Wu Yao married Wang Bin. After marriage, they wanted to take their mother-in-law to live with them, so as to better filial piety to the mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law did not know why she was unwilling, and at the feast where the child turned one year old, the mother-in-law finally said the reason why she did not want to live with them.
Wu Yao is 25 years old, Wang Bin is 26 years old, and they are married after two years in love.
Wang Bin wanted his mother to live with them, and he told her a few times. But the mother-in-law insisted that she did not want to take care of her daughter-in-law and the family. Without the care of their mother-in-law, Wu Yao and Wang Bin had to rely on themselves for everything. In addition to coping with the work, they also have to work hard to run the home. However, in such an environment, the relationship between husband and wife is getting better and better, and they also know how to understand each other.
In order to please Wu Yao, Wang Bin even learned to cook and rose rapidly. Wang Bin changed many bad habits. He became steady and steady.
In the third year of marriage, Wu Yao became pregnant, and the morning sickness reaction was very large. At Wang Bin's request, her mother came here to live and help take care of her daughter-in-law. When his mother-in-law moved here, Wang Bin returned to the old habit of relying on his mother and giving care and attention to his wife and family. Under the care of her mother-in-law, Wu Yao got better and better. Pregnant in October, Wu Yao finally gave birth, gave birth to a big fat boy, and the whole family was very happy. It is a laborious thing for this woman to have a child, so confinement is very important for women.
The mother-in-law is a person who comes over, and naturally knows how to take care of a confinement woman. The mother-in-law is very capable and will take care of Wu Yao and the children. But after Wu Yao confinement, the mother-in-law left Wu Yao ten thousand yuan to ask the nanny to help her with the child. After taking care of her daughter-in-law, she chose to leave.
For this reason, Wang Bin complained that his mother did not help him with the child, and the financial pressure was all on him. Wang Bin was also confused. He also felt that his mother was too cruel. Even if you don't like your daughter-in-law, your grandson is always happy.
Mothers are unwilling to help each other, so Wang Bin has to withstand all the pressure, help his wife with children, take care of the family, and work hard to make money. But it is in such an environment that Wang Bin is also slowly becoming more mature. Wu Yao has a lot of opinions about her mother-in-law's help, so for her mother-in-law, Wu Yao's mood is beyond words.
It was not until the child was one year old that the mother-in-law dispelled Wu Yao's doubts and realized her mother-in-law's good intentions. When the child turned one year old, there were many guests in the house, and they all said, "Your mother-in-law will help you take care of your child." At this time, Wu Yao said that the children were brought by herself, and her mother-in-law did not live with them.
The mother-in-law also saw Wu Yao's mood. When the guest left, the mother-in-law said to Wu Yao: "Daughter-in-law, the reason why I don't want to live with you is because men want to grow up." While I was there to take care of you, my son knew how to play with his phone. After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Wu Yao recalled that time. When the mother-in-law is there, the mother-in-law is busy before and after, and the husband just enjoys the benefits and will not grow. When her mother-in-law did not live with them, Wang Bin became a father and had a lot to learn, but he grew up little by little. He became more mature, more stable and more responsible. After that, Wu Yao never complained about her mother-in-law again, and because of her mother-in-law's words, she changed her marital status. Living separately from the mother-in-law not only reduces the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, allows the husband to grow rapidly, but also makes the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious. The mother-in-law did not help to take care of it, but Wu Yao was grateful and gave her an independent space, so that she harvested more happiness. I also felt more love from my husband.
In fact, in marriage, a man's mentality is often not as mature as a woman's, because there will always be someone to help him share. Once people have dependence, they will want to be lazy, so when men lose dependence, they will naturally become more mature, and then they will become women's dependence.
I have to say that Wu Yao's mother-in-law is a very wise and intelligent mother-in-law.
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