With the beginning of a new era of parenting, there are few parents who do not want their children to excel and contribute to society when they grow up. In real life, in the face of children's playfulness when they were young, more parents have a feeling of hating iron and steel, and always hope that children can learn to be an angel baby hard.
Often the fact is not as good as people wish, the son of the Liang Liang family has gone to kindergarten, although usually very obedient but there is one thing that makes Liang Liang headache, every time the child is watching TV and playing mobile phones, it seems to have entered the realm of no one, no matter how Liang Liang shouts his son, he is like not hearing, Liang Liang is very worried about what is wrong with his son? Even suspect that the child is "incompetent".
In fact, it seems that the son of the beautiful family is very greedy, and has the quirk of "like to immerse himself in his own world", but the beautiful and the mothers do not have to worry. In disguise, if the child has these quirks, even if it is greedy, it does not matter, but it can show that it is a manifestation of high IQ.
These 2 "quirks" appear in the child, and mothers should not rush to blame:
Children like to be immersed in their own world, and how to shout is like not hearing:
I don't know if you have ever felt this way: the child is often in a daze, likes to immerse himself in doing things, and sometimes how to shout how to shout him as if he did not hear, so that many parents are worried about whether there is a problem with the child's physical development.
In fact, parents only judge from this point to be too arbitrary. From the perspective of the child's growth journey, most babies cannot concentrate at the age of 1 to 4 years old, and they may be attracted to various things at this time, such as looking at the mother for a while, looking at the father for a while, being attracted by small ants, liking to tread water puddles, etc., all of which are exploring the world.
From the age of 4, children's concentration will slowly manifest, but also related to their brain development. So, when moms find that their child always likes to immerse themselves in their own world, it is precisely because he has excellent concentration.
Just like academic performance, only concentration can avoid bad habits such as wandering in class, declining grades, and procrastinating in writing homework, so it can be understood that this quirk is a good phenomenon.
Children often throw things, and it doesn't work or continues to throw:
Bao Mom Xiaohua has recently complained about her 2-and-a-half-year-old son from time to time, seeing that she is going to be a 3-year-old baby but still likes to throw things everywhere, not only throwing toys but also throwing cups, every time she is said by the child's father to eat or even punish the station. But the son still does not listen, next time will continue to throw, how to say it does not work, the family every day to help him pick up things ...
If you also have the same baby, don't blame him. Under normal circumstances, for the vast majority of babies, there will be throwing things from the age of 1, and until the age of 3, it is possible that they cannot control themselves, but they are normal manifestations of the baby's physical development.
His behavior is neither playful nor eccentric, but in fact, it is a process of slow brain development, or the baby is seeking the attention of parents. As your baby grows older, this phenomenon will disappear little by little. Psychologists believe that children get a little smarter every time they throw something around.
So, when moms find out that their child has these unusual behaviors, he is just a curious baby, is understanding the world and is developing intelligence, and mothers should be happier.
【Transferred from: Sohu original — pillow parenting said】