The most innocent victims of war are none other than ordinary people.
When contradictions occur, the confrontation between the state and the state is not a key issue, it is not only a representation of the status of the state, but also a symbol of power.
But for the innocent people of the country, the joy of war is far less than the pain. The biggest thought in their minds is nothing more than plain peace.
Children of war countries vs children of peaceful countries, it is very painful to see the differences in these 3 pictures
Differences in entertainment: seesaws and cannon barrels
Children in wartime, whether they go to school or stay at home all day, will be trapped at home, after all, the safety factor of the home is higher, even if they are innocently implicated, there are parents around to protect.
Even so, the children can't stay at home safely, which is too boring for them. After repeated requests, their parents will still allow them to go out and play near their homes.
Among them, a little boy saw the discarded cannon barrel and suddenly thought, is this similar to the seesaw I once played? Sit up and feel it, it's pretty much the same!
Differences in diet: burgers and bread
Children in war countries are more threatened in terms of diet. They are all small children who are growing up, and if the daily intake of nutrients does not meet the requirements, stunting or stopping development is normal.
Moreover, the environment in which these children live every day is filled with smoke and smoke, and health problems cannot be guaranteed, which is why cholera is easy to cause after the war.
Not to mention eating a wealth of dishes, even some of them are already very good, adults have no time to take care of children, many children are to solve the problem of food and clothing.
Differences in mental states: ease and haze
Girls like to play family games are well known, although around the age of 3, both boys and girls like to play role-playing games, but little girls like it for a longer time.
Like the little girl of this war country, the more frightened she became, the tighter she would hold her beloved doll, which was no longer her toy, but her spiritual sustenance.
Moreover, we can see on the doll's face, all traces of purple potion, is this a girl imitating the behavior of adults? Every day she saw people covered with purple potions, and every day there were injured people.
These photos, see the parents sad and helpless
Children who do not understand the world will be hurt for a lifetime
When war comes, although children are the object of protection, they will be guarded by adults, but can the companionship of strangers and the companionship of parents be compared?
Even some children still watch their father rush to the battlefield and watch their relatives die, even if they don't know what they are doing, they can detect the sad emotions of adults and make associations.
In their tiny minds, they can't understand the cause of the upheaval, and they don't want to understand the behavior. After all, in the world of children, everything is very simple, and they are willing to believe that the world is infinitely beautiful. And isn't war very different from what they think?
80% of parents do not guide their children properly
In the face of dangerous situations, it is perfectly normal for children to have fear, because of lightning and thunder, because of the dilapidated environment, and even because they can't go out to play at will.
At this time, if parents can correctly guide their children and help them eliminate their fears, the child's psychology will not leave any negative impact. Let them feel safe enough to face life optimistically.
Most parents will bring negative energy to their children, so that children have the illusion that the sky is about to collapse. Fool yourself and scare yourself. Even some parents will feel that the children are noisy and do not want the children to add to their own chaos.
Isn't such a wrong behavior the dereliction of duty of parental education? Now that we are faced with such a crisis situation, we cannot change or avoid it, so why not seize the opportunity to feel it? Maybe it's a child's unforgettable memory!
Today's Topic:
If you were a parent in a war country, how would you guide and educate your children? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!