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Pu Cunxin
Our country has entered an aging society, and many people have entered their old age themselves, but they still have to support their elderly parents. Due to lack of energy and physical strength, some people have neglected their elderly parents, bringing harm and regret to two generations.
The famous performance artist Pu Cunxin after the death of his father, his mother had excessive cognitive impairment due to grief, how did he treat his elderly mother?
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Pu Cunxin was born in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, in 1957 in Beijing. His father, Su Min (formerly known as Pu Sixun), was born in 1926 in rural Zhetang Township, Nanjing, and moved to Beijing with his parents since childhood. Before the liberation of the Soviet People, we were underground traffic officers of our Party, because the revolution needed to change the name of the Su Min.
Young Pu Cunxin
In 1952, the Beijing People's Art Theater was established, and Su Min became the first generation of actors in Beijing Renyi. Pu Cunxin grew up in human art, and he was also fascinated by performance.
Pu Cunxin's mother, Jia Quan, works in a bank in Beijing, and Pu Cunxin has an older sister above and a younger brother below.
In 1986, Pu Cunxin transferred from the Air Politics Repertory Theatre and entered Beijing Renyi as an actor, becoming a colleague with his father. Like most fathers and sons in China, Pu Cunxin and his father thought of each other in their hearts, but there was not much communication. And Pu Cunxin never said a word to his father, "I love you."
In the passage of time, Pu Cunxin entered old age, with white hair on his head, more wrinkles on his face, and his father became an elderly man.
Pu Cunxin's father
Pu Cunxin and his father
In the winter of 2015, Su Min's diabetes worsened and complications occurred. His whole body was puffy, his vision was blurred, and his appetite was getting worse and worse, and Pu Cunxin took his father to the hospital. Due to old organ failure, on August 28, 2016, Su Min unfortunately died of illness in Beijing.
On the occasion of his father's death, Pu Cunxin put his face on his father's thin face and said with tears, "Daddy, I love you." Su Min was speechless, and two lines of tears welled up in his eyes.
In Pu Cunxin's "I love you", the father closed his eyes peacefully.
Pu Cunxin's parents
The death of his father brought grief and devastation to the family. Pu Cunxin's mother, Jia Quan, and his wife have been with the wind and rain for a lifetime, and they have also quarreled for a lifetime, and the two have long been integrated into one.
Now that his wife has passed away, Jia Quan has developed cognitive impairment due to excessive grief. She is forgetful, amnesiac, sleepless, and doesn't know anyone in her family. When Pu Cunxin was around to take care of her mother, she actually picked up the pillow and smashed her son, and then asked, "Who are you?" How did you get to my house? Pu Cunxin's heart was stinged.
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The next day, he took his mother to the hospital. The doctor told Pu Cunxin: "This is a cognitive impairment caused by excessive grief in the elderly, and if it is not intervened in time, the consequences are unimaginable." ”
After taking his mother home, Pu Cunxin let his sister and brother come to the house, and after discussion between the three brothers and sisters, decided to take turns to protect their mother. But my sister is in her 60s, and she can't take care of her mother, and she has high blood pressure in just one week. My brother has been in poor health due to the early death of his son a few years ago, and he is tired of taking care of his mother.
In this case, Pu Cunxin and his wife Wanping took care of their mother alone.
My mother slept very little and often pushed the door out at night. Worried about some accident, when he went to bed at night, Pu Cunxin tied a rope to his and his mother's wrists, and then he slept on the single bed next to his mother's bed. The old man slept less, often turned over, and Pu Cunxin could only sleep for three or four hours a night.
Due to severe lack of sleep, Pu Cunxin's body's immunity declined. In March 2017, he fainted while caring for his mother for breakfast.
