Once a person is married, many things are not so simple, just like Feng Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence", although her life seems to be the cause of others, she is a vulnerable group, but we will find that things are not so simple, she is not as selfless as she says.
Feng Xiaoqin's marriage touched the hearts of many people, many women are married and gave up their jobs to become full-time wives, now it is difficult to return to society, and they do not have enough money in their hands, inside and out as if they have become redundant outsiders.
But what I want to say is that Feng Xiaoqin is not as selfless as we see, and although her scheming is not as deep as Gu Qingyu said, it is more than enough to calculate Gu Lei.
Her calculations can be fully seen through three very representative things.
First, buy a house and borrow money.
Our impression of buying a house should be that we have almost the money to pay the down payment, and then we can borrow some money for decoration, and the mortgage is borne by ourselves. However, Feng Xiaoqin obviously has no down payment, and the money for decoration to buy furniture and appliances is even less, all need to borrow, and it is not a small amount, open mouth to ask the eldest sister Gu Qingyu to borrow 1 million.
Is this a loan? This is pure to be ah. Gu Qingyu knows his brother and sister too well, what if they can't afford this money when the time comes? Can you insist on it? Obviously not, and there is no explanation in the play, we can imagine through this matter, this should not be the first time Feng Xiaoqin instigated Gu Lei to ask Sister Ah for money, so that Gu Qingyu "borrowed" experience.
No matter how rich people are, they have no obligation to lend it to you, right? And it's the kind that doesn't pay back. Why didn't she ask Zhan Xiang to borrow it? Because she borrowed it to repay it, she was not prepared to repay it at all, and naturally did not want to borrow it.
Second, he invited his sister to live with his in-laws.
No wonder Gu Qingyu said that Feng Xiaoqin is a woman who writes about changing her fate on her face, her sister did not go to college after graduating from high school, and came to her home to live permanently without a job, how inconvenient it is for everyone to think about it, there are many things that live with the elderly, and now there are many sisters, if she really can do things, this situation will not occur at all.
Gu Qingyu has a prejudice against her, but who caused this? Isn't it herself? Not only did he ask the eldest sister-in-law to borrow money, but he also asked the family to introduce the work introduction object to his sister, saying that she was a vampire lying on the eldest sister's body, and no one should object to it, right?
Third, forced her husband Gu Lei to take the financial and accounting certificate.
Before marriage, ignoring the shortcomings of her husband, after marriage, she was all kinds of dislikes, Gu Lei's identity as a Shanghainese and the local house became his greatest advantage, in day-to-day life, these two items no longer shine, Feng Xiaoqin gradually sobered up, she began to force her husband to study and improve his life, but Gu Lei wasted firewood, which was not useful at all.
Originally the contradiction between the in-laws and the in-laws, Gu Lei may still be on her side, and now Gu Lei is annoyed by her, which is equivalent to uniting the family to deal with Feng Xiaoqin herself, and the difficulties in this can be imagined, almost cutting off his own livelihood in the in-laws' family.
This is just the big aspect shown in the play, small things like the first time I met my cousin and daughter-in-law, let the family introduce work to her sister, feng Xiaoqin in the Gu family is to take care of the family, but also she was willing, Gu Lei's incompetence at the beginning she knew, is she herself chose this road, who can blame?