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Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

author:Your heart does it

In the midst of the chaos of love, the choices are different, and the feelings are different: tranquil, simple, cheerful, fierce...

As the leaders of Shanghai celebrities, celebrities must make themselves delicate and elegant, and cannot have half a scrawled. In the Republic of China, Tang Ying is the most beautiful landscape.

In the turbulent world of wind and rain, she bloomed proudly in the crowd and withdrew from the prosperity. She is in her world, living idyllicly, the wind and rain are not disturbed by the world, the struggle of human nature, the fire, the years are depressed, it seems that it has nothing to do with her. All she wanted was a deep bloom, and then the silence returned.

The eyebrows are picturesque and elegant. It's her.

Ling Bo micro-steps, Luo Socks dust. It's her.

The posture is beautiful, and the smile is like a flower. It's her.

Like a frightening, graceful dragon. It's her.

Rong Yao Qiu Ju, a variety of styles. It's her.

Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

According to Tang Ying's sister, Ms. Tang Weihong, now eighty-seven years old, there were not many young talents who pursued Tang Ying. Among the many talents, Song Ziwen is unimaginable. After Song Ziwen ran into a wall in front of the old lady of the Sheng family in his early years, he also once sent a "heartbeat signal" to Tang Ying. However, Tang Ying's father did not agree, he did not advocate that his children interact with people in the political circles, and he could not tolerate his daughter marrying a politician and becoming an appendage of politics. Unexpectedly, in the end, his concerns really happened.

Tang Ying's brother Tang Yinglu felt that his father was sophisticated, and did not care about what his parents said, not only had close contact with Song Ziwen, but also often brought him home.

Often this is when the story begins, in a picturesque silence.

Tang Ying, who was just in good age, soon let Song Ziwen fall in love. In his own way, he began his love offensive against her, and the incomparably hot love letters were constantly presented on Tang Ying's dresser. He may have thought that the strong heart and the words of affection would surely knock on her door. But this relationship was opposed by her family, Tang Ying knew that her parents were the best for her, she decided to break up very decisively and was very neat, so she also loved herself in emotional matters.

Often at this time, the story develops and suddenly changes.

In 1931, Tang Washulu was mistakenly killed by Song Ziwen's enemies.

Often at this time, the story ends and the flowers fall silently.

One did not want to bother again, feeling guilty and grateful; one was overwhelmed and helpless to turn around.

Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

The world knows the love-hate relationship between Miss Sheng Jiaqi and Song Ziwen, but the love affair between Tang Ying and Song Ziwen is not very familiar. Perhaps, Tang Ying knows what kind of years and months are suitable for blooming; perhaps, Tang Ying knows what kind of man is worthy of entrustment; perhaps, Tang Ying knows, what kind of dust edge, is willing to go in. Because Tang Ying handled the love-hate entanglement too clearly and too indifferently, there were fewer stories of a hundred turns. And people also lack the place to catch the wind and shadows, and the talk after the meal.

In her life, the love of men and women is very simple, very plain.

In her most beautiful years, she married Li Zufa, the son of Li Yunshu, a wealthy merchant in Shanghai. At least, it seems that they are a door-to-door pair, a perfect match. Whether she was willing or not, in the chaotic world, she entrusted her young self to him and lived the luxurious life that many women dreamed of.

At the beginning, she also felt comfortable, still maintaining the pomp and circumstance of social flowers, and continued to live with unlimited scenery. Li Zufa returned from his studies in France and worked as a waterway engineer at the time. He is introverted, likes to be quiet, does not like to communicate, does not like his wife's butterfly life, and does not like her photos to appear in newspapers and magazines. Because of the difference in personality, this so-called good marriage has finally vanished. In 1937, they broke the line of marriage, and their 6-year-old son Li Mingjue followed his father and later became a famous stage artist in the United States.

Personality discord is also the same.

Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

After the divorce, Tang Ying was more successful in the social arena. Years passed, and she chose to continue to be free and fluttering.

