The spring of 2022 is really long... Shanghai epidemic control, we have been at home for the second week, what about you, my dear cloud girlfriends, are you all okay there?
The small partners in the team said that they used to argue with their husbands, arguing about whether they were tired of taking a baby or going to work, but now it is good, while taking a baby, while going to work... How can you not go crazy... I thought about it very hard for half a day, maybe, it is precisely because Little D has a variety of tricks every day, making me cry and laugh more than 800 times, but it makes me "trapped by the epidemic" days, it is really boring...
For example, last night, little D was doing homework on the IPAD, and as he did it, he began to wipe his tears, and when I asked my father, she said quietly: I am too lonely... You say, this day and day, can you eat well? After discussing it, the friends decided to collect a wave of cute, hateful, and painful moments to share with everyone.
The names "Little D" below are all our stories, the others are all my search for others, and in recent days, there is a great need for such a "healing system". What about you? In this spring, every day that the baby comes to our lives, will you also be healed by the "trouble", "doing", "tricking" and "spoiling" of the dolls?
Well, life is full of new experiences
01
The epidemic in Shanghai is fierce, and our family has experienced nucleic acid six times. Little D was so nervous for the first time that he didn't dare to go. We role-played several times at home and told her that the staff in the protective suit was the cute Big White, and her dad and I played the Big White to test her, and she played the Big White to test us, taking turns playing each other. The reasoning that should be preached has been told, and the various feelings that may be there have also taken her to rehearse.
Finally set off and joined the team of nucleic acid testing. As a result, it was Little D's turn, she took off her mask and shouted at Dabai: No!! This is my body!! You can't touch me!! I'm not ready!! I sweated instantly!
Thousands of calculations, did not count the sex education safety knowledge that repeatedly taught her, she used all this... Unexpectedly, Dabai smiled and said to her, Well, when you are ready to talk to me.
My husband and I hurried forward first to demonstrate to Little D, and after she read it from the sidelines, she cautiously stepped forward and said to Dabai: I am ready.
02
"Mom, I'm going out, I'm going to buy something, I'm going to the playground..."
"No, there is a virus outside, we are sealed" "Mom, why is the AA family not sealed?" ”
"Because of the gradual investigation of the virus" "Mom, why is the BB family sealed for one day?" "Because there is no virus after checking" "Mom, why did the CC family unseal it today?" ”
"Because there is no virus after verification" "Mom, I want to go out and play ,......"
"No... Was sealed "Why?.? ”“。。。”
03
My son is more than 2 years old, usually brushes his teeth, wants to stuff the toothbrush into it and does not open his mouth, and is actually fascinated by doing nucleic acid testing.
The first time the community unified test, we just lined up, the staff said: children who did not go to kindergarten are not used for the time being; the baby is immediately anxious, so that the force is to move forward, and Ladu can't hold back;
Wait until the 17th, the neighborhood committee notified the whole community to close, 1 time a day nucleic acid, the children that are happy, according to the excitement of the mood, obediently wear a mask in the queue for a long time, a row to him ah ah ah mouth open boss (said good brushing teeth do not open the mouth?? ）；
After doing it for the first time, Mom, I still think it is too interesting, pull me and say: Mom, line up again to do it again! Aaaah! After doing the nucleic acid, each person was given a sticker, and the stickers of our family of four were asked to be pasted on his arm. Now 1 test a day, as soon as the time comes, he will say, go, put on a mask, do nucleic acid to go (but brush your teeth or do not open your mouth)...
04
At home, Little D and her dad started playing Mini World (another event I couldn't fit into).
One day, I heard her shouting: Brother, get on the number! I poked my head out of the kitchen and said, You're going to yourself, you're so old, you can't go to the bathroom yourself. Little D and dad just laughed and collapsed on the sofa, since then my family has more jokes, at least three times a day: I have a silly mother, silly mother can not play games, thinking that "on the number" is "on the big number"
05
Eat with Little D at noon, specially put the meal by the window, open the window, breathe in the fresh air, look at the trees outside the window, and feel the sun. She said, Mom, I want to be a classmate and a teacher, I want to go back to school.
I thought to myself, I miss your teachers and your classmates more than you... Little D continued to ask: Mom, when do you say that the epidemic will end, and it will not end until you are very old. Suddenly, the epidemic has accounted for 1/3 of her life in recent years.
Dolls set ~ road ~ deep
06
On Saturday, the old mother had a birthday, and the baby kept rubbing next to the cake, and after he circled the table for 8 times, he said: Mom, let's play the game of magic mirror. Which Magic Mirror Game? It's the one in Snow White.
Oh well, magic mirror magic mirror tells me who is the best looking woman in the world; of course it's my mother! Are you very happy, if you thank me, you can invite me to eat cake.
07
Mom, you call the courier! What for? Send your brother away, he's too noisy... Good idea, you remember to put yourself in when packing, and write the address to the grandparents to sign for. After eating this bite, call the courier
08
From time to time, my baby's skin made me angry, looked at my frown and angry, smiled and said to me, "You are not good-looking, angry will make you ugly." As he spoke, he pulled the corners of his mouth up, turned into a smile, and said, "This is how good it looks." ”
Can't help but break the defense again. I said to Eva, you always make me angry, I will not only become ugly but also old. He replied that it would be better if you weren't angry. It really has the ability to make me hold out my internal injuries!
