Spring is here, the grass is sprouting, some people are in love, some people are breaking up.
We long for love, embrace life, resist loneliness, and enjoy solitude.
Everyone is like a small planet, interdependent in this large universe, and at the right distance.
When people reach middle age, many times they will face various pressures, whether it is work or life, we must deal with it calmly and cannot blindly escape.
Middle-aged feelings are full of temptations and helplessness.
The attitude of middle-aged people to their feelings is both ambiguous and clear, both hesitant and firm.
In fact, we just need to live our own lives, and we don't have to pay too much attention to the eyes of others.
We can't live like others, and it's remarkable that we can live like our ideals.
As we all know, feelings need to be expressed through words.
When a middle-aged man does not know how to express feelings, his attitude towards feelings is too cold and arrogant, and he is unwilling to feel your existence with his heart, and he is unwilling to tolerate your shortcomings, indicating that he does not love you.
A middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply will usually express love and tenderness in time, and will prove his sincerity and infatuation with you with practical actions.
Generally speaking, middle-aged men who say these things to you really can't let go of you.
1, "I need you very much" Love is mutual need, relying on each other.
When a middle-aged man says to you, "I need you very much," it means he can't live without you.
When he can't let go of you, he will guard you step by step, giving you meticulous care and considerate care.
The writer Maugham said: "Human beings do not need to set limits, love and freedom, regardless of age, are treasures that can be pursued at any time." ”
When he expresses the love and tolerance that he needs from you, he cannot give up this emotion, indicating that he really loves you.
A middle-aged man who really can't let go of you will usually be extra kind and friendly to you, willing to take the initiative to get close to you and integrate into your world.
He will not only take the initiative to express his need for your company and care, but also be willing to give his love and sincerity.
Because he can't let go of you, he can't stand your snub and indifference.
If you ignore his existence for a long time, you don't need him, he has no sense of existence and value in front of you, he may be sullen.
A middle-aged man who really can't let go of you, longs for more attention and care from you, and wants to draw courage and strength from you to keep moving forward.
Once you realize that he is starting to drift apart and snub you, and that you are drifting apart from each other and no longer have any emotional intersection and life connection, you should be soberly aware that he may not care so much about you.
The more you can't let go of your middle-aged man, the more you will need your affectionate companionship and gentle treatment.
Only the feelings that each other needs are possible to last.
2, "You are really great" Everyone is eager to get encouragement and comfort from those around them.
When a middle-aged man often says to you, "You're really great," it means he really loves you.
If he never expresses his recognition and appreciation for you in time, but constantly denies and belittles you, hitting your enthusiasm and self-confidence, it means that he may not love you so much.
A middle-aged man who truly loves and cares about you will feel that every minute and every second of his time with you is particularly precious, and he will also be able to tap into the shining points in you.
Even if everyone mocks you and thinks you are useless, he will not easily abandon you, let alone completely blackmail you.
Because he can't let go of you in his heart, he will give you comfort when you are lost, give you encouragement when you are inferior, and encourage you to cheer up when you fail.
When he often sincerely praises you, thinks that you are really good, you have a lot of different shining points, you are a very talented person, he can see your unique charm and characteristics, indicating that he really can't let go of you.
If he doesn't see you at all, he can't see your strengths and strengths, and it's impossible to say to you, "You're really great," but instead, he might say to you, "You're really bad, you're useless." ”
3, "I have always been there" love needs to be accompanied.
If he really can't let go of you, he will give you more companionship and care, rather than turning a blind eye to you and being indifferent.
When a middle-aged man often says to you, "Don't be afraid, I've always been there," it shows that he really cares about you.
Don't be afraid of the dark, he will light the way home for you.
Don't be afraid of the rain, he will hold up an umbrella for you.
Don't be afraid to be alone, he will stay and accompany you silently.
When he hangs the phrase "I've always been there" and often chants it in front of you, it shows that he really loves you.
Only a middle-aged man who really can't put you down will be willing to spend a lot of time with you.
The older people grow, the more they feel that time is short and precious.
The reason why he is willing to sacrifice his spare time, stay with you, listen to your voice with his heart, accompany you out of the trough, and let you fall in love with life again, because he always cares about and misses you, and he has reserved a small corner for you in his heart.
Not all middle-aged men will say to you: "I have always been there", and not all middle-aged men are willing to stay where they are, silently waiting for you to change your mind.
If a middle-aged man is like a big tree, silently guarding you and shielding you from the wind and rain, no matter how far you go, he will wait for you to come home in the old place, indicating that he really can't let go of you, and he is truly in love with you.
Although some people say they love you, they never listen to you patiently or spend time with you, and such people obviously do not love you enough.
In short, when you find that a middle-aged man often says some warm and touching love words to you, is willing to take the initiative to share his heart with you, is sincere and frank enough for you, and can stand up at key moments to help you, then it is obvious that he really can't let go of you.
Middle-aged men who truly love and care about you will not only express themselves with actions, but also warm you through words.
Because he can't let go of you, he will often say to you: "Honey, are you doing well, I really miss you." ”
Not all middle-aged men are good at expressing love through words, and when he is able to take the first step and take the initiative to express kindness and love to you, it shows that he really cares about you.
The writer Zhou Guoping once said: "People who were originally very close to each other later, time made them sadly distant, and once they met, language could not wait to measure the distance of estrangement." People seem to have become accustomed to this, and there is nothing more ruthless in life than this. ”
A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June.
Beautiful language, full of warmth and warmth, is sincere and from the heart, rather than hypocrisy and cold language.
When you find that a middle-aged man is never willing to take the initiative to talk to you, or is neither sincere nor enthusiastic when he speaks, always pretending and being aggressive, it means that he has completely let go of you, and you don't have to be affectionate with him.
Of course, the most comfortable state with a partner is not necessarily to chat and talk in a hot way, but even if they are silent with each other, they will not feel embarrassed and cold, revealing tacit understanding.
When you meet a middle-aged man who really understands you, he can accurately express his love and care for you through words, even if he does not speak, he feels particularly beautiful and comfortable, then please cherish him.
For the rest of your life, may you have a person around you who can talk, understand your heart, relieve your worries, from early morning to dusk, from green silk to white hair, accompany you to enjoy the waves of the years, and accompany you to laugh and talk about the wind and rain of life.