From the birth of our children in the world, we have taken on the responsibility of parents, from the carefree world of two to a warm and sweet family of three.
Before the birth of a child, the most important thing for parents is to give the child a name, after all, the name is to accompany the child's life.
A parent shared his name for his child on the Internet, and many netizens could not help but feel that this parent was not easy after reading the experience of this parent naming his child.
When the child was first born, the parent found some names with better meanings on the naming website on the Internet, and after some selection.
He chose the word qian as the child's name, which represents both heaven and yang, and it is most appropriate to use it as the boy's name, but he did not expect that after adding the surname, the child's name became flavorful.
Because this parent's surname is Mei, the harmonic pronunciation becomes "no money", and the meaning is suddenly not good.
Therefore, the parent decided to change the child's name, but after some selection, he found that the surname "Mei" was too difficult to name the child, some names with good meaning, plus the surname of Mei, it became flavorful, which made him feel that it was too difficult to name the child.
When giving your baby a name, try to avoid these types of names
★ Words with a strong sense of loneliness
Now there are many young mothers, probably because of the influence of some romance TV series, when naming their children, they will choose some names with a strong sense of loneliness, and feel that such names are very beautiful.
For example, words like lonely, lonely, lonely, and po, but in fact, the meaning of such words is very bad, and it is inappropriate to use it as the baby's name.
The baby's real name is best to be a practical, positive name, so as to represent the child's future wishes.
If parents really like this kind of lonely word, it can be used as the child's nickname, and it is best not to use it as the child's real name.
★ Don't give your child some curious names
Now some young parents, when giving their children a name, is too casual, before I saw a parent surnamed Wang, named their children the glory of the king, so that many netizens can't help but sigh, this parent is simply playing a game into the magic.
But if we think from the child's point of view, this name will actually have a certain impact on his life, especially for introverted children, such a name will cause social distress to them, and in the long run, it will even make them more and more inferior and introverted.
Therefore, as parents, we must be cautious when giving children a name, do not give children some strange names, let children become an outlier among many classmates, and know that this name will accompany children for a lifetime.
★ Do not use the name of the idol
Many parents have been obsessed with idols when they are young, especially for some young parents who chase stars, the weight of idols in their minds is very heavy, and even some parents will choose to take the name of their children as the same as the names of their idols after having children.
I remember when I was in junior high school, there was a classmate named Andy Lau in the next class, his name was often ridiculed by other classmates, and he happened to be a shy personality, which caused him a lot of trouble.
Therefore, when parents choose to name their children, try not to use the names of some well-known idols or celebrities to avoid unnecessary trouble for their children.
How do I name my child? These points should be noted
Combine your child's last name to take the name
It is very important to combine the child's last name, because some names with very good meanings, combined with the child's last name, are likely to become flavored.
Just like the parent with the surname Mei we mentioned above, he chooses some names with better meanings for his children, but after combining his surname, the taste changes.
Therefore, when we name children, we must pay attention to combining their own surnames to take names, not only to mean well, but also to read catchy, so as to meet the standards of a good name.
Don't use strange words to give your child a name
A teacher posted a video on the Internet, and many netizens said after watching this video that the names of the children they have obtained now are no longer recognized.
In the video, the teacher announces a list of students in his class, and several of them use some less common unfamiliar words, and many people don't even know what to read after seeing it.
Therefore, when we parents name our children, we must not choose some strange words on the dictionary to give our children names in order to pursue uniqueness or tallness.
That will not only cause trouble to the child's daily communication, but also may cause some adverse effects on the child in the future, such as a previous candidate, admitted to a famous school, the result can not be recorded, it was brushed down, it is indeed a pity.
Take care to avoid misunderstandings caused by harmonic sounds
On the Internet, we often see some funny passages about harmonic names, such as "Shi Zhenxiang, Du Qiyan, Qin Shou" that we are all familiar with.
After seeing such a harmonic name, we will all smile and think about why there are such unreliable parents who give their children such names.
In order to avoid becoming such a parent, when we give our children a name, we must pay attention to avoid misunderstandings caused by harmonic sounds, after taking the name, it is best to read it several times, and then, let the relatives and friends around you help refer to it to see if it is appropriate.
The name is not only a symbol, it also represents the good wishes of parents to their children, so parents must take it seriously.