"A woman is weak, but a mother is strong."
Mother is not only an identity, but also a responsibility. From the moment of pregnancy, there is a magical bond between the child and the mother.
When a woman gives birth to a child, she even walks through the ghost door. Nowadays, people's lives are stressful and the cost of survival is high, so many couples will choose certain contraceptives after having one or two children.
A considerable number of them choose to be ligatured.
Recently, in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, a video of a woman asking a doctor to give herself a sterilization just after giving birth stung the hearts of netizens.
Here's the thing, in the hospital's delivery room, a woman is lying on a delivery bed, and the woman has just given birth to her own child, and the doctor next to her is communicating with her.
The woman asked the doctor if she could give herself a ligature right away? After hearing this, the doctor advised: "The physical harm of a woman's sterilization is very great, have you not considered doing it to your husband?" ”
The woman listened and replied with only two words: "No." ”
The doctor continued to persuade: "You have given birth to him, and he actually has a small ligation injury." ”
The woman still said: "The average man does not seem to accept it." ”
The doctor was distressed about the mother, so he continued to try to persuade her: "Our woman's ligation is very damaged, and it is finished, if he wants it again, it is relatively simple to get a dredge." You're going to have to think about getting into big trouble again. ”
The woman insisted, "It's all right, doctor." ”
When the doctor saw that the persuasion was fruitless, he had to sigh helplessly and said, "Well, if you don't regret it." ”
As soon as the video was sent, netizens exploded. Most people expressed their distress: "This woman is so stupid, how come she doesn't know how to love herself a little more?" ”
Some netizens directly shared their experiences: "I discussed this issue with my husband, and he turned his face at that time. In the end, it is myself who loves more, whether others live or die. ”
Of course, many people said: "It seems that I have met a good husband, I told my husband that the woman's ligation should be opened, and he is ready to go to the ligation himself." ”
Seeing the story of this pregnant woman, I believe that everyone's heart is heavy. Before I got out of bed, I had to think about the ligature.
Because his husband could not accept men's sterilization, he cut off his own back road. From the doctor's words, it is not difficult to see that the doctor does not want this pregnant woman to regret it in the future.
Xiaobian wants to say: women should learn to think more about themselves, and without hurting each other, they still have to be responsible for their future lives.
If there are any problems in the future marriage, is it not the mother herself who will be hurt in the end?