Wanping invited the community doctor to come to the house, and after the doctor did a test for Pu Cunxin, he told Wanping: "Teacher Pu's health is not a big problem, it is because of the fainting caused by lack of sleep and overwork, but it must be highly valued." ”
Mr. and Mrs. Pu Cunxin
Wan Ping was distressed about her husband, and after that, she took the initiative to accompany the bed in her mother-in-law's room at night to let Pu Cunxin sleep peacefully.
Pu Cunxin knew that he had entered his old age and had become a grandfather, and if he wanted to support his elderly mother's old age, he must have a good physical fitness as a guarantee. So Pu Cunxin began to exercise and fitness, he jogged in the community in the morning and evening, and did push-ups at home.
As his health gradually improved, Pu Cunxin and his wife took turns to accompany the bed in their mother's room at night. Nourished by the couple's filial piety, Jia Quan's cognitive impairment has greatly improved, but she is still slow thinking and has poor memory.
She sometimes knew Pu Cunxin and sometimes treated him as a stranger. After Pu Cunxin consulted a doctor, the other party told him: "The rehabilitation of cognitive impairment is a long process, as long as you have confidence and perseverance, the symptoms of the elderly can be greatly alleviated." ”
Knowing that walnuts supplement the brain, Pu Cunxin often bought 10 pounds, and then he and his wife sat on the floor of the house, knocked the walnuts open with a small hammer, and then placed the walnut kernels in the dish and coaxed his mother to eat.
He put a plate of walnut kernels on his mother's bedroom and the coffee table in the living room, and Jia Quan grabbed it and ate it.
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When her granddaughter went to kindergarten, Pu Cunxin took the children's literacy and counting cards from her daughter's home, and then taught her mother to count and recognize words at home.
Although Pu Cunxin has retired, he is often invited to rehearse dramas at Renyi. In August 2017, he took his mother to the theater while rehearsing a play. At noon he brought food from the canteen and sat down with his mother to eat.
He asked his mother, "Is it delicious?" How about better than the meals you had at work? The mother cracked her mouth and smiled, saying yes and shaking her head again.
Mr. and Mrs. Pu Cunxin with their daughter,300 and their little baby
Pu Cunxin's daughter Pu Fang and son-in-law Han Jinkai are also worried about their grandmother's illness and often come to visit the elderly at home.
Pu Fang brought the bracelet and hairpin that her grandmother had given her before, and then placed them in front of her grandmother one by one: "This is what you gave me when I was 18 years old, do you remember?" Grandma touched it with her hand and smiled.
Pu Fang put the bracelet on Grandma's left wrist, and then took it off again: "Grandma, this is what you took off your hand and gave it to me." Jia Quan seemed to remember something, thoughtfully.
Pu Cunxin also took his mother back on the road of love. At that time, Jia Quan and Su Min often dated in the courtyard of Renyi, the ancient bluestone slab was still there, and the elm tree next to it grew into a thick hug.
Pu Cunxin sat with her mother on the bluestone slab and asked her about the details of her love affair with her father. This is Jia Quan's most unforgettable past, she said to her son: "Your father was so handsome and elegant at that time, he often brought me bread. ”
His mother's memory was revived, and Pu Cunxin burst into tears.
In 2020, Jia Quan's memory gradually recovered, she knew the people at home, and many past events could be remembered. Pu Cunxin and his wife were extremely pleased, and everyone around them said that Pu Cunxin had created a miracle with filial piety and patience.
According to the doctor, the memory of the elderly Jia Quan can be further revived, and Pu Cunxin has the confidence to lead her mother to get rid of cognitive barriers and let her return to a normal life.
Pu Cunxin and Zhu Jun
In October 2021, Pu Cunxin was already 64 years old, had long been a grandfather, and entered his old age. However, his mother was alive, and he did not dare to speak old, so he dyed the white hair on his head black and appeared in front of his mother in a full mental state.
As long as his mother was alive, Pu Cunxin felt that no matter how old he was, he would have to do filial piety to his mother and support her old age. Pu Cunxin used his old age to support his elderly mother's old age, and it was a good story in the show business circle!
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