Lenin became addicted to smoking when he was in college, and once his mother said a word that made him completely eliminate the idea of smoking and quit smoking from then on.
Lenin's mother, who came from a family of doctors, knew that smoking was harmful to her health. After her son became addicted to smoking, she was very angry and tried her best to get Lenin to quit smoking, but he was indifferent.
Once, the mother said to Lenin: "Son, we are living on your father's pension, the amount is limited, you smoke does not seem to cost much, but the accumulation of months is a lot." ”
When his mother said this, Lenin was subconsciously stunned. She continued: "If you quit smoking and spend less unnecessary expenses, it will relieve the pressure of family life. ”
In fact, Lenin's mother knew in her heart that paper cigarettes in Russia were not so expensive at that time. She knew that Lenin had a high emotional intelligence, and she persuaded Lenin to quit smoking.
Lenin heard his mother's words and was silent for a moment. He confessed to his mother and said, "Mom, I understand that pensions are not easy to come by, and I should not waste smoking!" Rest assured, I will never smoke again. ”
As soon as the words stopped, Lenin reached out and took out the cigarette in his pocket and threw it away, turning a blind eye to it from then on.
Sometimes, correcting children's wrong behavior, scolding and criticizing does not work, because they are in a period of rebellion, if you educate children with feelings, you may be able to touch the children from the depths of your heart, so as to consciously "change evil and return to righteousness".