Zhang Ailing once said: Because of love, so compassion. Because they understand, they are tolerant.
This classic quote profoundly depicts the true situation of everyone in love.
Its general meaning is that when we fall in love with a person, when we face him, the heart will become extremely soft, and all the tenderness and kindness will be given to him.
Then, after trying to enter his inner world, after understanding his heart and understanding his situation, he will involuntarily tolerate his shortcomings and mistakes and be considerate of his difficulties.
The reason why we treat him this way is because we have feelings for that person, so we will do our best to love him, understand him, and be considerate of him.
And a person's love will not only be reflected in action, but also manifest in language, and will be conveyed through every inadvertent word.
When a man often says these 3 things to you, it is actually a hint that he is emotional about you.
01. It's an appreciation to say something praise to you
If a man always praises you, there is no doubt that it is enough to show that he appreciates you very much, knows how to appreciate your strengths, or that your shortcomings have become an advantage in his eyes.
As the saying goes: the lover's eyes are out of the west.
Only men who are passionate about you will pay attention to you meticulously, understand you with their hearts, see your shining points, and then, unabashedly praise you, express their affirmation to you.
And a man who doesn't love you, he never sees your advantages in his eyes, or simply ignores your advantages, picks your thorns everywhere, and sees that you are not pleasing to the eye.
Because you have no weight or status in his heart, he will naturally not pay attention to you and appreciate you, and you are a dispensable existence in his eyes.
Only men who love you will regard you as a treasure, cherish everything about you, feel your goodness with their hearts, and appreciate your uniqueness and beauty.
Only a man who loves you will not hesitate to praise you, and often say some praise to you, which is an appreciation, and this appreciation hides his deep love for you.
02. If you care about it, it is a kind of care
When a man falls in love with a woman, he will always worry about her, remember her, and will take the initiative to contact her and greet her current situation.
And will also say words of concern to her, convey to her his love and thoughts for her, and greet her softly.
When she was sad, he patiently accompanied her, hugged her tightly in his arms, and gently comforted her.
When she was sick, he took her to the doctor, constantly told her some things to pay attention to, and instructed and urged her to take her medicine on time.
When she's not around, he'll ask her what's happened recently, care about her recent situation, and tell her to eat on time, take good care of herself, and take good care of her body.
In short, a man who truly loves you will often say words of concern to you, in fact, this is a kind of care, a kind of concern, a kind of affection.
03. It's a kind of thoughtfulness to say words of encouragement to you
Love means a kind of heartache and care.
When a man is truly in love with you, he will try his best to understand your situation, silently support your decision, firmly guard you behind you, and be the man you can rely on.
When you encounter setbacks and feel lost, he will gently guard your side, look at you affectionately, and say many words of encouragement to you.
From his words of encouragement, you can clearly feel his sincerity and affection, he is hurting you and supporting you from the bottom of his heart.
He longs for you to be happy, that you can face life with a smile every day, and that you are afraid to see you with a sad face.
Once he perceives your negative emotions, he will take the initiative to comfort you, encourage you, and hope that you will regain your strength and bravely face the ups and downs in life.
In fact, his words of encouragement are a kind of gentleness and thoughtfulness, which hides his deep love for you, gentle affection.
And a man who does not love you will never take into account your emotional changes, will not feel your sadness and loss, and is unlikely to encourage you, support you, and be considerate of you.
Emotional Message:
There are three things in the world that cannot be concealed: cough, poverty, and love.
When a man is emotional about you, his affection will be hidden in these 3 words.
Those are words of praise, words of concern, words of encouragement. These 3 kinds of words hide his appreciation, care and consideration for you.
Only men who love you will appreciate you, care about you, care about you from the bottom of their hearts, and use love to warm your heart and illuminate your world.
If you meet a man who loves you so much, please cherish it and don't wait until you miss it before you feel deep regret and regret.
Many times, missing is a lifetime, and turning around is a lifetime.