Many people after giving birth to a second or third child, will think about whether to ligature by the way, especially those who have a caesarean section, thinking that this can save the experience of experiencing a painful experience after the fact, killing two birds with one stone, it seems to be the best choice, but sometimes it may not be so.
01 The mother-in-law gave birth to a third child by caesarean section, and the mother-in-law asked the doctor to "ligature by the way", and the husband's attitude was even more chilling
Ms. Chen did not mention the problem of postpartum ligation with her husband during pregnancy, and when she was about to give birth, when waiting for the operation in the ward, the next bed was also a three-child mother, when she suddenly talked to her husband about the problem of ligation, saying that it was whether to ligature by the way when the caesarean section was born, at that time, the husband of the pregnant woman just said that you look at it yourself, Ms. Chen remembered that her fetus was also a caesarean section, but she did not plan to do a ligation, and she learned when she was pregnant that it was relatively safer for men to do sterilization, and the risk was smaller.
However, the mother-in-law who was waiting on the side heard the other party's discussion, at this time the doctor just came in to advise the precautions, and the mother-in-law rushed forward to ask the doctor, "Doctor, after the caesarean section is done, you can help my daughter-in-law to do the ligature by the way, so that she will not have to do it in the future and suffer less." ”
Ms. Chen was stunned after listening to it, she did not ask for this, and then said, "I am not going to do it." "The doctor saw that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law did not discuss clearly and did not answer the call. The mother-in-law continued, "If you don't do it, you won't have to do it in the future, and if you have more trouble, it's better to do it all at once." ”
Ms. Chen was even more unhappy at this time, "Why do I do it, and your son will not do the ligature?" Many of my friends around me are done by my husband. The mother-in-law was dumbfounded, and then the husband spoke, "I will not do it, if you want to do it, you do it, don't expect me, this is your woman's business." ”
The doctors on the side could not listen, "What happened to your family, it also affected the state of the mother before the birth, and the mother found that there was pelvic adhesion when she checked before and could not be ligated." Although the doctor did not specify for men to do it, everyone could hear what the doctor meant.
Ms. Chen was also very disappointed in her husband, she did not expect that her husband would have such an attitude, and the mother-in-law and her husband stood on the same line, as if she were an outsider, and felt extremely sad.
02 Do women who have a caesarean section have to be sterilized together?
Under normal circumstances, if the mother chooses caesarean section, then after the end of the caesarean section, it is actually possible to ligature by the way, but there are some women who cannot do it, depending on the physical state of the mother, if the mother has pelvic adhesions or other abnormal conditions, then it is impossible to do ligation surgery.
Of course, if you have a need for a caesarean section, you can indeed suffer less than once, because when you do a caesarean section, you can get ligated by the way, there is no feeling, and postpartum recovery can also be less for a period of time. However, if there is no ligation during the caesarean section, and only after the birth is decided to do the ligation, then it is necessary to wait at least three months before going to the hospital for ligation surgery, otherwise it will affect the recovery of the uterus.
03 What is the difference between male ligature and female ligature?
Now doctors are more recommended for men to go to the sterilization, just like a few of my friends go to the hospital to consult the ligature problem, the doctor will ask the male opinion, and popularize the concept that male sterilization is safer.
Female ligation is mainly performed in bilateral fallopian tubes, which are ligated to prevent the fertilized egg from entering the uterus, thus achieving the effect of contraception. Male ligation is performed in the vasectomy tube, and the whole procedure is very simple, because the vasectomy is in the subcutaneous position of the scrotum, very shallow, so it is easy to find. In addition, there are no most important nerves and blood vessels near the vas deferens, so there will be no impact. Unlike women who are near the fallopian tubes are important attachments, so it is easier to have an impact.
In addition, the ligation incision for men is very small, there is no obvious wound, there is no obvious pain and bleeding symptoms, and some do not even need stitches. After the operation, you only need to rest for 1 hour, after which it is no different from usual.
Therefore, compared to male ligation, it is safer and has far fewer side effects, unlike women who may have a variety of side effects after ligation, such as menstrual abnormalities, uterine inflammation, ovarian abnormalities, pelvic effusion, adnexal inflammation, fallopian tube blockage and so on.
Of course, if neither spouse is willing to go to the sterilization, then it is best to use safety measures after childbirth. To be honest, the use of safety measures is the most traditional contraceptive method, but it is also the safest and most hygienic contraceptive method, and if the couple can use the safety measures every time, then it is also the most secure way.
But if you can't use safe measures, then it is best to take other contraceptives, after all, if there is no intention of pregnancy, if you are not carefully pregnant, then the harm to women will be greater.