Every child is a mother's baby, whether they are healthy or not, they will do their best to care for them to grow up. However, some children have physical defects, and parents have to pay more effort, full of bitterness and difficulty.
Women are fragile, but mothers are strong. A few days ago, a video of a mother changing her son's diaper in the classroom poked the tears of many people, and the mother used her own actions to interpret a mother's love and responsibility for her child.
In the video, the mother took advantage of the class to change the diaper of her 12-year-old son in the child's class, and due to the limited conditions, the woman picked up her son and put it on the desk, covered with a cloth and directly changed the diaper.
According to normal circumstances, a 12-year-old child does not need to use such a thing as a diaper, and he can go to the toilet by himself, but this elementary school student cannot do this. The child's mother revealed that when her son was two years old, the hematoma pressed the spinal cord, resulting in high paraplegia paraplegia paralysis below the chest, and since then, he has been incontinent.
From the age of 2 to 12, from kindergarten to the sixth grade, it can be said that if there is no mother's meticulous care, whether the child can go to school is a problem, how much the mother has suffered, so that the child can always read, so that the child can grow up slowly, it is really unimaginable.
Ten years of taking care of the child, insisting on changing the child's diaper, taking care of his life, such maternal love, let many netizens move.
Some netizens said that seeing this video, the mood is very heavy. Some netizens lamented that this mother is not easy, and she will not be able to hold it immediately. Some netizens frankly said that when the mother can't see this, poor child! Hurry up and get better!
Netizens saw that the mother changed the diaper of her 11-year-old son, and she was very distressed. But some netizens believe that the 11-year-old child is not small, there are female classmates in the class, if the diapers are not wet in the classroom, it will make the classmates feel very embarrassed. To consider the feelings of female students, there is also a smell in the classroom to change diapers.
Although there is nothing wrong with the suggestions of these netizens, there is no malice, but when we send out these kind reminders, it is best to have a better attitude and tone, so that the mother and son who are suffering from life feel that our reminders are kind.
Imagine if the child's body is not defective, which parent would change the diaper of the 12-year-old child in the classroom? In the final analysis, it is indeed forced to be helpless, and the bitterness of it is incomprehensible to many people.
Personally, I think that these netizens who make suggestions may also be to take care of the feelings of the girls in the class, and to avoid the children from being ugly in front of their classmates.
As the child grows older, the child's self-esteem also slowly increases, and he will care more about his feelings. As a parent, it is very hard to take care of your children, but you must also pay attention to your children's mental health.
There are physical defects, which have made people feel very sad, changing diapers in front of classmates is not wet, and it will make children feel embarrassed, become a little inferior, and more or less will leave some psychological shadows.
Netizens remind parents to take into account their children's feelings, consider their children's faces, and protect their children's mental health, which is actually a suggestion worth listening to.
Although the conditions in school are relatively limited, if you want to protect your child's privacy, you can try to find a way.
Specifically, you can apply to the school for a small room, and changing your child's diaper in the house can avoid embarrassment between classmates, which is the most effective way.
Secondly, if you can't apply for a small room and want to continue to change the child's diapers in the classroom, you can buy a retractable screen that can protect the child's privacy.
Brushing up on other videos posted by this parent, whether it is a male classmate or a female classmate, they are very friendly to this classmate.
When the mother carries her son to the table, some female classmates will provide some help; when the classmate comes to school from home, some boys will take the initiative to help the classmate bring the bag into the classroom, which seems very loving.
Although the 12-year-old boy has endured the pain of illness, he seems to be very strong.
Even if you can't walk freely like the other students, you can't play with everyone, you can only sit quietly in a custom-made wheelchair, and on this boy's face, we don't see his sad face, always optimistic.
He wrote an article of thanks, my mom is not the most beautiful, but she is the person who loves me the most in the world. It can be said that this child knows how to be grateful, and is very grateful to those uncles and aunts who have helped him.
He also answered why he was so strong? He said: "Because I want to live, I don't want my mother to be so tired, my mother always said, although we need help, but also know how to be grateful!" ”
What a simple word, what a simple word, but it gives people a power that shocks the heart.
Standing up and walking seems to be such a simple action, but this child can't do it; living is an easy thing for many people, but this child has to make a lot of effort. His heart may also be painful, but he never writes it on his face because he doesn't want to make his mother uncomfortable.
Going to school requires his mother to change his diaper, but this child has never given up reading, all he can do is to maintain love for life, read well, and not let his mother be sad.
See this child's will to survive, and his love of life. Many of us need to reflect well, especially those who are not determined, feel that they have lost hope when they encounter a little blow, retreat when they encounter a little difficulty, and run away from home after a few words from teachers or parents.
So fragile, how can you afford to shoulder the heavy responsibilities of the family, and how can you reassure your parents?
In this world, some people have flexible minds and sound limbs, but they are looking for death and life; some people are physically defective, but they always remain optimistic and full of love for life.
This 12-year-old child is the latter, although the body is defective, but has not given up, always has a grateful heart, worthy of our learning, but also worthy of our encouragement!
Life kisses me with pain, but I sing in return.
Both this boy and this mother are telling us not to give up easily in the face of an unsatisfactory life, and only by living well can we see hope. Only by being strong can we overcome difficulties.
The mother insists on changing the child's diaper, and it is still very difficult to hold the child, which makes people sigh the greatness of maternal love. Women are weak, but mothers are strong. The person who loves you the most in this world is your mother.
She shielded us from the wind and rain, raised us, warmed us, and gave us the courage to face the ups and downs of life and the confidence to face challenges and unknowns.
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