfactory. When encountering the inevitable frustration in life, being able to face it with an open-minded mind, encountering the trough of the career, and surviving strongly, any haze will disappear.
But there is a kind of person who especially likes to complain. In terms of small things, if it rains for a few days, he will complain, complain that this God is so annoying, and the rain does not stop. It was not easy for the day to clear, and he began to complain again, saying that it was too hot and how it did not rain.
Life likes to complain, complaining that they were not born in a rich family, not born with a golden key, no house in the family can be demolished to make a huge amount of money, complaining that their parents can't help themselves, making themselves too hard.
At work, I like to complain, complain about low wages, complain about tired work, complain about colleagues, complain about leaders, complain about my own talents, and can't be reused. Complaining and complaining, turning yourself into a person with negative energy in the eyes of everyone, no one wants to associate with it, lest they be infected by negative energy, and over time, they will become lonely.
Split hairs
People who are preoccupied are always habitually demanding. At any time, you will not give yourself a penny of profit, on the contrary, you want to take advantage of it when you see it, and constantly refresh the lower limit of your own life in the chicken and dog things.
People who are preoccupied with their calculations actually consume themselves. When taking advantage, it seems to take advantage of it, but it actually damages its own connections and damages its dignity.
People who are preoccupied and calculating like to compete for the limelight in trivial matters, do not allow themselves to lose to others, and over time, fall into the quagmire and take care of themselves.
This kind of person prefers to lament the heavens, why do others live in the spring breeze, but they themselves are more and more miserable? In fact, they are unwilling to take a look at themselves in the mirror, refuse to admit the humility in their bones, refuse to admit the excellence of others, it is others who are working hard, and the reason why they are calculating is because they have no ability and no bottom, so they go to fight for a little sweetness in small things. Over time, the days got worse and worse.
Write at the end:
American psychology professor David Hawkins has also:
"A person with positive energy, his magnetic field will drive everything to become orderly and beautiful." And when a person's heart is full of negative energy, it will not only hurt themselves, but also make the surrounding magnetic field disordered and bad. ”
People who are full of negative energy will only encounter people and things with negative energy. And if we want to make our lives better, we must first reject negative energy.
In addition, the ancient saying is good: "A person is poor for three points and cold, and his heart is poor for seven points." "People who are poor in heart, even if they have a lot, will not guard the country, on the contrary, in the day after day of complaining, in the days of not knowing how to discover the beauty of life, in the trivial calculations, gradually become destitute, and the days are getting worse and worse.
Not only material, but also the inner "destitution".
May you, with a positive sunshine in your heart, encounter warmth every day, and live a prosperous life! Thanks for reading, welcome to pay attention!