Please guard her tenderness
You say you like her gentleness and kindness, watching her smile so wildly around you, I hope she will always laugh around you.
I remember when you first met her, you surrounded me all day and said that she spoke softly, very quietly, could draw, and could sing. Of course I know this, and these are all there for all to see. But I thought of another story, so I told you that her gentleness and kindness, her talents are all given to her by her family, if you do not have the ability to guard her character, then do not bother her.
Once upon a time, I heard a story that the heroine was also a gentle and kind person, and later became with a boy who liked her. At first, the boys spoiled her, and the girls would not make unreasonable trouble. Getting along longer and longer, the boys began to feel that the girlfriend was not gentle, but slowly swallowed up all kinds of things, and began to be less enthusiastic about girls. Until later, the girl's indifference to the boy gradually became dissatisfied, and from time to time she would pick the boy's fault, the quarrel gradually replaced the laughter, and the two people who used to like each other gradually became familiar strangers. The boy only remembered that he liked the gentle and kind girl at the beginning, and he forgot that slow heat is also a girl's personality.
However, the boy and girl who came later were also together, and their story was a different ending. The boy would accompany the girl to draw, and for an afternoon he would listen to the girl sing and sing to the girl. Even if she knows that the boy's song is out of tune, the girl still listens silently, the girl will correct the boy, and the boy will gladly accept it. The girl will also learn the game that the boy likes, and the boy will take her to play, then the boy will not care about the so-called desire to win or lose in the game, but protect the girl who assists him behind him. They will also quarrel, but it will also end, ending with the girl saying "I was wrong", ending with the boy holding the girl in his arms, and then saying in her ear, "Forgive me". In them I really knew that boys really like the gentleness of girls, and I saw the protection of boys' personalities, but also the spoiling and accommodation of girls to boys.
Everyone's life is plain and vigorous, when we are young, we are often attracted to certain personalities of the opposite sex, which is understandable, but we need to try to protect the character we appreciate in him/her, rather than choosing to be strangers because of a momentary enthusiasm and torturing each other.
The personality of each person around us is a gift from their original family, and I hope that we can all guard those who are gentle and kind, and do not "change their temperament" because he/she goes to another family.
