A classic line in the movie "Firefighting Hero": I know the instructions very well, and I also understand that as a firefighter, you should not exchange one life for one life, we just hope that we can save one.
They are retrogrades in peacetime, and when everyone is running outside for their lives, only they choose to be retrogrades, one by one, disappearing backs.
Whose sons are they? Whose husband? Whose dad? Whose brother?
In their hearts, there are everyone who have a small family, so they have no hesitation in choosing to be retrogrades and protect everyone from "abandoning" the small family.
A video is on fire, a firefighter is exhausted and paralyzed, holding a mobile phone and waiting for his girlfriend to reply to sleep, the chat content is exposed, and netizens are moved to tears. But as a sister-in-law with personal experience, she said: I didn't think about it, please don't try it easily.
01. The chat history in your hand is exposed
Recently, in Inner Mongolia, a video of a firefighter holding a mobile phone and falling asleep tired has become popular on the Internet.
In the video, a firefighter in a yellow combat suit falls asleep in bed. Asleep, he held his phone in both hands, the phone screen was lit, and he made a serious "mistake" of waiting for his girlfriend to reply but accidentally falling asleep.
In normal couple interactions, this is a big taboo, boys and other girls reply to messages, can not fall asleep, so that girls will definitely be angry.
But if the girl sees this video, she will definitely be moved to tears, because such a man deserves to be loved.
His lit phone screen, stuck in the chat box with the girl, the firefighter sent several messages in succession: "Really don't you love me?" "I'm just done" "Really don't want me anymore?" ”。
This chat content, like a child, like a mother's pampering, and then look at his hand covering the text he is editing: "... Don't want me anymore", and before it was sent out, the firefighter was already asleep.
It can be seen how tired and sleepy he is at this time, and he can only fall asleep in an anxious wait.
After a few minutes, the girl replied, "Look at your performance."
Their chat content is concise, not as thick as you, but it has touched countless netizens.
Some netizens said: We must love our fire fighters well.
Some netizens said: Since you chose a firefighter as a boyfriend, don't be too harsh, some things are not that they don't want to do, they really can't do it.
Some netizens said: This is a hard job that ordinary people can't do, girls choose them before they still think about it, they can't take care of you at any time like normal boyfriends, if you can't stick to people don't bother them.
Netizens are reasonable, not only can understand the firefighter's difficulty, but also know how to persuade the girl not to think well, do not try easily.
Maybe the blue sisters have the most say, listen to their suggestions!
02. The voice of two blue sister-in-law friends
Because of work and life, I often come into contact with some blue sister-in-law friends, and in chatting with them, I really understand what it means not to think well, don't try easily.
The first blue sister-in-law complained: 32 years old, married for 9 years
My husband is a firefighter for 15 years, I have known him for 12 years, been married for 9 years, and have a son and a daughter. The days we spend together are fewer and more, and I am often mistaken for a single mother, a life I'm used to.
I remember when I was pregnant with the eldest, I often couldn't see his figure for a month or two, I was walking in the park alone with a big belly, and a few aunts chewed their tongues and said that I was a little third child, and I secretly gave birth to others. After I knew, I cried like a child, and I regretted it at that time, looking around at the women who were accompanied by their husbands, how happy they were!
And me? Even if you quarrel, you have to pick a time, because often no one answers the phone, no one returns the message, sometimes the quarrel, he said "out of the police", to end our quarrel.
I went to the hospital alone for a maternity check-up, a person bought vegetables to cook, a person took care of myself, and even when I was about to give birth, I was trapped at home, and I could only find a way to go to the hospital alone, lying in the delivery room, signing myself, and he felt the hospital the next day.
But I didn't blame him at all, because he was trapped to save people, he couldn't get over, and the road was flooded, and the next day he walked a full 5 kilometers on foot to the hospital. As soon as we met, the two of us cried into tears, and since then, I have not complained again.
Later, we still gathered less and more, I took care of two children alone, whether it was changing light bulbs, or going through the toilet, whether the child was sick or himself was sick, whether it was the beginning of school, or the parent-teacher conference, he would be absent.
I'm used to it, and I'm satisfied every time he comes home safely.
The second sister-in-law said to herself: 29 years old, married for 3 years
My husband is a firefighter and we have been married for three years and have a child in over a year old.
When I was in love, many people advised me to give up, they said that such a marriage is equivalent to "widowhood", one is that my husband has no money and no house, one is poor and white; the other is that my husband's parents are old and need to be taken care of; the third is that this can't give me money, can't give me companionship, and even meet rarely.
Despite the objections of my family and friends, I chose to marry him naked, without wedding photos, without a wedding, not to mention the marriage room, just to get a certificate.
After a year of marriage, I was pregnant, I threw up a lot during pregnancy, the whole person was very uncomfortable, at that time I wished that someone cared about me, even if it was to talk to me, but he was very busy.
After I had a baby, the two of us quarreled every day, and I had already decided to divorce him, but at this moment, my father-in-law fell ill. My mother-in-law is old, he can't go home, and if I leave again, the house will collapse. So I took care of my in-laws while taking care of my children, and I suffered more during this time than I had suffered in my whole life, and after experiencing this, I didn't want to divorce him.
Because I feel sorry for him:
When he and I video, his face was dusty and his clothes were burned on the screen;
His arm muscles tore open wide slits;
He called me in the middle of the night and hung up the phone with just one word "I miss you" and the next day I saw him on TV and I didn't know what he was going through.
Since I have chosen, I must insist, he protects everyone, I protect the small family, as long as he returns safely.
The above is the voice of the two blue sister-in-law friends, these things, only you have experienced it.
03. If you want to be a blue sister-in-law, please think about these points
01. Can't make you rich
Firefighters are on standby twenty-four hours a day, basically no rest days, but their salaries are really not high, enough to feed a family, and can only reach the level of food and clothing. So if you want to be rich and rich, then please stop, poor couples Pepsi lament, you have to think clearly about this.
02. Children do not have the company of their father
Other people's dads go to work in the morning and leave in the afternoon, but the firefighter dad is always at work, and can only leave work once in a while, and there is very little time to spend with the children. Especially when he was young, the child did not know his father at all, and it was not until the child grew up that he did not know that he had a father, but he was everyone's "father".
03. Nights when you don't dare to shut down
As a blue sister-in-law at night do not dare to turn off the phone, do not dare to mute the mobile phone, as long as the mobile phone rings at night, the heart will panic, because you do not know "tomorrow and accident which comes first".
04. The heart is strong enough
A person cooks, a person has a child, a person takes care of the child, a person helps with homework, a person repairs water and electricity, a person supports this family, he takes care of everyone, you take care of the small family, and the heart must be strong enough to support this small family.
If you want to be a blue sister-in-law, please consider the above points, otherwise please stop.
Firefighter Blue Friends, they are very handsome, they are very remarkable, they have the mission of protecting "everyone", if you love them, please accept everything about them and be their strong backing.
The blue sisters are very strong, they are amazing women, and a woman has supported a family and paid tribute to every blue sister-in-law.
I am January Love August, watching other people's stories and tasting my own life. If the article helps you, I hope you will also help me. How far a person can go, the key lies in who to walk with, I use the whole way across the mountains and seas, I hope to get your "like" praise.