The original match cruelly left the next sentence: Divorce it!
Three short words, precise and shocking; 10 years of husband and wife feelings, even the word "we", too lazy to say!
The reason is another long and sad past that I don't want to remember!
If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan
Waiting for idle changes is the heart of the old, but the old heart is changeable
Lishan language strikes midnight, and the tears and rain ring bells will not complain at all
How to be bo lucky Jinyi Lang, than the wings and branches of the day wish
From the Qing Dynasty Naran Sex de
Qing Dynasty Naran Sex de
A person with a child, ups and downs for two years, met a female colleague, two people got along for a year, felt that the two sides were quite good, invited both parents to get together for a meal, discuss marriage matters!
I have a boy and a girl; two children of similar age, and after marriage, in order to facilitate schooling, let the two children go to the same elementary school and be each other's companions!
But after the fact, I slowly found that our two adults had a lot of differences on the issue of children's learning, and small quarrels occurred from time to time!
Sometimes in order to hold a parent-teacher conference for the child, the two people will blame each other, and they can't get out of the chaos!
Once, the school organized a parents' meeting, two children in a class, our parents are in a unit, just that day the unit temporary meeting, the two of us will not be able to go away for a while and a half, call both parents, first let the parents replace it, but the school teachers do not let the grandparents come to the parent-teacher conference, the two adults are anxious, for a while do not know how to be good!
While the unit was in a hurry to hold a meeting, the school teacher hurriedly called and asked the reason!
Really forced to helpless, can only explain the situation with the teacher, I hope the teacher understands!
The school thing has finally passed, but the child has a rebellious performance, depressed mood, mean talking, two children complain to each other, hostile to each other; between the two children, began to create a gap, the relationship has undergone subtle changes!
I can't remember which marriage master once said a sentence: the husband and wife relationship of two people is often slowly revealed from the issue of children; if there is no immediate communication and consultation, it will slowly settle down, waiting for the next conflict, but it will become more and more intense, and the consequences are unimaginable!
I have tried again and again, proper contact with my daughter, and during the weekend, I will also take the children out for a walk, so that the children can experience the beauty of nature; but one thing is still obvious, the daughter is still wary of me, and the son also has a strange side to the stepmother!
Maybe it's a family getting along for a long time, thinking that with the slow accumulation of time, the family will definitely be happy!
Once, grandparents came to visit two children at home, carried a lot of fruit, and bought a dress, extracurricular books and some toys for each of the children!
The son especially likes to eat strawberries, and the daughter is no exception; the two people eat the fruit, talk and laugh, very happy!
The same is true for extracurricular books, one for each person!
Toys are a bit different, boys like Superman, cars and the like; girls tend to dolls, fine art painting and so on!
The problem lies in the clothes, grandparents buy clothes for their sons, roughly know the size of the son; the son wears the clothes on the body, very suitable; the daughter is different, the clothes are too big to wear, like a big bag, a little unsuitable size!
The daughter told her mother that what grandparents were eccentric about, buying clothes without asking the child's size in advance, buying at will, not paying attention at all!
For a fourth-grade child, especially a girl, the parents' every move, the child's heart will be more sensitive, a little careless, will plant dangerous seeds, do not know when to erupt!
Relative to our family, the second form of the family, especially the children are still small, the mind is not mature enough, the parents' behavior, facial expressions, words and words; children will be too guessing, too much speculation!
Children may have a commonality, do not know the friends who have just become parents, have noticed, or have deep feelings; that is, children are particularly good at eavesdropping on the conversation between adults, even if it is inadvertently confided, children will be very concerned, and even cause unnecessary misunderstanding and trouble!
The child's heart is complex and simple, as long as the parents are willing to take the time and patiently listen to the children's voices, the child will also feel the care and love of the parents!
It is indeed a bit simple to say, but in the process of real practical action, there will be many obstacles and problems, which require us as parents to communicate effectively, negotiate patiently, and resolve them in time!
Instead of blindly complaining and accusing, if the conflict continues and there is no outlet for release, over time, it is bound to lead to unnecessary contradictions and disputes!
All the dissatisfaction and bad emotions, there is an unsatisfied appeal!
Afterwards, when she talked to her daughter-in-law about the child's clothes, the daughter-in-law was still angry and said loudly: The child is not wrong!
There is no such thing as a bear child, only parents who do not act!
Having experienced a failed married life, it is difficult to get out of the shadow of life, get to know each other luckily, hold hands and walk together, both sides must learn to understand and tolerate!
Holding back the hurtful words and maintaining emotional stability is what adults must do!