After Sun Zhuo returned home, Sun's father and mother desperately compensated him.
Although not all abducted children can be as lucky as Sun Zhuo and eventually return to their biological parents, as long as the adoptive parents treat them well, they are always good.
Moreover, after Sun Zhuo returned to Sun Zhuo's home, how the buyer treated Sun Zhuo's various behaviors was all exposed, not only from Sun Zhuo's statement, but also from the buyer's self-explosion.
"Sure enough, it is treated differently", Sun Zhuo's physical examination report "The truth is revealed"
Do you remember the sentence that my sister said to Sun Zhuo in "The Scene of Recognition": Are you so thin? Although the younger brother is half a head taller than his sister, he is thinner than his sister and is very stiff in his arms.
This sentence is also what the sister thinks in her heart, although it seems to be a polite sentence, but in fact, it reminds Sun Dad and Sun Mom, don't be overwhelmed by joy, you have to see the problems on Sun Zhuo's body.
Immediately after, Sun's father arranged a health examination for Sun Zhuo. In order to truly understand what kind of life my son has lived in the past, the mouth is unsubstantiated, or the test report is the most powerful.
It is okay not to check, and once you check it, let the child's past experience be "the truth out". The young man who is in adolescence has a serious lack of a variety of trace elements, which can not be caused overnight, but accumulated over the years.
After all, Sun Zhuo has been away from home for 14 years, and these 14 years can completely overdraft a child's health, and now his son can grow so tall, which is really a miracle.
After the truth came out, Sun Dad understood that all this was a disguise for the buyer
After seeing such a test result, Sun Dad's expression is very complicated, on the one hand, it is painful for his son's 14 years of painful experience, the child drifted outside, it is really a grievance, did not expect the buyer to treat the so-called "baby" in this way.
On the other hand, there is some sympathy for the buyer. The buyer's family situation is not very good, the family's life is indeed poor, which can be detected from their living environment, and it can be regarded as benevolent and righteous to be able to cultivate like this.
But no matter what the truth is, there is no need to dwell on it, after all, the past has already passed, and if you are grumpy about the past, it will not have a positive impact on Sun Zhuo.
Therefore, Sun Dad very calmly accepted Sun Zhuo's "crippled" body, in order to make up for the lack of nutrition in the body, Sun Dad made a lot of efforts to guide Sun Zhuo to exercise, eat nutritional products and so on.
When Sun Zhuo saw this reaction of Sun Dad, he would definitely be greatly touched in his heart, and his father's image of Wei An would be successful. Let the gap between father and son disappear immediately.
Parents lead by example and are an important part of their children's development
The influence of parents on children is subtle
It is said that children are a mirror of parents, and the vices of parents will basically be "inherited" to children. Although this vice is not recorded in the genes, the child will pass it on through imitation.
Because when children after the age of 2 know new things, they will secretly observe the behavior of their parents, how their parents solve problems, and how their parents express their emotions.
Even if the parents do nothing, after being seen by the child, it will become a behavioral stimulus and be deeply remembered in the heart. Wait until they encounter the same situation and react.
Moreover, they have not yet formed the correct three views, they cannot judge whether such behavior is suitable or inappropriate, they will take their parents as their own examples, how can the behavior of the role models be wrong?
Similarly, the positive energy behavior habits of parents have an impact on their children. Mild-mannered parents don't teach a sword-rattling child. None of their subconscious minds would let them do that.
Parents are a child's first teacher
In daily life, if parents find that their children have any bad behaviors or habits, they must intervene at the first time. But don't be indiscriminate, learn before you act.
Even casual behavior should be paid attention to, after all, the reason for many bad behaviors is out of curiosity, seeing others do this, they also want to try, once they have formed a habit, it is very difficult to change it.
However, parents should also pay attention to correcting their children's attitudes and methods, and guide them in a reasonable and well-founded manner, which must be more effective than coercion and inducement!
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