If we really want to understand a person, then we can judge his life situation by his words and deeds. There are many people who feel that we should not look at everyone in this way, but we can really use this way to study a person thoroughly. For example, some behaviors of children with good and poor families are different, which is difficult to cover up.
Xiao Li is a primary school teacher, and recently the school released a new task for him, that is, in a few days, the school will organize an activity, the school will take the students to the amusement park to play, and the price of the ticket is 198 yuan. In fact, for Xiao Li, this price is very normal, after all, most families can afford such a price today.
However, just after Xiao Li told the classmates about this matter, one of the classmates actually raised his hand and said, "Teacher Li, can I not participate?" Xiao Li felt very surprised, obviously in the process of learning to go out to play, so that not only can the children's vision be improved, but also can make the children's mood relaxed, which is definitely a very good thing for the children.
But just when Xiao Li wanted to ask this classmate what reason he didn't want to go to the amusement park, the classmate said: "198 yuan is too expensive, enough for me to eat for a month." After Xiao Li listened to what this classmate said, he didn't know what to say for a while. And now he only has one question in his mind, that is, this classmate's consumption concept, as for being so conservative? Wouldn't it make people feel very poor and sour to do so?
In fact, there is a certain gap between children and children, some children's family situation is better, while some children's family situation is relatively poor. If the child has these three poor acids, then it means that their family situation is not so good and it is difficult to hide.
So which three poor acids represent the poor situation of the child's family?
Speaking of this matter, we have to talk about the concept of consumption, although frugality is a good thing for us, but excessive frugality is not necessary. For example, there are some children who are more extreme in their thinking, they are very stingy, and they especially like to take advantage of others. If the child is in such an environment for a long time, then it can reflect a very big problem.
Because only children who have experienced poverty will always maintain a conservative concept of consumption, just like when they buy things, they will be afraid of wolves and tigers, and even if they have money, they will consider the cost performance. If you are often in such a situation, it means that the child is not atmospheric and will give a bad impression. Therefore, when we get along with these children, we can clearly understand that they are affected by poor education.
Then there is the problem of vision and pattern, if we mention rich children, then we will feel that they are extravagant and consume very high. In fact, children with good families do not only have high consumption, but these parents will also pay attention to the spiritual cultivation of their children. For example, these children have been to many places when they are young, such as going abroad or traveling, and their vision is already very high.
Although it seems that these children are just playing, in this way, the children's pattern can be improved accordingly. If children are in such an environment for a long time, then they will have greater goals and better plans in the future, and they will not look at the problem with a blind eye, they will look at their own long-term vision.
For the children of poor families, these parents will only solve material problems and will never cultivate the spiritual needs of their children. Therefore, once the child's vision and pattern are too small, it means that they live in a poor family.
Every child's personality is different, but being too inferior is certainly not a good thing, which is most evident in children from poor families. The biggest characteristic of these children is that they have a particularly negative mentality and never know how to improve. Even when they encounter some opportunity, they become very hesitant and have no way to challenge themselves.
And those children born in wealthy families are very confident, they are safe in life, and they have the capital to face all the failures. So when they have any problems, they think about how to challenge them, so that they become very confident.
Therefore, children with poor family backgrounds must have some more special places on their bodies. However, as parents, we must not choose to treat our children badly because of our poor family environment, we should let them have a good vision and a good pattern, so as to ensure that they become more excellent in their future lives.