Daqi's mother said: In front of the screen, are you with your father's surname or your mother's surname? Is your baby's dad's or mom's name? I believe that more than ninety percent of people follow their father's surname, so do you think there is any problem with the baby following the mother's surname? Today we will discuss this issue with our own unprofessional views.
From my personal point of view, I think that the baby's father's surname or mother's surname does not have much impact, mainly depending on the wishes of both parents, or which side's surname is better. In real life, when it comes to children with their mother's surname, many people will start to jump, and I believe that everyone may not understand it very well.
First of all, mainland law clearly stipulates that children can take either their father's surname or their mother's surname. Literally everyone understands, if the child's father's surname is Zhang, the child can also be surnamed Zhang, the mother's surname is Li, then the child can also be surnamed Li, what is the child's surname? It is not prescribed, but determined by the will of the parents.
This law is presumably intended to show that the status of the spouses in the marital relationship is equal, but in reality there are relatively few children with the mother.
Secondly, there are many people who follow their mother's surname throughout history and throughout today. From the very beginning of the matriarchal clan society, to the era of civilization. For example, Princess Guantao of the Han Dynasty, she was the only princess of the Han Dynasty for more than 400 years, her status was only below the emperor and above the princes, she was with her mother's surname, called Dou Tai lord. There are also many people with their mother's surnames, such as Liu Yifei, Mao Xiaotong, Kan Qingzi, etc., all of which are the same as their mother's surname. There is also the recent hit 18-year-old world champion Gu Ailing, who is also surnamed with his mother.
Again, policy results in recent decades. In the past, family planning led to many families having only one daughter, but now the two-child, three-child policy is gradually opening up. The second and third children of the previous only child + multi-child families can not be limited to only following the father's surname. That being said, in such an environment, there are still people who find it difficult to accept that a child follows a mother's surname. In a survey, only 40 percent agreed to let their children follow their mothers, and some even moved out of the traditional Theory of Thousands of Years in China, saying that they could not follow their mother's surname, saying that they would cut off the man's incense.
Not to mention that these families have no royal throne to inherit, or a huge amount of property to inherit, but only to say that the degree of payment in the family, the vast majority of men and women are not much different, then a surname, what is there to argue about?
What's more, in married life, because the mother proposed to follow the mother's surname, the family quarreled, and the family fell apart. Judging from these realities, many people are really obsessed with their surnames.
Finally, some professionals even pull out the genetic factors of the X and Y chromosomes, and strive to pass the Y gene to men and not to women. Discuss the content of this professional field, most people will not, since the child is the crystallization of the love of both parents, so I think in modern society the surname is the same, unless our family is particularly large, can rely on the patrilineal traces, but now many families actually have no so-called genealogy, clan, there is no way to trace.
Conclusion: Do you have any children around you who follow their mother's surname? What do you think about the issue of your child's last name?
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