Zhengzhou Traditional Chinese Medical Hall: 1. Abandonment and neglect of parents. Couples divorce, some do not pay enough attention to the children, do not want to assume the guardianship obligations of the children, and even push the children around. Although some parents accept their children, they do not really take responsibility, are indifferent to their children, and even scold. Such "abandonment" and cold treatment, children can not feel the love of parents, "I am a child that no one wants", seriously dampening the personality and self-esteem of adolescents, easy to produce inferiority complex.
2. Emotional deficits. Teenagers not only need material enjoyment, but also strong emotional needs. Children of single-parent families, either without fatherly love or without maternal love, are heartbroken. When other students talked about how their parents cared for and cared for themselves, they were filled with pain and frustration. I am a different kind of person, and I can't compare with others, and I naturally have inferiority.
3. The impact of the family's economic situation. The daily consumption of contemporary middle school students is on the rise, and the comparison psychology is strong. Some children of single-parent families, because of lack of money, do not dare to participate in class parties, such as birthday parties, travel or whatever, always have low self-esteem, so they have low self-esteem.
4. Educational mistakes. In family education, some parents lack due patience and the method is simple. They put on a paternalistic style of "I have the final say" and even think that "soldiers who surrender without fighting" are considered to be "soldiers who surrender without fighting." Some parents and the elderly manage too much, and children who enter puberty develop their self-awareness quickly in adulthood and they want to be independent. This need is not met, their self-esteem is frustrated, or they are "taken care of" for a long time, developing willfulness, poor self-care ability, and lack of perseverance to overcome difficulties. Some people have a withdrawn personality, excessive self-closure, and when interacting with their peers, they will feel that "nothing can be done well", resulting in inferiority complex.
5. Prejudices in social evaluation. Divorced families often become the focus of some people's discussion, "XXX's mother ran away with other men", "XXX's father hooked up with XXX again", neighbors and classmates talk nonsense, some students and parents reject them, saying that the children of this family are not healthy in thinking, which has cast a huge shadow on the child's psychology, and the inferiority complex is formed unconsciously.
In addition to the above aspects, there are other factors that can also lead to the formation of inferiority complex, such as physiological factors, intellectual factors, communication skills and so on. The formation of inferiority complex is directly related to the individual psychological quality of students. The same encounters and setbacks, strong-willed people can survive, weak-willed people will be knocked down by difficulties, unable to correctly understand themselves, and inferiority complex is increasing day by day.