I often hear people say that one son wants 2 million, what about two sons? This is a question worth investigating.
Generally speaking, the big treasure in the family is the son's, and if you want to have a second child, you need to weigh it well, if you have another son, can you afford it? Therefore, Dabao is a son, and the mother is looking forward to the second child can give birth to a small cotton jacket. However, giving birth to boys and girls depends on luck, and not everyone can achieve their wishes.
The second-born mother gave birth to two sons, and she calculated an account with a sad face, and the mother-in-law's words made the daughter-in-law relieved
Friend Sweetie gave birth to another son, from the beginning of pregnancy, she has been calling the baby in the belly "girl", until the child is born, can no longer be called so, because he is a son again. O two sons! After coming out of the hospital delivery room, sweet face was no longer expectant and smiling.
She looked at the swaddled baby and began to calculate an account with a sad face: there was a house, a car, a bride price, and a daughter-in-law, which added up to two or three million. For the working family's own self, it is not necessarily possible to save money for a lifetime, but it is sad and sweet.
But the sweet mother-in-law liked her grandson very much, and she persuaded her daughter-in-law to say: "The child is still so young, what worries?" Don't you see I'm also two sons? Didn't I also marry such a good daughter-in-law as you, and didn't I also have a good life? Those families who have one son and no sons, they are not as good as us. ”
Indeed, although there are two sons, the mother-in-law and father-in-law have lived a really good life after so many years of hard work and struggle. Thinking of this, Tiantian gradually accepted this fact. Two sons are two sons, as long as you are willing to work hard, you can create a good life with your own hands.
The "creature" of the son, from the special popularity of decades ago, to the current dispensable, and then to more will be disliked by parents, the family status can be said to have undergone earth-shaking changes. This is inseparable from the high house price, the huge dowry, and the difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law.
Having a son means that the family is financially burdened, so many parents will feel very worried. Although this is also a reality, raising a son is not a useless bad thing.
Mothers who have given birth to sons should not feel that they are burdensome, some of the benefits of their sons, you can slowly realize that some daughters are not comparable
First: Having a son is an invisible driving force for parents to work hard.
There is such a saying in our hometown that whoever has one more son will have doubled his fortune. Of course, this is just a legend of the old man, and there is no scientific reason.
But most families with sons are really doing better, what is the reason for this? I think it was Mom and Dad themselves who inspired them!
You see, originally having a daughter, the parents thought that as long as the daughter was raised, they could earn enough money to spend. However, the moment we have a son, the responsibility on our shoulders is immediately heavy, and we as parents always have to find a way to complete our tasks and make a down payment to our children!
When a person has motivation and goals, various plans will constantly appear in the mind. For the sake of their children's future, parents are also willing to bear more hardships, and after hard work, they will eventually get more rewards than people who have no goals and directions.
Therefore, having a son, it does not work to worry about it, work hard to make money, and do your best.
Second: It is better to have a son, and the mother is more relaxed.
I have sons and daughters myself, and to be honest, raising a son is indeed a lot of worry. My son was never picky eater, had a good meal, was in great health, and never had any separation anxiety in kindergarten. The daughter is different, she is picky eater, and the sense of dependence on her parents is very strong, and the first six months of kindergarten are very difficult.
Our mothers who raise sons can be a little bit bigger and don't have to worry too much. That is, mothers should pay more attention to letting their sons exercise their independence, and try to let him solve things as much as possible, we are at ease, and the children have also received a good education.
Third: The son is the protector of the mother, and the mother should feel happy.
The idea that the son is the mother's lover in the previous life can also be confirmed in many families. In our family, if my husband and I have an argument, my son is always the first to stand up and help me. The daughter is the mother's little cotton jacket, but the son is the mother's armor, and when the son grows up, the mother will have one more person to protect herself, and she is also very happy.
Fourth: If you have a son, you will not have the pain of marrying far away.
When we are old, we will think that the feeling of marrying a daughter is completely different from that of marrying a daughter-in-law. Marrying a daughter to live in someone else's home, a daughter-in-law marrying into the family is a family. Therefore, parents who give birth to sons do not have to worry about their daughters marrying far away, although the son is expensive, but it is still fertile and water does not flow to the fields of outsiders.
In fact, it is good to have a son and a daughter to have a daughter, as a mother in the new era, the concept of equality between men and women should be implemented from beginning to end in family education. We accompany children more, educate children with scientific concepts, children are healthy and happy, and the family will be happy and happy.
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