09
Go back to your grandparents' house. Dinner was fine, and at night he said he was going to sleep with his grandparents, and as soon as he lay down, he began to shed tears. Grandma asked: What's wrong? He burst into tears, crying and shouting: Are men so barbaric... Then burst into tears, accusing his father of crying at his little brother who was too fierce, ah, is this the wrong script of the heroine...
10
One day, after I had called for it, I started writing my homework. The preparation time took more than half an hour, and each pencil was cut with a pen turner, and there was no action for a long time; I couldn't help but nag a few words, urging him to write quickly. Then he laid his homework notebook on the floor, lay on the ground and began to write. I endure, as long as I can write it everywhere. Just write a pen, the lead is broken, and then sharpen the pencil to continue to write and break...
After three times I couldn't hold the fire again, and after yelling, I slapped his notebook on the table and let him sit up and write well. I sat behind him and watched, and he turned his head and asked me, "When you were a child, did your mother do the same to you?" "Watching his tears swirl in his eyes, holding back and refusing to flow, I broke my defenses in an instant...
The epidemic will pass, and "love" will come back
11
I received a notice from the school that I will start online classes next week. I said to Little D, let's practice it, for example, Monday is coming, and everyone is going to take online classes together. Open the iPad and what will you say when you see your classmates and teachers? Little D blurted out: Hey, Klaus, I love you yo, and more than a heart. Dad immediately put down his work and ran over: "Wait a minute, wait a minute, who, who is called Klaus??" "
During the online class, which was originally the school's annual photo day, Little D would always put the group photo aside, look at the whole class and teachers from time to time, and of course, specifically pointed out Klaus to show me. These days she suddenly handed me the pictures and asked me to help collect them.
I asked, don't you need to see your classmates and teachers, and your dear Klaus? Little D said to me very seriously, no need, because loving others requires putting them in mind, and I put them away.
12
The child has a secret, and I am not allowed to tell my father (saying that he likes a girl in kindergarten)
I asked: Do you usually play with this little friend? He whispered to me, "She never looked at me more," which is a sad story.
13
Little D loves to sing "Crazy for Love", although he doesn't understand what it means, but love hums all the time. Every time I sing, I want to ask you if you dare to ~ ~ ~ She will always stop and answer, I dare to !!!
14
I said to my mother: Take care of your granddaughter, she said, she is too sad not to go to kindergarten, because then she will not see the most handsome boy in the next class... My mother gave me a blank look: Have you forgotten the SARS in 2003, when our family community was sealed, but it did not delay you from falling in love with the little brother downstairs... You can tie the walnuts from the fifth floor window with a rope, and then he receives them downstairs and replaces them with a candy... At that time, I managed you, what did you say, when love is coming, you can't stop it...
You ask me how much I love you
15
I was writing when Little D suddenly came up to me and smiled at me, and he couldn't stop laughing. I stopped and asked her, what's wrong with you? What's so much fun? She said that I was very happy to think that my parents and I had been together all the time, from here to here (referring to her heart to her eyes). Then she looked at me and said, Mom, you smile too, and you frown as if you're not happy.
Mm-hmm, okay oh, Mom wants to learn from you and smile more every day.
16When it comes to cute moments, I must dedicate the most reluctant to delete this in my mobile phone... More than 20,000 pictures - but, still the cutest to sleep... Milk sleep = 10,000 photos secretly taken by the mother - every nursing mother has a gentle moment
But it seems that the bigger the baby, the fewer and fewer photos in the mother's mobile phone and circle of friends... For a while, the little cub saw that I used this "Little Blue Everyday" emoji in the group, so he came to a personal demonstration - Mom, am I also your favorite emoji?
Just as I was about to continue to praise my stupid son, I heard the door being slammed open: Mom, I came back happy after playing my brother!! （...... Black Line)
17
Brushing her teeth with little D, she said to me, Mom, you look at the pool. I said what's wrong? She said, I was just brushing my teeth, thinking "I love you", and then I put me, love, you, in the water, one by one spit out, you see? Suddenly it felt like I was being tickled.
18
Wa quietly tinkered with it for half a day, and mysteriously invited me to his room. It turned out that he prepared a big meal for me with his favorite snack, said that he wanted to wish me a happy birthday, sang me a birthday song, and asked me if I was moved... Touched, but today is not my birthday! son...
End:
Secretly tell everyone that in recent days, I have quietly cried several times. The anti-epidemic female doctor fell on the front line, the China Eastern Airlines MU5735 passenger plane crashed, I did not dare to watch, and could not help but brush the news, I was sad, I felt that I could not do anything... Although I have been holding back and not crying in front of Little D, she feels my sadness.
I told her about what was happening in the news, and she looked at me and said, "Mom, let's remember them so they'll always live in everyone's hearts." That was a long time ago, I had talked to her about the topic of death education, and today, her words deeply comforted me and this spring.