Why do you have to have a son, only a daughter's family, will face these 3 major problems, very realistic

With the development of society, people not only have their living standards improved, but their ideological concepts have also been constantly changing. The deep-rooted ideological concept of "raising children and preventing old age" in ancient society has also been slowly eliminated! Now even many families are more inclined to have girls, on the one hand, the daughter is indeed more careful, intimate, on the other hand, it is said that the boy is the "construction bank", and the girl is the "China Merchants Bank", the boy grows up to marry a wife and have children need to spend a lot of money, but marry the daughter does not have to spend so much.

But in fact, can a family with only daughters really be perfect? Families who only want a daughter should also listen to the parents of families with only daughters!

And and the mother: the daughter is the only daughter in the family, from childhood pampered habitually, because in the future to give us the pension on the recruitment of a door-to-door son-in-law, the son-in-law is still filial piety and diligence, usually get along with each other, but recently there was a thing that made our old two very blocked, after the daughter gave birth to the baby, we think about the daughter herself, the grandson of course to follow our surname, but the son-in-law does not agree, for this matter also let the daughter sandwiched in the middle of the embarrassment.

Smile Mom: There are two daughters in the family have always been envied by others, but in fact, every family has a difficult scripture, the eldest daughter talked about her boyfriend from abroad when she went to school, directly married to a province, the younger daughter graduated from college immediately, and also wanted to work in Beijing, we don't want to, but it is not easy to say, after all, the wish of the eldest daughter is met, and the dream of the younger daughter cannot be stopped, so now the old two are sixty years old, and there is not even a child around.

A family with only daughters, not only has beauty, but will eventually face three major problems!

1. The door-to-door son-in-law does not get along well

Originally, the relationship between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law was not as complicated as the relationship between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law, but some families would also cause the relationship between the son-in-law and the mother-in-law to be less harmonious due to various circumstances. If the son-in-law's ability is not strong, even if the woman's family does not have the intention of looking down, the man will feel that he is looked down upon, causing many contradictions. And just like the above mentioned because of the child's surname and other issues will also make the family have a lot of contradictions.

2. It is difficult to provide for the elderly

Although the mind is so open now, the birth of boys and girls are the same, the daughter will not not give the parents a pension, but if there is only one daughter or are daughters, there are many problems in the pension. If it is a boy, the pension problem naturally falls on the shoulders of the boy, but if it is a daughter, there will also be a debate about who will provide for the pension, and it will even affect the feelings between the sisters if it is not handled well. If the boyfriend the daughter is looking for is far away from home and needs to be married far away, the pension is even more of a problem. Because the average parent is not willing to leave the familiar living environment to go to another unfamiliar environment.

3. The desolation of the daughter's distant marriage

If there is a daughter or both daughters in the family, the children are far away from marriage, then the parents really have no relatives around, and the desolation at this time believes that only the parents of the parties can understand it! And the future of the baby is also a problem, parents to which daughter to bring more, which belt less is also easy to cause the opinions of daughters.

In fact, boys and girls are not important, communication is the most important

In fact, whether there is a son at home, the pension problem is complicated or not complicated, communication is the best way to solve the problem, if you happen to be a daughter at home, it is of course the best to keep the daughter around, but in case not, we parents must also understand and tolerate, do what they should do; at the same time, as children, there is also a reason to know how to often go home to see, the elderly need our company more!

I believe that every parent is looking forward to Jackie Chan, looking forward to the female chengfeng, at the end of the article for all parents to share a good book, don't miss it!

Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:

If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.

However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”

Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.

Who is Liu Xuanyu?

Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.

Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:

The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic

The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.

The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.

At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.

I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!

For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"

It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.

This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!