An excellent family and a good parent are not leaving 10 acres of land, 10 houses, 10 cars, and 10 million yuan of savings for your children, but teaching them 10 life temperaments.
First, train your child to listen patiently
Listening is really important! Most of today's many people lack patience, can not listen to the explanations of others, always hope that what they say is the most accurate and reasonable, in fact, in many cases, they will consider a lot of one-sidedness.
The easiest way to do this:
Tell your child not to interrupt others when they are talking, and to look down at each other and listen carefully.
Second, diligent reading habits
Children who do not have the habit of diligent reading will certainly not have lasting development in the future!
Diligence is to have the habit of reading, to learn to read sporadically, to insist on reading when encountering various difficulties; fast, is to have a fast reading speed, the ability to obtain new reading information, and the ability to communicate reading experience with peers in a timely manner. Reading, first of all, is the reading of the text, but also includes the reading of network information, but also includes the attention to all kinds of real information around us.
Encourage your child to read. Start with the book they are most interested in; parents set an example, and when you read books and tell their children the wonderful stories they read, they will stimulate their children's desire to read.
Third, you can communicate with anyone
Without good communication skills, it is impossible to penetrate into the real society, and many opportunities for personal development will be lost. Even in the implementation of family education, communication between children and parents is particularly important.
Life begins with socializing with your parents, first learning to communicate with your parents. A child who communicates well with his parents will be able to communicate well with others.
Fourth, can write
Without good writing skills, it is difficult to seek the ideal career development opportunities in modern society. Writing ability is also a good way to express and publicize.
The simplest way to do this:
You can let the children keep a journal, or encourage them to write whatever they want, as long as they are interested, they can always write it down.
Fifth, you can solve life problems yourself
(Now the mainland to study in the United States children, many are only children, no life skills, will not cook and wash, will not change tires, will not change light bulbs, will not paint furniture, this is not your noble performance, you do not know how to take care of yourself, will not do things, indicating that your concept is very outdated) The ability to face and solve problems independently is the ability to survive that everyone in modern society must have, and it is also the basic ability that individuals must have in the face of life and occupation.
A lot of things to let them do on their own. Don't do everything for the parents.
Sixth, cultivate a child's rigorous character
Rigorous character is the most basic character that children will interact with, be respected, and be appreciated by others in the future. The real situation now is that there may be fewer and fewer people who pay attention to rigor, care about rigor, and insist on rigor, but those who can always be rigorous are the proud people of the times.
When doing anything, encourage them to do it seriously and don't give up halfway. When they encounter difficulties, guide them to help them do a good job.
Seventh, know how to respect each other and know how to self-criticize
When I was very young, my grandmother told me: "Those who respect others are respected." The meaning is very clear, only by respecting others, will be respected by others.
Parents respect each other, be humble to each other, change if they are wrong, and parents are the best teachers.
Eighth, there is a concept of environmental protection, which should be left to the next generation to have a good earth
In fact, many rich, powerful and powerful people nowadays often disregard or ignore the concept of "environmental protection" when satisfying their personal comfortable lives. For example, how much wood do you use to decorate a house, and will that bring disaster to the future of mankind?
When configuring home theaters and music centers, have you considered that decibels during playback will interfere with neighbors and bring noise pollution? When eating all kinds of food, especially wild game, what kind of raw materials should be controlled and protected?
Start with adults and start with small things. For example: whisper in public places, do not throw garbage casually, queue up when getting on the bus, and so on.
Ninth, educate and influence those around you
Not only do you know how to learn and read by yourself, but it will also drive and influence people around you to learn together, which will create an ideal environment for your continuous learning and in-depth learning, and learning will gradually be recognized by more people around you.
Tell and encourage your child that when you are the only one reading and learning and everyone else is playing, don't be influenced by them, but use your actions to influence others. If you are fragrant, there are butterflies coming.
Tenth, get along well with the outside world
Being good at accepting the outside world, good at accepting new things, good at discovering and learning new things and constantly accepting it, this is a very important ability in modern society, and it is also an important manifestation of social progress.
Protect your child's interests and hobbies, don't dismiss your child's whimsy, and encourage them to try it boldly.
If our parents and families can leave these 10 temperaments for their children, then the child's life will be inexhaustible. It is better than you leaving ten houses for your children, and it is better than leaving thousands of dollars for your children!
In 2020
If our parents and families can leave these 10 temperaments for their children,
Then the child's life will be inexhaustible!
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