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Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

author:The Three Jewels of Poetry

Tang Ying was born in Shanghai in 1910, and her father, Tang Nai'an, was one of the first international students to receive "Gengzi Reparations" from the Qing government, and the first Western medicine student in China to study abroad.

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

After returning to China, he first worked as a doctor in the Beiyang Fleet, and later opened a private clinic, specializing in the treatment of high-gate nobles in Shanghai, and his connections and economic conditions were very good.

Her mother is also extraordinary, a first graduate of Jinling Women's University, and can be regarded as talented and good-looking.

Tang Ying, who came from such a family, was a typical celebrity of that era.

The Shanghai Zhongxi Girls' School where Tang Ying studied was the alma mater of the three sisters of the Song family and Zhang Ailing, a completely Westernized aristocratic school, but it was not a waste of time.

All the students, in addition to proficiency in English, dance, painting, opera, piano, and training them to become excellent salon hostesses

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

Tang Nai'an practiced Christianity, the basic doctrine of Christianity is monogamous and equal to men and women, and his daughter did not receive the ideological education of male superiority and inferiority from an early age, and her status was quite high.

The daily life of the Tang family is very exquisite, and later according to Tang Ying's sister, the family once invited four cooks at the best time, and their daily life is very particular about etiquette, even what time to drink afternoon tea, that can not be wrong.

The Tang family also has its own special tailor, Tang Ying also visited the famous Yong'an Department Store and other shopping malls at that time, seeing the fashionable style, she never bought it directly, but silently remembered the style, came back to say to her own tailor, and then added her own ingenious design.

Therefore, her clothes, known as the "Tang Ying style", each piece is a fine product that tabloid reporters talk about

Tang Ying, who was in 28 years, as soon as she appeared in the social circles, caused a huge sensation, and Lu Xiaoman in Beijing was called "Southern Tang And Northern Land"

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

But Tang Ying has a rationality and intelligence that Xiao Man can't reach, as well as a good character of not casually lending feelings.

She is beautiful, but she definitely does not use her own beauty to provoke the wrong person, absolutely not because of the praise of men and get carried away, she is more beautiful to herself.

Sun Yat-sen's secretary Yang Xing did not admire her and entrusted her painting teacher Liu Haisu to be a lobbyist, she was actually a little moved, but the family resolutely disagreed, and she finally gave up

For a man to fall out with the family, she felt that it was not worth it

Song Ziwen also loved her and wrote him countless love letters, but his father Tang Nai'an was unwilling, in the chaotic world, such a hot political figure, they did not want to get involved.

A wise and world-seeing father.

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

She doesn't have the high-profile love and love legends behind those beauties.

In 1927, she married Li Zufa, the son of Li Yunshu, a wealthy merchant in Shanghai, who was also an extraordinary person, he returned from studying in France as a municipal water conservancy engineer, a typical science and engineering man, and an introverted personality.

At the Women's Day consolation party held at the Central Theater, Tang Ying, together with Lu Xiaoman, performed the famous Kunqu opera "Peony Pavilion" and became the headlines of the newspapers at that time

She also opened at the Grand Theatre in Verdun and staged the English version of "Wang Baojun", creating a precedent for singing Peking Opera in English

But when she became popular in the newspaper, the atmosphere at home was extremely depressed and low, and the heart of the science and engineering man could not tolerate such a brazen wife

So, in 1936, when the son was six years old, they divorced

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

Later, she married Rong Xianlin, who was also an open, large family of international students, and their Westernized ideas and education methods were very much in line with her.

Rong Xianlin has a lively personality and diverse hobbies, such as literature and art, horseback riding, dancing, and he is proficient in everything.

They had the right personalities and the same direction, and she enjoyed life with him.

In 1948, Tang Ying followed her husband to the United States, on the other side of the ocean, and continued to be her senior beauty.

In the 70s, Tang Ying returned to China to visit her relatives, at that time, she was more than sixty years old, dressed in a green cheongsam, her eyes were flowing, she was still the beauty of the year, there was no old woman's old dragon bell, and there was no bumpy temper of the years

It's really a beauty who has been doing it for a lifetime

In her later years, Tang Ying, like every ordinary old lady, was proud of her three grandchildren, and she personally wrapped wontons and made pastries for them.

It was a calm and peaceful old lady

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

After Tang Ying's story is over, have you found that being a beauty for a lifetime is not so easy, and it must meet some conditions

One: look down on the praise of men, sober Tang Ying has the unique "carrying of the clear" of Shanghai women, the praise of men is like the perfume she wipes every day, smelling and smelling, absolutely not excited to drink him.

How many women can not pass this pass, such as Lu Xiaoman, who was on a par with Tang Ying at that time, and the praise of men is her rice, steamed bread, three meals a day, indispensable.

Two: never easily give affection, she is like a pine tree, straight and clean, the branches are clear, not like the weeping willow, there are many branches, everywhere merciless.

Beautiful as her, but there is no scandal, she knew early on, the so-called feelings, in fact, is also a part of the good temperament, the more used, the worse the temperament, she will never use the flood of emotions to disrupt her beautiful life.

Tang Ying teaches you: Among the four conditions necessary to be a senior beauty, the most important is self-discipline

Three: self-discipline, should not pay the feelings do not pay, should not eat a bite do not eat, but should eat bitter, should sweat but can not be stingy at all.

English, drama, piano, painting, look, which one, if you take it down, it is more than just a little bit of suffering.

Few women in history can be famous just by relying on a good skin bag, and most of them have the strength to fight with themselves that you can't see or pay.

Fourth: the past is not left, the future is not remembered.

Growing up children, inattentive husbands, unpredictable futures, chai rice oil and salt, parents in the short, these are the little women lock their brows, every day to face.

For the veteran beauty Tang Ying, these are like the dramas she staged, they are all needed by the plot, they must appear, they should face it, there is no need to have a lot of sorrows, and they are born out of a sallow face, full of anger.

In fact, why is this not the usual encounter of each of us ordinary women? It's just that we have less of her heart

How, girls, beauties, their five points are innate in appearance, five points are all polished, to "do", such a beauty, have you learned?

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