Around this time, Tang Ying met Mr. Yung Hsien Lin, who worked at AIA Insurance Company. Mr. Rong is a Cantonese native with a lively personality and diverse hobbies, horse riding, dancing, fishing... They are also lovers of literature and art, who gradually fall in love and gradually forget the outside world.

Mr. Rong's uncle, Rong Hong, the father of Chinese international students, is also an open-ended, large family of international students. Such a living environment allows Tang Ying to find an atmosphere similar to her own home. Mr. Rong ranks seventh in the family, so he is known as "Rong Qi".

They married in Singapore around 1937, then went to the United States, and returned to Shanghai around 1939 to live upstairs from Dennis's apartment, where the Nanjing barbershop was located. At this time, Shanghai was already an isolated island in the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, the power of the Japanese was expanding day by day, many foreign friends had returned to China, and Tang Ying naturally became a good wife and mother at home, and a husband and son.

Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

After a thousand sails, she finally waited for this man who understood her sorrow and joy. Thousands of people in the world are very lucky to meet people who love each other and understand each other.

Of course, her emotional path did not make her lose her temperament at that time, but she still lived as delicately as before. She and her husband gave birth to a total of 5 children, although she has been a mother, but the elegant temperament is still there.

In her later years, Tang Ying was a contented old lady. Like many ordinary old women, she was proud of her son and her three grandchildren. She took her grandchildren to the theater, watched the movies, and came back to eat her own dim sum. "Work at sunrise, rest at sunset." A day of life, with a sweet and happy breath.

Finally, in 1986, Tang Ying died quietly, without disturbing the people around him. Her departure was calm and calm, and it still made people feel as if she had started a wonderful life somewhere.

Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

We all know that if a woman really wants to live a very bright life, she must learn to be independent and make her life more exciting in the future. Of course, there is also a very important one, that is, self-esteem and self-love, for emotional things we must be simple, do not drag mud and water.

As we all know, a woman like this, then this life is really too exquisite. Then why is Tang Ying not as famous as Lu Xiaoman? In fact, it is also because there are not many love-hate entanglements in her life. In fact, such a woman is a smart woman, and her understanding of love is also very simple. If you fall in love with someone it is a lifetime, so there were a lot of people who pursued her at that time, and she chose the person she loved the most and loved her all her life. Although there have been two marriages in this life, it is also a fairy couple with one of them, which makes people envious.

In contrast, a woman with a graceful posture and good talent- Lu Xiaoman. Her whole life was born for love, obsessed with roses, vigorous. Dust edge, no trace. Although there is no trace, it is also unforgettable.

Lu Xiaoman and the young Wang Geng formed a dust relationship, looking like a beautiful woman with a talented woman, but finally said goodbye to each other. Like fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. Wang Geng was too busy with affairs to understand the bodhisattva and desolation of the woman in the boudoir. She didn't want to do that, but there was nothing she could do. At this time, Lu Xiaoman, who had not yet divorced, met and fell in love with the romantic poet Xu Zhimo. In the end, the two broke through the world, identified themselves as each other's soul mates, and married. Although this love is beautiful, there are countless people who raise their eyebrows.

Tang Ying: Have fun when you play, be calm when you love, and never lose your mind from a socialite to a housewife

Figure | Lu Xiaoman

The end of the story he went, without a trace; she remained, endlessly desolate. Since then, Lu Xiaomansu has been dressed, closed doors, no children and no daughters under his knees, no cares.

Therefore, girls must learn to love themselves in order to live a dashing and beautiful life.

In today's parlance, it's probably: "People who are more beautiful than me are not as smart as me; people who are smarter than me are not as beautiful as me." This is Tang Ying's pride, and it is also the unforgettable root of the old Shanghai communication queen.

Floating light, is the gathering of days and dispersions, is life. No matter who it is, it is always necessary to say goodbye to this ethereal red dust in a certain month of a certain year. At that time, we will understand that the prosperity and depression, the sorrow and joy are floating, but when the smoke and clouds wake up, we are already on the other side of the distant shore.

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