Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Family affection, how many people are difficult to give up, is how many people are the most profound wound. It is said that family affection is a permanent relationship in the world, and in the end it was found:
Between family affection, the most permanent and unchanging thing is only the relationship, and has nothing to do with love.
In this real society, some people often reject the exposition of the reality of family affection as completely negative energy.
In fact, at the moment of materialistic desires, the relatives between relatives have long exceeded the purity of the previous family affection.
In such a reality, the person who deeply identifies with it must be a person who has experienced the pain of the cone of the heart or has seen the raggedness of family affection; the person who cannot understand is because of the care of the god of luck, and the person who has not lost his steadfastness and happiness in the family affection.
In real life, no matter how high you expect from a relationship, you will be whipped by the relationship. And family affection, starting from a person's life, the relationship runs through the entire life, so that people can feel the pain of suffocation in front of reality.
Desire, value, and interest, within the scope of self-control, are the teachers who spur a person to self-motivation. Beyond self-control, they are weapons that destroy what they perceive as strong relationships.
It seems that the warmest family affection is the helplessness of countless people to swallow their hearts and grievances into their stomachs. The more relatives, the more greedy and inadequate, the more undesirable, the more we must always prevent our light from being covered...
The reality of affection lies in "equal exchange"! There is no exception between siblings and between parents and children! The "equivalent exchange" of affection is the most authentic!
Don't believe this!
Parents & Children:
If you can't "carry the weight forward" for your children, your children will respond to their own feeding support with the psychological imbalance caused by not giving money and not helping to bring the baby.
So far, it is really rare to see some parents who have retired and can spend their old age freely according to their own wishes.
The vast majority of parents are "dancing" with their next grandchildren under the premise that they are already physically exhausted. In this way, it is still because of the way of taking the baby and material payment, and can not get the real satisfaction of the children.
Even, in the empty nest life of countless elderly people, wanting to talk to their children has become a luxury.
When parents have no "value" that can be exchanged with their children, all their thoughts and worries have become the "indifference" in the eyes of their children - you can't give me anything, where do I have time to take care of your mother-in-law?
Between the hands and feet:
Between good siblings, love and affection is not a drama on the face, but a mutual tolerance and humility from the heart.
But we see that between the hands and siblings at present, most of them are red in the face for their own acres and three points of land. In particular, some business transactions, money-tied hands and siblings, will be because of gains and losses, and the enemy to see each other is extremely red-eyed and old and dead do not interact, deduced to the extreme.
The young man's old age is shameless, and the brothers and sisters stab each other for their own selfishness...
These are all synonymous with the coolest in today's society!
In the face of the current reality of family affection, how should the elderly treat themselves?
Don't pin your hopes entirely on your children, because you may be disappointed;
Pensions and former savings, do not give them all to your children, because you may condone white-eyed wolves;
Don't say that your children are good or bad, in addition to the ugliness of the family, you may also punch yourself in the face;
Talk less;
Keep a good attitude, keep yourself away from illness to the greatest extent possible, and don't mix with your children's private affairs.
How should people face the reality of siblings at the moment?
Maintain a reasonable healthy distance and do not go too close;
Don't get involved in too many private affairs;
Don't do things that are in the interest of your siblings.
Don't open up completely after expecting your feet, you will be sad;
Don't tell your siblings about your achievements, which may incur jealousy;
It's like ordinary friends to socialize.
People, in the present moment of reality, it is always right to face all people or things in a realistic way!
People, learn to be kind to yourself! And relying entirely on yourself is the best way to be kind to yourself.
Rely on yourself, food, clothing, shelter and transportation. Relying on oneself, accompanied by a good attitude, is the salvation without the need for others.
Between relatives, if you are not strong enough, you are also a "person who speaks softly" without status.
Money is a person's greatest confidence. With money, you can live the way you like, and you can associate according to your favorite circles.
With a strong heart, you can selectively accept people or things according to your wishes. In the face of any negative person or thing, you can take it lightly.
No matter what kind of relationship a person faces, as long as he knows how to start from a realistic point of view, he will not be bothered by any relationship.
Reality is not to ask you to only be selfish and materialistic, but to understand that without violating morality and conscience, you should make yourself as strong as possible from the inside out, and you do not have to rely on and depend on anyone.
In this way, which kind of relationship you want to manage, you can exchange it for something of equal value to continue the so-called "love". Otherwise, you don't have something worth exchanging, and you can't "manage" a good relationship!
Under the desire, the ugliness of the human heart and human nature is vividly displayed. In the face of such a phenomenon, people can only make themselves feel better if they are kind to themselves and positive reality.
If you don't have something in hand that is being exchanged for value, don't have high hopes for any relationship. Even if it is family affection, it is the same!
When you don't have an equivalent exchange in your hand, don't overestimate any relationship!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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