More and more parents tend to have girls.
In most families, if there is a boy's parents, most of them will not choose to continue to have children, because they have to take more risks, if there is another boy!
After all, from birth to boys, whether it is financial pressure or mental pressure, the requirements for parents are very high, and many parents also feel very broken when they think about it.
Is it really a "burden" to have two boys?
80% of the average person will find it a burden
The more inexperienced people are, the more they will feel that this situation is crazy, and when they think of their hard work all their lives, they are all for their sons, and even when they are old, they have to take care of their sons' children, and there is no room for respite.
Moreover, these people are more concerned about those sad negative emotional experiences, and feel that their friends around them will only complain to themselves, and never have any positive sharing.
So, they simply don't have the courage to try it out for themselves, always looking at others as spectators. They simply don't have the courage to use their own practical actions to explore whether it is really so unbearable.
Boys are not as caring as girls, which increases the helplessness of parents
As the saying goes, a girl is a mother's little cotton jacket, whether it is a girl when she is a child, or after she grows up and marries, there is no difference in the love and care of her parents.
And girls are born with stronger expression ability, never stingy to express their emotions, while boys' performance is not so good, either like a stuffy gourd, or with their parents.
In this way, all parents will like their daughters! When after a hard day, I saw my daughter's cute smiling face, snuggled up in your arms and snuggled up, and all the troubles disappeared.
Comer: The exclusive benefits of the son, the daughter can not compare
The son's exclusive sense of responsibility makes the mother feel safe
Most boys will be taller than their parents, although after growing taller, their parents can no longer teach him, and when they encounter problems, they can only understand and act with reason, whether it is good or bad can only rely on the child's self-development.
But as the son grows up, the sense of responsibility will arise spontaneously, even if it is a naïve boy with an immature mind, when he encounters a dangerous situation, he will protect his mother behind him.
And this kind of behavior is really hard for us to imagine happening to our daughters. When faced with a crisis situation, the first reaction of parents is to protect their daughters, not to be protected.
Sons can be passed down from generation to generation
Since ancient times, it has become a convention for men to pass on the family lineage, that is, children follow their father's surname. If the family has requirements for the child's name, the child will be passed on from generation to generation.
In this act of succession, the daughter becomes a "tool" for the inheritance of other people's families. It is inevitable that parents will have some sense of loss in their hearts.
Although many couples today will allow their children to follow the mother's surname after having children, this is also a prerequisite, or there is material support, or there is some kind of requirement.
The son will be the pillar of the family
In any family, the head of the household or the pillar of the household, is a male role in the play, even if their income is not high, the education is not high, the personality is somewhat weak, but in the face of great right and wrong, their courage and strength are innate.
Of course, when the son is young, the top pillar of the family is the father, and the burden of supporting the family falls on the father, and when the son grows up, the father becomes old, and the body and head are not bright, the importance of the son is highlighted.
The relationship and connection between supporting the elderly and taking care of their own small families is testing the son all the time. Of course, the support of the daughter-in-law is also needed, but most decisions are still up to the son.
In this way, the stronger parents are dependent on their sons when they are old, they are already old, they are eliminated by society, and their ability to accept new things has also deteriorated, and things are still handed over to their sons to deal with more assured!
Today's Topic:
If you were a son on the first day, would you choose to have a second child? If you have two sons, do you really think it is a burden? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!