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Since the children went to kindergarten, we can no longer "communicate" in our own names, and the name of the notes of our parent group has become so-and-so's mother or so-and-so's father. Of course, after the children go to school, not only the change of the name of the note, the important thing is that we have become a real parent, and we have the obligation to cooperate with the teacher to complete the teaching work, so there will be parents of all sizes waiting for us. But it is often the parent-teacher meeting that gives parents a headache.
Some parents said that they were afraid of going to their children's schools for parent-teacher meetings, afraid that the teacher would say about their children's shortcomings and that they would have nothing to say. I am also afraid that I will not dress well and give my children too much price. In front of the child's teacher, parents always have a lot of anxiety, I am afraid that where it is not suitable, it will cause trouble to the child.
Parents will dress up very young, but the child will feel very humiliated
Xu Jie is a high school boy, and after a final exam, the teacher organized a parent-teacher conference. Xu Jie improved in this exam, the results were very good, and he waited for his mother to come with joy. Xu Jie's mother came, wearing a floral skirt and an off-white top hat on her head, and under the top hat was a pair of large-framed sunglasses that covered most of her face.
This outfit is quite fashionable, like a star who is afraid of being recognized by fans. Everyone turned their eyes to her, and Xu Jie saw that it was his mother. He was immediately unhappy, looking at the mothers of his classmates around him, who did not dress up so strangely like his own mother.
Fortunately, the parent-teacher conference ended quickly. Some students in the class began to secretly inquire, what is Xu Jie's mother doing? Others nicknamed him "Star Son." alas! Xu Jie did not have a good mood this week, and it brought some distress.
This is an important reason why parents are reluctant to participate in the parent-teacher conference, because the nature of parents' work is different, the family economic conditions are different, and the personal dressing style is also different, so the final effect presented at the parent-teacher conference is also different.
If the parents dress properly, their children will have face. However, if the parents are not dressed properly, they may leave a bad impression on the teachers and classmates, so that the child will not look up in front of the classmates, causing great trouble to the child.
So, in the parent-teacher conference, what kind of dress will make the child unable to lift his head?
The first: parents dress too "trench", there will be a suspicion of showing off their wealth, easy to cause trouble to children.
Parents go to the parent-teacher conference and want to show their best side in front of teachers and classmates, so some parents dress up very solemnly.
For example, some parents like to wear the most expensive clothes to attend the parent-teacher conference, and mink coats and designer clothes are very eye-catching. Some parents are too fashionable, obviously 40 years old, and they also wear short skirts and shorts, like a seventeen or eighteen-year-old girl, which is not very appropriate.
I think that the parents' meeting is an opportunity for teachers and classmates and parents to communicate, it is really not suitable for showing off wealth, nor is it suitable for participating in beauty pageants, parents dress up too ostentatiously, and other people's parents form a great contrast, but it will make children feel embarrassed.
The second kind: parents dress too sloppily and are not good, it is easy for children to feel faceless and can't lift their heads.
Some parents for various reasons, is very do not pay attention to personal image, in life is often wearing pajamas and slippers, or work clothes are very dirty, go out to buy vegetables, pick up children also feel that it does not matter.
But the child's parents' meeting, after all, is a more formal occasion, and it is really not suitable for dressing too sloppily. If you dress too sloppily, everyone is not used to it, the child will feel inferior, and will be talked about by classmates all the time, causing great trouble to the child.
The third kind: parents wear overalls, which is easy for children to talk about.
Children are usually not very clear about the career of their classmates' parents, and if parents wear overalls to attend the parent-teacher conference, they will let everyone know what the parents of this classmate do. Students at the parents' meeting, talking about such things, it is estimated that it will also have an impact on the children.
Moreover, when holding a parent-teacher conference, parents do not participate in the identity of work, and they can change out of their work clothes or try not to wear work clothes.
Fourth: Parents wear strange costumes to attend the parent-teacher conference, and parents are easy to become the talking points of the students.
As a student, children are often asked by teachers not to wear strange clothes to school, because school is a place to learn, do not let your clothes affect other classmates.
Parents should be a role model for their children, hold parent-teacher conferences for their children, and should not wear strange clothes. If you dress strangely to attend a parent-teacher conference, it is estimated that you will become the focus of the school and the child will become a "celebrity". If the child does not rely on grades but on the fame of parents, it is estimated that the child will not be able to raise his head in front of his classmates, and even have inferiority.
In summary, parents can not wear too expensive clothes to attend the parent-teacher conference, nor can they wear too cold, work clothes and strange clothes should also be avoided, so how should parents wear it appropriately?
With my many years of experience in parent-teacher conferences, I think parents should pay attention to the following points in their dress for parent-teacher conferences:
First, Dad was neatly dressed and not sloppy.
Dad went to the parent-teacher conference and cleaned himself up. Dress casually or formally, don't get dirty.
Second, Mom dressed elegantly, not too ostentatiously.
Mother to participate in the parent-teacher conference, the most taboo heavy makeup, too flashy, we better choose more elegant clothing, it seems that the mother is temperamental, connotative people, do not behave too superficially.
Third, mom and dad should not show off their wealth and do not wear exaggerated jewelry.
Mom and Dad go to the parent-teacher conference, try not to wear too conspicuous jewelry, big gold chains, big gold watches, the performance of showing off the rich will make teachers and classmates become people that parents don't like, even if we are rich, we should keep a low profile.
The child's parent-teacher meeting, no matter how good or bad his grades are, parents should attend on time and prepare with their hearts, because the child's heart is very concerned, and we must also perform well.
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