The really beautiful feeling is that two people can snuggle up to each other, support each other, and care for each other.
If the person you love begins to gradually alienate and snub you, you no longer have a heart-to-heart relationship, and there is no longer emotional integration, indicating that your feelings have entered a desperate situation.
Loving someone is a happy thing, and falling in love with someone who doesn't love themselves is a very unfortunate thing.
When the person you love loves you equally, it is both happy and lucky.
The charm of a relationship is that you never know when the relationship will come to an abrupt end, and the only thing you can grasp is the present.
When you clearly realize that a person has completely let go of you, you should no longer have a deep affection for him, after all, there is no way to force feelings.
Love is wordless guardianship, silent waiting. If you bloom, the breeze will come.
Don't rush to give your heart, and don't fool yourself.
As the writer Su Gengsheng said: "Sincerity is the most easily disappointed thing, failing a job, you have to lose money, you have to lose a cooperation, you have to lose opportunities, what can you lose if you fail to live up to your sincerity?" In this way, sincerity is worthless, in the eyes of people who do not need sincerity. ”
When you find that your love has been given to the wrong person, don't dwell on it anymore, but let go early and give up decisively.
So, what kind of abnormal behavior does a middle-aged man who has a heart for you usually have?
1. Stare at you intently
The eyes are the windows of the mind. When a middle-aged man is always staring at you intently, there is a good chance that he has a heart for you.
To judge whether a middle-aged man has a heart, you only need to look at the look in his eyes.
When he looks at you, his eyes are full of sincere emotions, and his eyes are full of affection, so it is obvious that he really loves you.
The more you can't let go of your middle-aged man, the more he will haunt you, and his eyes will closely follow your footsteps.
If you find that he no longer makes eye contact with you, and there is any verbal or emotional collision between you, it means that he is not emotional or emotional about you.
The eyes of the middle-aged man are very large, and they can fit the mountains, the sea, and the blue sky.
The eyes of a middle-aged man are small, so small that they can only hold a small you.
If he really has a heart for you, he can't help but look you up and down, lock you with gentle eyes, and no matter where you go, his eyes will follow your figure closely.
Only when he completely lets go of you will he be indifferent to you, turn a blind eye, and even look at you with no one and be arrogant.
2. Immerse yourself in your feelings
The most attractive moment for a middle-aged man is when he is fully engaged in the things he loves.
When we work tirelessly for the dream in our hearts, there is light in our eyes, there is love in our hearts, we will not be afraid of any wind and waves, every mountain opens the road, meets the water and builds bridges, one day, we will be fierce and auspicious, the rest of our lives will be accompanied by good people, and love will last forever.
When people reach middle age, it is difficult to devote themselves to a relationship.
When a middle-aged man is willing to love you wholeheartedly, has been silently accompanying and guarding you, and pays for you wholeheartedly, every minute and every second of you and him is full of happiness and happiness, indicating that he really loves you, and you are a pair made in heaven.
Truly beautiful feelings are based on giving and cherishing each other.
When he is in the relationship, he can love you without distraction, is willing to give all his enthusiasm to your feelings, and never goes near or far to you, hot and cold, indicating that he really loves you.
Feelings cannot withstand perfunctory and temptation.
If a middle-aged man's attitude towards feelings is both impatient and sincere, he always gives up halfway and retreats when he encounters a little setback, then it is obvious that he does not really care about you, and he may end this useless relationship at any time.
Feelings require an investment of time, energy, money, and sincerity.
If he treats feelings like a, full of lies, perfunctory, and indifferent to you, then you don't have to be obsessed with him.
3. Be particularly dedicated and responsible to you
Truly beautiful feelings are based on each other's single responsibility.
To judge whether a middle-aged man has a heart for you, it is very important to say whether he is responsible for you and whether he can fulfill his promises in time.
If he only knows how to talk and sweetly to you, never put it into action, and refuses to take the initiative to assume responsibility in his feelings, it means that he is not a really reliable person.
When people reach middle age, they must be a mature middle-aged person. The so-called maturity is that whether it is a person or a work, it is very steady and responsible.
When a man reaches middle age, he may not have much time and energy to deal with a person he doesn't love at all.
If he doesn't have a crush on you, he won't easily waste time and feelings for you.
Because he doesn't have you in his heart, he may talk nonsense in front of you and will not take any responsibility for what he has said or done.
The more middle-aged men who love you, the more they usually pay attention to details in front of you, will be cautious in words and deeds, and carefully maintain your feelings.
Because he loves you, he doesn't want to lose you. In order not to lose you, he will be extra specific and responsible for you, satisfying your sense of security, belonging, and happiness in your relationship.
In short, a man is moved, more or less there will be some abnormal behavior and performance.
For example, he will be extra gentle and considerate to you, dedicated and responsible, will be fully devoted, generous, and may also stare at you intently, and the corners of his mouth will not help but rise every time he thinks of you.
Loving someone cannot be hidden. No matter how deep and introverted he usually seems, once he has a heart for you, it will expose his sincerity and obsession with you.
The reason why he is extra enthusiastic and proactive with you is because he wants to keep the years you have gone through together and hopes to create more good memories with you.
If he is full of contempt and scorn for you, and is not willing to give time for you or invest money in you, then it is clear that he does not care so much about you.
In the face of a person who is not worthy of love, no matter how good the other party is, we must know how to stop the loss in time.
Writer Ding Ding Zhang said: "Loving people is an important thing, loss is also part of love, unpleasant and pleasant, gained and suddenly lost, feet on the ground or on the roller coaster at low speed or high speed forward, ultimately just to prove that life is not wasted, this is the triviality and inevitability of life to us, eyes closed, can try." ”
In any case, we must cherish the friends, relatives and lovers around us who are worth cherishing, and stay away from those who hurt us.
May your affection not be betrayed, may the rest of your life not be lonely, may you henceforth love and hold hands and have a return date, may your life be less sad and more joyful.