When Ms. Zhang was visiting the supermarket with her child, because Ms. Zhang was busy purchasing goods and had no time to take care of the child, she was suddenly found by the cargo clerk, which made her know that the child had broken a bottle of foreign wine on the shelf when she did not pay attention to her own play.
The child was obviously frightened, the whole person shrank next to him, in the face of the cargo clerk's complaint, Ms. Zhang first let the child take the initiative to apologize to the supermarket cargo clerk, and then bought the broken bottle of wine according to the original price compensation, and finally took the initiative to let the child take the tool to clean up the glass slag.
Ms. Zhang's operation made the salesman who originally wanted to come to her to settle the account dumbfounded, and at the same time aroused the unanimous affirmation of the onlookers on the side. Although the matter was solved, it was also a wake-up call for Ms. Zhang.
First, when parents take their children out of public places alone, these points must be informed of the children in advance!
1. Do not move around at will.
Public places are generally large and miscellaneous, if the child does not have the approval of the parents, casually leave the parents' sight, then in the mixed public places are easy to be seduced by bad people, on the other hand, naughty children without parental discipline, just like the release of self, when playing and playing is not only easy to damage the items in the public place, but also may be injured.
Therefore, before taking their children to public places, parents should teach their children the names and phone numbers of their parents and home addresses, and if they are lost, they should learn to take the initiative to seek help from the staff.
In addition, if children are entangled by strangers, they should take the initiative to run to places with large traffic and seek help at the same time; in strange places, even if there are a variety of rare items on the shelves, children cannot eat and take them casually, and they should always be vigilant in the face of food sent by strangers.
2. Take the initiative to take responsibility.
It doesn't matter if you do something wrong, the most important thing is that you can bravely assume your responsibilities after doing something wrong.
Because children are young, if they make any mistakes, the first thing they worry about is how parents and others scold themselves, so they subconsciously flee the scene, and sometimes they may lie to the facts and not admit it.
It is inevitable that children will be mischievous and make mistakes at a young age, but this is also a good opportunity to teach children to learn to take responsibility. In public, parents should not scold their children first, and bravely educate their children to learn to apologize, and then bear it, which is what parents need to guide.
Second, the child will always be hairy, parents must not take the child to a public place, take the initiative to take the child out of the house, the original also has these two benefits!
1, a variety of occasions can give children knowledge stimulation.
Public places are not only crowded, there are many goods, and even the music played in the mall, the noise of the flow of people, can stimulate children from many aspects such as vision, hearing, smell, etc., so that children can broaden their horizons and truly understand this colorful world.
2. Cultivate children's insights.
There is more fresh knowledge in public than school and home, and the world of real experience is more suitable for children to learn and recognize than the world of books and television.
Take the example of parents buying things: parents can completely let their children participate in buying things, and cultivate their children's concepts of money and consumption.
Observing parents communicating with others in children can inadvertently improve children's IQ and emotional intelligence, as well as communication skills and language organization skills.
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